Coli females ask for a male perspective on relationships thread

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I decided to start this thread because I've seen a couple of questions pop up in the dealing with women thread and the ladies should have an opportunity to get a male perspective in their own arena. Ask away and we'll be as real as possible.
 

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Hopefully this goes better than the other thread. It would be nice to keep things civil and not civil war. We shall see.
 

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General question to get some dialogue going.

What are some expectations of men now a days.

I ask this because from talking to my male friends and some of their expectations contradict themselves.

Seem like most of you all want a whore in the bed, homemaker, and a career woman who is subservient.
 

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Hopefully this goes better than the other thread. It would be nice to keep things civil and not civil war. We shall see.
I felt things in that other thread were civil, for the most part. No name-calling or emotions being caught.
 

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I felt things in that other thread were civil, for the most part. No name-calling or emotions being caught.

Things were civil in the other thread, but I started this one just so the women can have their own arena and men can have their own arena and it keeps the threads from getting off track.
 

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I felt things in that other thread were civil, for the most part. No name-calling or emotions being caught.

It had a snarky ass us vs. them mentality with stank of the other place.

And to touch on Golden's inquiry; men can be just as contradictory as women. We do want the male equivalent of Tupac in a Business Suit, but that's very rarely touched on in these discussions.
 

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I've asked it on the other site and i'll ask it here:What role exactly do you ' the individual man' play in a relationship.
 

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It had a snarky ass us vs. them mentality with stank of the other place.

And to touch on Golden's inquiry; men can be just as contradictory as women. We do want the male equivalent of Tupac in a Business Suit, but that's very rarely touched on in these discussions.

Not every woman wants a thug. Very big misconception.

I never dated a thug or gangsta and dont enjoy the company of folks who the only thing they can bring to the table is a good pelvic thrust.
 

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Not every woman wants a thug. Very big misconception.

I never dated a thug or gangsta and dont enjoy the company of folks who the only thing they can bring to the table is a good pelvic thrust.

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Did I say that? You all are too defensive. I was actually using the whole "Tupac in a Business Suit" analogy to highlight male hypocrisy because we look for the same thing at times with our contradictory criteria.
 

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Did I say that? You all are too defensive. I was actually using the whole "Tupac in a Business Suit" analogy to highlight male hypocrisy because we look for the same thing at times with our contradictory criteria.

I got your point. I just wanted to make my point. I'm civil Mr.Liggins no harm.
 
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