I feel you.
Data has black women leading the way in abortions, in full and per rate. Weren't we calling it genocide of the black community not too long ago?
https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/71/ss/ss7110a1.htm?s_cid=ss7110a1_w
So either brehs are telling these women to get abortions and they are listening or they are deciding for themselves. We even have examples of famous brehs caught up in bullshyt because they were pushing their women to get abortions (Tristan Thompson).
Your point doesn't line-up with reality.
People do actually but they get slandered to hell and back and part of the reason why we have this odd and weird idea that if a kid is provided for financially, they will be fine. I've seen this nonsense promoted on this site by women even. Finally, it's mostly men that complain about these kinds of men in the first place. That whine and literally rage to the point of violence about Pookies and hood nikkas. And what do we do? We collectively make fun of these men and call them squares, assuming when we're not calling them incels.
The problem is that the opposite of all this is often called empowerment. Who are the ones calling it that? That's who you should be looking at and honestly, attacking. To put it bluntly. male feminists (male hyenas, if you will) and a decent share of women.
That said, I agree that the problem is cultural/socioeconomic in nature. The problem is that there is no inherent consistency to the overall idea concerning this issue from a lot of people. Talk to some of these people and you'll want to punch them repeatedly. Not because you disagree but because they aren't making sense and are hypocritical. The same people that will be saying that money is enough to raise a kid and that men are not needed will be the same ones deriding the lack of a male figure in the household and claiming money is not enough. There's a schizophrenic approach to community and that shyt has to end and those people have to be called out, consistently.
It’s just frustrating.
We really need all hands on deck, but I understand why some ppl just say F it and take care of their own.
At this point, as long as none of the younger girls in my family come home pregnant and none of the guys get anyone pregnant OOW, it’s whatever. Just find like-minded ppl and stay in your enclave.