Cheating Husband And Best Friend - I'm so sad...

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BlaqkSpliffin said:
Keeping it a stack, the idea of cheating has always seemed corny to me. I understand that shyt happens but I guess the way I look at it is I can't willingly do something that I know is gonna hurt someone I care about, let alone claim to love. Everyone doesn't cheat but I do think most people have the urge to cheat after awhile. The grass always looks greener on the otherside, and like someone said we as humans have a tendency to be very selfish, undisciplined monsters.

I've never cheated and I've never even had the urge to, tho I have been cheated on. shyt hurts because of the lack of respect your partner's shown for you and the lack of trust you now have for them. This is why I've always maintained that I'll break up with someone before I cheat on them.

I'm hesitant to get into a relationship now because I know I don't really wanna be with just one person right now and I don't wanna hurt someone. It's spooky out here but there are alot of people still value monogamy and have enough respect and love for their partners not to cheat on them.
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Damn nikka, this is me. :wow:
Worst part is I met a girl that said that it's okay if I cheat because that's what men do (she's broken I guess) and I almost cussed her out 'cause it felt like she wasn't respecting my struggle, my choice to not cheat no matter what.
Straight hit her with the :gucci:.
 
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B***h Puddin said:
My husband cheated on me, (I made a weak sappy thread about it...)

He ssys I should forgive and forget coz EVERYONE cheats...

Anyway I didnt discuss my betrayal with anyone as I wanted to be sure of what I really want to do before i discuss it with anyone...

I meet up with one of my close friends to finally talk about it. I was ready to go in on how aint shyt men are bla bla bla...

We are having a nice meal and I ask how her man is doing... They are good, the usual inane relationship stuff, she is hoping he proposes or pregnancy, whichever comes first . We are catching up with gossip and stories... Then she lets slip that she slept with someone else. She tries to backtrack but I insist she "spill the beans". It seems her man was out of town for work, he travels a lot, and takes her along whenever its convineint for them both.

While he was away she got horny and bored so she slept with some guy she met on a night out. I suspect there may be more "beans" but I think I have a reputation as a prude so I suppose some people tell me edited versions of stuff.

So now I'm looking at her across the table and decided not to talk about my no good husband.

I dont cheat, I have never felt the desire to cheat or lie to my husband. So there must be many like minded faithful people out there??? So surely there has to be a man who wants monogamy out there... I fear it might be a needle in a haystack type of thing. It seems its impossible to meet a (goodlooking) faithful man?

My question is :duck: aside are people or are you cheating that much?

Coz it seema like most posters have stories about side chicks trying to leave the side and take centre stage.

I feel so down, and feel like the only way to avoid the drama is to be single? Even though being single has its own issues...


CLIFFS:
Husband cheated on me.
I decide to talk to friend and discover she has or is cheating on her boyfriend.
I feel down coz it seems no one actually wants or values monogamy.
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Listen sweetie,forget all the programming! Unlearn all the memes pushed by the Elites upon woman about strength/independence/equality or whatever koolaid they're pushing. MEN FCUK OTHER WOMEN-ITS NOTHING PERSONAL;ITS JUST WHAT WE DO. WOMEN WHO RANDOMLY FCUK OTHER MEN ARE CALLED HOES. Also women are not emotionally built to take multiple strange dee:it affects them on a spiritual and even cellular level.
Does he care for you and the kids and look out for your interests always? That's the question.
 
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B***h Puddin said:
I'd never cheat. I'd break up with my husband or tell him I have met someone I want to be with.
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This right here is colder than cheating.

Look, everyone doesn’t cheat but everyone has the temptation to. What you should be concerned with is if it was a one off or repeated behavior. If it was a one off, you have a right to be upset but he doesn’t love that person. That was probably more about opportunity and physical attraction, I would hope the marriage would be strong enough to survive this. But if its repeated cheating with multiple women, he doesn’t value the marriage and is probably very unhappy in it. If its repeated cheating with one woman, you need to find out what that woman does and has over you because he’s clearly getting something there that he isn’t from you.
 
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Never have and absolutely never will cheat on my wife and more importantly my kids.

Can't raise responsibile, respectful kids if you are out there living wrong yourself.

It sucks you had to go through it, but there are plenty of faithful men out there.

And a lot of scumbags in this thread :scust:
 
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