Clown gets on FB talking about single mothers are for grown men only

[#1 pick]

Every situation is different though..

Some women have multiple kids by 1 baby father and it didnt work out...They shouldnt be lumped in with single mothers who just be wilding out here

This site tends to lump all single mother situations into one when its clearly not like that..Not saying you do personally

I do agree that young black men in developmental stages shouldn't be in these situations...And that should be stated..

I think both genders have a tendency to throw stereotypes on each other. I am vicious to hoodrats. I think they are Devils on par with cacs.

 

[#1 pick]

To be fair, I think Derrick Jaxn is only 27 years old. So maybe it's just him being young and not having experience.

Naw, he's pandering and blending it in with some truth. The issue is the pandering is obvious to us men.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

@ having a New York Times Bestseller being some sort of accomplishment when that drunken bytch Snookie has that same accomplishment

Do you have a NY times bestseller book

 

[#1 pick]

I can't respect dudes "hustle" because he's nothing but a charlatan pandering to a core group of mostly broken, defective single mothers to garner side p*ssy & profit.

Jaxn's general advice is dangerous for impressionable young teenage/adult black men because many don't understand or grasp the various intricacies & dynamics that go along with dating most single mothers which could possibly stunt their future progress, goals or even ruin their lives.

While I hate to say this is true, it is in more situations than not. I know of situations where it's not but I will say this. A lot of those women were terrible decisions and growth stunts regardless if they have a kid or not.

 

[O.G.B]

What part of raising another man's child not being a reflection one's level of manhood is so hard to understand?

I personally know some real juvenile ass knucklehead ass n!ggas who are with single mothers, helping raising her seed - and that sh!t has not made them any more of a "grown man" than a man who prefers not to go that route.

Exactly! And lot of these men still end up in dysfunctional situations based on the relationships with single mothers which are sometimes no better or actually worse than when the single mother was alone by herself plus the man eventually figures out all their time & effort was essentially wasted without gaining real short or long term tangible benefits for themselves in or out of the relationship .

 

[O.G.B]

While I hate to say this is true, it is in more situations than not. I know of situations where it's not but I will say this. A lot of those women were terrible decisions and growth stunts regardless if they have a kid or not.

This is why I emphasized mostly or most in my previous comment because there are some good hearted, sincere single mothers with their head on straight who may have had some extenuating life situations or circumstances to which they aren't to blame, but these cases are for the most part not the norm.

 

[hatechall]

It's hard out here for 30+ brehs with no kids, if you restrict yourself to dating women your age or older.

 

[Mugenight]

Another reason to take shyt most dudes say with a grain of salt.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

Welp, I guess I won't be a grown man then.

 

[IVS]

In the age of trannies and these operations, people are going to have a new found respect for single mothers, and women with stretch marks, because they'll be call signs of a real woman.

Y'all gon be fuxing fake p*ssy usedtobean!kka b!shes, trying to figure out why your boo cannot have children...not knowing:

 

[8====D]

date women who have shown there horrible decision makers

grown man shyt brehs

Facts.

 

[richaveli83]

I can't take anyone seriously who posts these memes or/and videos on social media from the likes of Tony Gaskins Jr, Farrah Gray, etc. There is nothing evil or wrong about a man being a stepfather to children but don't try to shame a man or attack a man's masculinity because he chooses to pursue childless women.

 

[SheWantTheD]

This is bullshyt. He spoke some truth about time management and having to plan things out beforehand.. but he's lowkey saying that if you can't handle a single mother then you are less of a man for it.

And trust me, best believe she's still fukking the father of her children, don't fool yourself.

FOH wit that boolshiit

 

[Diondon]

I knew it was that dark, muscled up nikka before I got in here
Dude is hustling, I aint even mad

 

[posterchild336]

Some of these single baby mothers are single for a reason ... I am reading the comments of all the women co-signing when they are the main reason that some of them are single now