Chick in my class keeps teasing but wont let me hit

Claudex

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Yea I get it now. I feel like I've wasted the last month though.

This is the second time you've said something like this (the bolded).

So... just ignore her. I'm worried she'll move on then I will have wasted so much time

This is gambling addict talk breh. Be careful with that shyt because it'll have you eating from the palm of a broad's hand.

It doesn't matter how bad you fukked up, if a chick isn't giving you what you want you need to be able to take the L and KIM. This girl giving you trouble is an amateur, but just the fact that she's got you out here thinking you can't drop her because "I did so much already,:damn: what if someone else comes along!:sadcam:" shows how your mentality is what's letting her dominate you mentally like this.

Don't be the guy that can't leave the poker table on some "I've already lost so much, but this hand I've got now looks promising, let me just tough it out for a bit longer". Up the ante with her and see where things go.

Next time it's just you and her at the crib grab her ass, kiss her neck, firmly put your hand on the back of her neck (s/o to @skeetsinternal ), grab her waist and bring her closer to you. If she asks you what you're doing tell her you want her right now, and depending on what she says you either tell her to kick rocks or proceed to get the goods. :mjlit:Take risks younging.:mjlit:
 

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Man,if you can't smash an anime chick idk what to tell you :manny: You should naturally have that black swag,you said you buff, so flex or something :what:. She might be playing hard to get,but I always tell my nikkas that liquor makes you know someone quicker :mjgrin: . I would keep at it cause it's clear she want it
 

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Up the ante with her and see where things go.

Next time it's just you and her at the crib grab her ass, kiss her neck, firmly put your hand on the back of her neck (s/o to @skeetsinternal ), grab her waist and bring her closer to you. If she asks you what you're doing tell her you want her right now, and depending on what she says you either tell her to kick rocks or proceed to get the goods. :mjlit:Take risks younging.:mjlit:
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She's likely intimidated and shy about sex. Likely is a virgin, but too shy/embarrassed to admit it. Or just shy/intimidated about being with a Breh.

It's best not to rush things in this case. For a couple of reasons...1) you may push too far outside of her comfort zone and end up on that #metoo summer jam screen. 2) if you really like her, and she really likes you...the rush to sex may ruin the relationship if she isn't ready. It's OK take relationships slowly...not every relationship is a fukking porno movie.

Overall, respect her wishes...if she's not giving an open sign...don't force it. Take things slowly, get to know her more, find out more about her culture, learn a few words/phrases of her native language and speak it to her (she'll love it - I'm speaking from #paagset experience). Just chill, Breh.
 

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@Thethirdpew

This is more about yourself than her

At a certain point if she's getting you all worked up but acts like she doesn't want to get grabby, then you just have to go do something else

That might involve seeing her with the next man and feeling fukced up, or her just going away period, but you can't keep doing this to yourself.

But find out for sure. Lean in for a soft kiss. Offer to trade backrubs. Maybe just ask her straight up what then problem is.

But if you say clearly "I want you" and she clearly responds "I don't want to" then you have to be man enough to let that go

You may not benefit in the moment but your simp cells will start to die off. Eventually you'll be what these dudes pretend to be. It's not about being cool it's about being good to yourself

Doesn't sound like you have a bunch of female stopping by, so to let this one get you all worked up is just pure frustration with no upside
Assuming OP isn't trolling, this is the best advice.

To add on, the irony is that the less attention you give to an attention whore, the more they seek it and crave it which means going to further lengths to get it.

Also if you're not wanting to bush her entirely, then the best course of action is to be blunt and honest about things. Break out of the trying to seduce and make a good impression phase. First, bluntly tell her something along the affect that it's no secret I'm sexually attracted to you and you rold me you're not a virgin, so what the fukk is up? Do you not want to have sex with me? What's the deal?

Whenever she asks to hang out just be bluntly upfront and make your intentions hard to misunderstand by asking things like "are we fukking if I come over?"

