First of all, u not making best use of analogies. I'm talking about people skills and that's not gender specific. U brought up example of a female martial artist/wrestler and how she may tap out some men but if a man with the normal strength of a man works out...he can body her. That doesn't have anything to do with social skills.
Good social skills come from ur natural personality along with social conditioning and environment. This doesn't have anything to do with being a male or female. There are extroverted males and females as well as males and females who are introverted or in between (ambiverts). There are some women out here who have excellent interpersonal skills along with confidence but their femininity isn't in question. U trying to make social skills a man's trait when it isn't only applicable to males and folks with high testosterone.
There are women out here who are funny, creative and interesting. Those characteristics aren't gender specific either. I could understand if u meant a more dominant aggressive persona being tied to masculinity but being social, funny, interesting, creative and gregarious??? U reaching far with this one bruh.
Both male and female energies are necessary and generally aren't the same but social skills, being funny, creative and interesting doesn't correspond to a person's gender. For example, there are queens of comedy just like there are kings of comedy. All the males and females are funny in their own ways...but we humans and have preferences so we may favor one comedian over another...but they all are entertaining.
Female comedian's exist but there is no female equivalent to Richard Pryor, Eddie Murphy, Patrice O'Neal, Chris Rock, George Carlin, Jerry Seinfeld, or any other male comedian. In general, if I want to see good comedy I'm seeing a male perform. There are talented women singers and performers, there is no female equivalent to Miles Davis, James Brown, Michael Jackson, or Prince.
I'm not just talking about sales, I'm talking about people who
change the game. People who have swagger, who make trends, who are emulated by everyone male and female.
That is the
larger point, but to bring it back...
There are some dope ass girls out there, but they are most likely a reflection of the men they've been around (brothers, fathers, friends) and they are pretty rare.
Finding a woman who has swagger, can bounce a conversation, has good timing, is humorous, understands context, is frivolous, and so on is really difficult.
That's why they like to be around us so much. Boys grow up learning all of these skills (unless they are outcasts, and even then), girls do not...they do not
need to in order for men to get with them.
Anyone who has actually been in a relationship understands how girls always emulate and jack your swagger. They adopt your lingo, your mannerism, your likes and dislikes. Hell, that's one of the things we like most about 'em (how much they like us).
I don't understand how this is even a conversation.
