Ciara is trending on Twitter and catching flack for apparently being a hypocrite

[Mirin4rmfar]

Reposting so this doesn't get lost in the sauce of goofy posts.

There are many women out there who are by all means "wife material"

No kids
Educated
Good career
Homeowner/own place
Attractive

Yet they are single as hell... and plenty of y'all make fun of these women... call them past their prime or crazy because they didn't settle for shiftless nikkas. Say "GMB" and proclaim that you don't want to settle down.

Something doesn't compute here

Do you date these types of women? I went on a date with a Cape Verde chick...No kids, Educated, Good career, got her own spot..attractive...I felt like I had to jump through hoops. Truth is, I would have legit put the clamps and I have no kids, good career, my spare time is either spent gaining new tech skills or hooping. She made me jump through hoops..I looked her up on facebook, she got 4K friends..dudes on her list all have similar qualities..she got options but women who have a slight chance of access to dudes way above you wait and wait and wait hoping these dudes finally cuff them but forget these dudes have millions of options. When I saw a former NBA player on her friends list, I was like fukk it lol.

They not single because they can't find decent dudes they are single because they want the whole package to settle down for them so they wait while putting decent dudes on the wait list.


Had this other fine ass Jamaican chick I dated for a month. Same thing. She told her best friend was a male. Played for the Seahawks.....I low key knew this was a dude she was waiting for to make her official...good luck with that as football players run through hos lol.

 

[Azul]

Keep thinking there a bunch of perfect women with reasonable standards in men, but, still single.

We literally have a campaign around men leaving women alone in public. But, they have a hard time finding a good man?

Women legit pick "standards" out that equate to a perfect man, that will never be a problem at any level ever.

They want a tall, sexually skilled, wealthy, corporate, attractive, romantic, "makes time for time," loyal, no kids, no criminal record, etc.

This man doesn't exist and if he does, he's not on the market in his 30's or he's on the market and not looking to settle with one woman (and plenty women will oblige him)

The best man I know of makes decent money, but, he works all the time, is religious (a lot of things "liberal" women want to do won't fly with him) and he's traditional, but, his wife still works and does a big share taking care of there multiple kids.

This is a real life relationship. Not this fairy tale nonsense these women think they are owed because they have a degree and decent job.

For starters, I didn't describe anyone as perfect. Secondly (and I know this may came across as rude my apologies) but your argument is a bit staccato.

No one is referring to "street harassment" nor does out correlate with what is being discussed.

It seems as though ppl (I will include men here) are being lambasted for for desiring a certain type of relationship. If your homeboy who has a few degrees stated that he wants a wife who is intelligent (but may not have multiple degrees herself), ambitious, attractive, well traveled, and has her own career (or on the path to it) would you chastise him? Would you call his desire a "fairy tale?"

 

[Azul]

Do you date these types of women? I went on a date with a Cape Verde chick...No kids, Educated, Good career, got her own spot..attractive...I felt like I had to jump through hoops. Truth is, I would have legit put the clamps and I have no kids, good career, my spare time is either spent gaining new tech skills or hooping. She made me jump through hoops..I looked her up on facebook, she got 4K friends..dudes on her list all have similar qualities..she got options but women who have a slight chance of access to dudes way above you wait and wait and wait hoping these dudes finally cuff them but forget these dudes have millions of options. When I saw a former NBA player on her friends list, I was like fukk it lol.

They not single because they can't find decent dudes they are single because they want the whole package to settle down for them so they wait while putting decent dudes on the wait list.

What is a decent dude? I'm not trying to be funny here.

Yes, there are women who have silly "standards" but the idea that you should go into a marriage because someone is "decent" and gives you a little attention makes me understand why the divorce rate is so high.

 

[Duke Dixon]

I just noticed that in Love Me 50 said, "Let me find out R Kelly fukking round with Bow Wow bytch", then 50 fukked around with Bow Wow's bytch

 

[Easy-E]

It seems as though ppl (I will include men here) are being lambasted for for desiring a certain type of relationship. If your homeboy who has a few degrees stated that he wants a wife who is intelligent (but may not have multiple degrees herself), ambitious, attractive, well traveled, and has her own career (or on the path to it) would you chastise him? Would you call his desire a "fairy tale?"

Intelligence and ambitious is subjective. Attractive is abotu vanity. Well traveled? this is America, even if you got the money, you probably can't get off work long enough to be "well" travel. What is "own career" as a opposed to what? Someone else's career.