This shyt might sound mean but given all the information you provided this may make her want you more and make a grown ass woman decision if she is down to fukk or not .
 

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But what if she moves on to someone else if I ignore her? There are some other guys trying to hit too from what I've seen
And the Simp Award for Big Ass Simp of the Year goes to

Nikka if you don’t stop playing..
:gucci:

Why are you on her: because she runs you and the situation

SHE follows you
SHE facetimes you
SHE sends nudes
SHE says you can’t hit
SHE talk about bullshyt and wastes time

Where are you in all this? On stand by like an Xbox cause in your warped view of life this whore is a price.

“Other nikkaz might hit it”. Breh.
Other nikkaz are fukking her OR will fukk her.

Wake up.

A bish you barely know sends nudes BUT won’t let you hit.

WAKE UP.

You’re dealing with an attentionw hore who is planting her seeds with mad dudes by hanging out and sending nudes.

How do you treat like this?

Like you COULDN’T GIVE A FUKK less.

She sends nudes, you reply about the Lakers and say “stop sending these please thanks”.

She hangs around, you say “yo I gotta jet, I got a date”

Nobody wants someone who believes nobodt wants them. Act like she is your last option. Fake it if you have to.

You are taking a massive L even asking this shyt, she’s a nobody breh.

No more FaceTime, because you say you’ve got company. Get it?

This’ll make her realize shyt is different: so she’ll then cherish the 1 hour you grant her and let you hit OR she’ll disappear and fukk another dude > in any case you win and you don’t look like a mega simp.

Take control.
Stop being a bytch.
Be a man.
 

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And the Simp Award for Big Ass Simp of the Year goes to

Nikka if you don’t stop playing..
:gucci:

Why are you on her: because she runs you and the situation

SHE follows you
SHE facetimes you
SHE sends nudes
SHE says you can’t hit
SHE talk about bullshyt and wastes time

Where are you in all this? On stand by like an Xbox cause in your warped view of life this whore is a price.

“Other nikkaz might hit it”. Breh.
Other nikkaz are fukking her OR will fukk her.

Wake up.

A bish you barely know sends nudes BUT won’t let you hit.

WAKE UP.

You’re dealing with an attentionw hore who is planting her seeds with mad dudes by hanging out and sending nudes.

How do you treat like this?

Like you COULDN’T GIVE A FUKK less.

She sends nudes, you reply about the Lakers and say “stop sending these please thanks”.

She hangs around, you say “yo I gotta jet, I got a date”

Nobody wants someone who believes nobodt wants them. Act like she is your last option. Fake it if you have to.

You are taking a massive L even asking this shyt, she’s a nobody breh.

No more FaceTime, because you say you’ve got company. Get it?

This’ll make her realize shyt is different: so she’ll then cherish the 1 hour you grant her and let you hit OR she’ll disappear and fukk another dude > in any case you win and you don’t look like a mega simp.

Take control.
Stop being a bytch.
Be a man.
Yea I get it. I just wanted to know if I'm making the right choice. Thanks breh.
 

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OP, you should dip. She just wants your attention cause you were probably only guy that validated her existence at orientation. She'll either:
  • Get over you and go after someone else
  • Or become dumb clingy and maybe become cooperative.
:yeshrug: Don't be so pressed on her, there are other girls and some of them definitely look better.
 

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Yea I get it. I just wanted to know if I'm making the right choice. Thanks breh.
Good shyt breh, you got it.

Remember you’re in college

1. That’s a blessing. Somehow you, your parents and the system all worked to get you there. We can discuss the value of a degree separately- but this is an opportunity.

2. Your main goal there is to a) study b) network (your co-students will start companies, get good jobs. Work with them from early to start something OR have a great referral for after school)

3. You are LITERALLY surrounded by chicks who are down to bang. Get in the habit of not caring: girls will like it and you won’t be so distracted. If the right girl comes along, you’ll know.
 
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