Clown gets on FB talking about single mothers are for grown men only

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You know whats best for you of course and one size doesn't fit all. I;ve seen people who had kids early(and still were financially stable) and traveling in their 50s, but some people are not ready for early family which makes sense also. It is not for everyone, just like waiting late is not for everyone(health issues, life span..one could die childless tomorrow although there is NOTHING wrong with that at all IMO). Tomorrow is never promised and given that each individual must walk their appropriate path.
This one for the most part sounds good. This is outlier stuff like a mother fukker. Its probably not no studies on this but most cats having kids early esp in their teens they for the most part done. Depends on what "financially stable" means to you cause that definition be a sliding scale. I do agree its not a one size fits all though.
 

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Stop trying to turn dating single mothers into some sort of honor.

At best, her man died in combat. She was widowed. At worst you were just put onto the court in the 4th quarter with a 20 point deficit, and everyone
else is tired as fukk already. You bright eyed and ready to ball out on a game that wasn't meant for you.

There is no honor in picking up after a failed relationship. There is no honor in choosing a woman with kids over one without kids.
If you do it, ok, but there is no extra special prize for getting with someone who has the human embodiment of mileage in her care.
Notice the people who most identify with his message are single mothers who probably wish they had a do-over on being a single mother.
Only one person I've ever met said while they love their child if they had it to do over wouldn't have had a kid. I can respect that but to most people that sounds harsh saying you wouldn't want your kids in a different lifetime. I bet if we being honest its more cats like that out here.
 

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I'm old and I still won't date a single mother. I mean they only way I could and their kid got to be in college out the house. I could never date a chick with a little kid. That is just a nightmare IMO.
 

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Talk about black love
Talk about black marriage
Talk about helping black children

But have a OOW child with a non black woman brehs:francis:

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He took his instagram post down after suffering backlash.
 

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Talk about black love
Talk about black marriage
Talk about helping black children

But have a OOW child with a non black woman brehs:francis:

pbrnScMg.png


He took his instagram post down after suffering backlash.
dude is a fraud, who used black women to get him money.... salute to him for it... in this internet age, you gotta find a quick hustle and he hustled these dumb broads daily... meanwhile nikkas like us was telling him how fake and phoney it was from day 1, while they steady told us "not every guy thinks like you"


yes..... yes they do
 

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:russell:I can have love for the community but still not want bullshyt in my personal life. Anyhoo I don't have a problem with dating a single mom (1 kid) but she damn well better have her shyt together.
 
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