Clown gets on FB talking about single mothers are for grown men only

Diyhai

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yall more emotional than females :smh: :mjlol:
he just made points about what u should expect if u date one
it is grown man shyt
nygga was just saying u have to be more mature and understanding of their situation :yeshrug:
If u dont fukk with single mothers why u emotional about other nyggas that do :usure:
why u mad at another thats willing to do that
I couldn't see myself doing it but u never know :manny:
 

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He's not a bad person, but comes off as a little judgmental. I respect the hustle. I think he has a NY times bestseller.

agreed

Nothing but basic shyt he saying, Relationships has to many variables,, For one he sounds like he is talking about mem with no kids dating a chick with kids,, which I think would cause friction,, then you have the number of kids, Age, kids attitude towards the man etc.
A woman with kids is basically a different set of problems from a woman with no kids. :lawd:
 

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If a man genuinely wants to court and build a relationship with a single mother there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. The problem we keep running into is guys throwing jabs at the manhood and character of men who aren't interested in single mothers. They could simply say "I have no problem dating single mothers" and it would be all good, but they just gotta throw in that jab for those extra likes and shares. It's shameless transparent lip service.

I agree, no one is forced to date anyone if they don't want to. He's kinda wrong for this video to be honest. I'm not gonna tell a bunch of nameless faceless masses of men WHO they should and should not date. Why is this even a topic/issue anyway? People should date who they want. Furthermore not all single mothers were hoez and alot of women with no kids are hoez and also many have had abortions(or multiple). To each their own and this should be on a case by case basis. His video is unneccessary.
 

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I don't see anything wrong with a young 20 something man not wanting a woman with kids. a young childless woman doesn't need to be with a man with kids either unless she's ready to settle down. Kids change everything and it's understandable to not want to deal with that. However once you hit 30 the game changes. Most people of a certain age have kids so you have to be willing to accept that or be willing to date someone who probably has some glaring flaw that made them end up single and childless. I don't know any attractive desirable people over the age of 40 that don't have kids. Doesn't mean they're bad people just means the relationship didn't work out and since most people will have had at least one serious relationship at the age it only makes sense to expect kids to be part of the picture. You can date younger people but that paranoia ain't no better than worrying about the ex baby daddy popping back up.
 

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It's hard out here for 30+ brehs with no kids, if you restrict yourself to dating women your age or older.

and here in lies another dilemma

on another note(kinda off topic) its a can of worms, you either have to pick money or family, you can't have it all

People who had kids early get freedom from that responsibility early.

Have no kids and become financially solid(which is never gauranteed) in mid to late 30s and you're approaching 50 with a 10 year old.and 60s with a kid in college possibly
I know an older woman who makes 6 figures and no kids, and desperately wants to get married(she's 41) AND have kids still.

on the original topic...again to each their own.
 

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and here in lies another dilemma

on another note(kinda off topic) its a can of worms, you either have to pick money or family, you can't have it all

People who had kids early get freedom from that responsibility early.

Have no kids and become financially solid(which is never gauranteed) in mid to late 30s and you're approaching 50 with a 10 year old.and 60s with a kid in college possibly
I know an older woman who makes 6 figures and no kids, and desperately wants to get married(she's 41) AND have kids still.

on the original topic...again to each their own.
i had this argument with someone
but i still dont see the advantage of having kids early
your more likely to have more bread and wisdom to give ur kids when ur older
plus partying and shyt when ur young makes more sense
not tryna be at a 40 and over club happy my kids grown
 

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i had this argument with someone
but i still dont see the advantage of having kids early
your more likely to have more bread and wisdom to give ur kids when ur older
plus partying and shyt when ur young makes more sense
not tryna be at a 40 and over club happy my kids grown

You know whats best for you of course and one size doesn't fit all. I;ve seen people who had kids early(and still were financially stable) and traveling in their 50s, but some people are not ready for early family which makes sense also. It is not for everyone, just like waiting late is not for everyone(health issues, life span..one could die childless tomorrow although there is NOTHING wrong with that at all IMO). Tomorrow is never promised and given that each individual must walk their appropriate path.
 
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