These all sounds like blankets people put over theirs heads to distract from the fact they may not be very kind people.

Those are all labels that don't speak to character, but, you're ability to acclimate to this crazy, selfish society.

And again, you can be all those things, that does not mean you "deserve" anything.

In your example; I'd tell my boy, a woman without a degree, who isn't "bad" and doesn't want much more than to help her fellow man and make enough to reasonable support herself isn't a bad person nor "below him."

No one is referring to "street harassment" nor does out correlate with what is being discussed.

That was a bit of hyperbole--this is thecoli--to illustrate the fact women turn men down at a regular rate.

 

[Blackout]

What is a decent dude? I'm not trying to be funny here.

Yes, there are women who have silly "standards" but the idea that you should go into a marriage because someone is "decent" and gives you a little attention makes me understand why the divorce rate is so high.

How do you know that the men who end up divorced are the “descent men?”

For all we know the main ones who get divorced from are actually the a$$holes that the women pressured into marriage to try and change them and not descent men.

 

[Benefited]

That's what happens when you marry a hardcore religious person....you forget about all your own dirt and start talking down and judging people thinking you know what's best....thats why organized religion is such a motherfukking joke........

whos worst,the person who doesn't keep bringing up their past because they have evolved. Or the people who keep bringing it up after you've changed,trying to bring you back down?

Ciara is right,these women not only aren't making any changes to make themselves a better catch. But worst of all they lower their value by making themselves easily accesible in terms of time and sex. Obviously its not a sure thing,but women who make men actually work to get the p*ssy. Women who aren't letting men just continuously lay up without commitment. Those women who let their expectations be known up front and are willing to walk away w/o waffling, if you are not ready to wife her. These women are living in wifey spirit.

I would say about 10% of women display high value nowadays,and that may be to generous.Because many women who meet that criteria are playing games by witholding time and sex.

But even still, this is the reason why thots are getting wifed. As phony as it may be,they still know their worth more than the average woman. So for men who like thots they are showing themselves to be high value thots over the regular thots. Women are not showing any value over the typical woman and wonder why they aren't wifed.

 

[Benefited]

That's what happens when you marry a hardcore religious person....you forget about all your own dirt and start talking down and judging people thinking you know what's best....thats why organized religion is such a motherfukking joke........

whos worst,the person who doesn't keep bringing up their past because they have evolved. Or the people who keep bringing it up after you've changed,trying to bring you back down?

Ciara is right,these women not only aren't making any changes to make themselves a better catch. But worst of all they lower their value by making themselves easily accesible in terms of time and sex. Obviously its not a sure thing,but women who make men actually work to get the p*ssy. Women who aren't letting men just continuously lay up without commitment. Those women who let their expectations be known up front and are willing to walk away w/o waffling, if you are not ready to wife her

I would say about 10% of women display high value nowadays,and that may be too generous to find one who meets all the criteria.Because many women who meet that criteria are playing games by witholding time and sex.

But even still, this is the reason why thots are getting wifed. As phony as it may be,they still know their worth more than the average woman. So for men who like thots they are showing themselves to be high value thots over the regular thots. Women are not showing any value over the typical woman and wonder why they aren't wifed.

 

[thenatural]

Damn, she can't even post stupid ass videos???

 

[EndDomination]

Someone commented that both of them are married.
And she's right, both of them are married.

 

[EndDomination]

I would support the same sentiment applied to men

 

[Taadow]

Reposting so this doesn't get lost in the sauce of goofy posts.

There are many women out there who are by all means "wife material"

No kids
Educated
Good career
Homeowner/own place
Attractive

Oh - is this all you gotta be to be "wife material"?
Lol

 

[Emoryal]

How do you know that the men who end up divorced are the “descent men?”

For all we know the main ones who get divorced from are the a$$holes that the women pressured into marriage to try and change them.

You know what they say about assuming

 

[Makavalli]

Participating daily on social media is like playing russian roulette. Each post is a potential loaded gun ready to make a person commit that because of the mob mentality. Everybody need to use that shyt in moderation before that shyt haunt u forever like that racist cac college chick from bama last week

 

[Makavalli]

Participating daily on social media is like playing russian roulette. Each post is a potential loaded gun ready to make a person commit that because of the mob mentality. Everybody need to use that shyt in moderation before that shyt haunt u forever like that racist cac college chick from bama last week