Cheating Husband And Best Friend - I'm so sad...

[Behind-the-wheel]

Most people cheat, especially attractive people. I don't know what the hell ya'll talking about in here lol

Feel ya breh. Right there too....

 

[Yo Mama]

fukk your husband, ill be faithful.

Pics please

 

[Ezus Jezus]

Why is said person still your friend my guy?

That’s a fair question. I’ve known him 12 years. Longer than I’ve known her obviously. He’s like a brother to me. That being said, I don’t encourage him to do what he does. If he wants to risk his marriage and his son, it’s really his decision. It will catch up to him because at this point all his boys know. He’s implicated us all by now. A leak is bound to happen. He had a scare a few years ago when his wife found some sketchy texts. She left but came back. He was devestated when she left but He got comfortable again. Also a few years ago one of our friends told his wife. She didn’t believe him though or chose not to believe. I think my friend is a victim ( I’m using the term loosely) of having too many options. Women love him. He’s hilarious and can make friends with anyone. You can count on one hand the amount of people that don’t like him. At the end of the day, wrong is wrong tho.

 

[PaperEnterprise]

Oh u got that bald amber rose look.
Them titties n ass real?

 

[Yo Mama]

Yea. You need your exact birth time. astro.cafeastrology.com

I'm asking because of your loyalty.

...The Sun represents vitality, a sense of individuality and outward-shining creative energy.

Sun in Sagittarius

Restless, cheerful, and friendly, Sun in Sagittarius people are generally on the go. They have a love of freedom, and a disdain for routine. Generally quite easygoing, Sagittarians make friends with people from all walks of life. They love to laugh and tease, and get along well with both sexes. Sagittarians have an often blind faith in people, and in the world. Their optimism is infectious, although it can get them into trouble from time to time. These are curious people who love to learn. Their idealistic nature is hard to miss.

Although generally easygoing, Sagittarius is a fire sign. This gives natives a generally quick temper. Fortunately, they're usually as quick to forget what got them angry in the first place. The need for escape is generally strong, and some Solar Sagittarians come across as a little irresponsible. They're generally easy to forgive, however. After all, their direct, honest approach in life is admirable.

Short description:

She is good, idealistic, enthusiastic and warm-hearted. She is independent, has a taste for travel and freedom. She is curious and fair-minded.

Weaknesses: She is too adventurous and leaves things to chance: takes risks which cause problems: she is rebellious and sometimes tactless when offering opinions.

148 Conjunction Sun - Saturn

It is easy and natural for you to accept responsibilities, to lead a rather ordered life, and to apply caution in your financial and business dealings. You rarely jump to... (very long)

Lol. Wow. Frighteningly close to the mark.

 

[Bobby Lashleys eyebrows]

Oh wow. I been here and I can just give you this advice.

It's going to hurt bad sometimes. It's going to really fukk with you as a human but whatever you do....

• Get a hobby. I am so fukking serious.
• Talk to someone. Just one person don't have your business out in the street.
• Run all day go work out everyday.
• Don't get into self medicating on porn, weed, hard rugs, sex just work on healing yourself.
• Leave your husband. He doesn't love you and doesn't know himself as a man. Its time to pack your shyt and go. You can't save them or change them.
• But whatever you do you keep moving and you keep healing.
• Just remember this shyt happens to everyone sometimes and it may not even be you but how you handle it after the event is on you.
• Keep fukking moving. It's literally all about you now.
• You will cry and that is ok but do that in private and in the dark. That is all I am going to tell you.

Dapped and repped

 

[Yo Mama]

Wait so you haven't left him and y'all dont have sex at all ?

Yeah.

 

[Yo Mama]

Can we get a poll included of how many losers we think slid into OPs DMs on some "hey I'm always there to talk" pathetic shyt?

Just spitting facts

Actually all the DM's I have received are friendly, polite and pleasant.

If you say you are not into anykind of sexual/romantic stuff people are cool about it and dont cuss you out...

Most are just platonic stuff.

 

[Yo Mama]

Where did y'all meet?

We had mutual acquaintances for years but we never hung out.

 

[Yo Mama]

Divorce your husband, tell your bestfriends man that she cheated on him, and possibly marry him

Lol.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

That’s a fair question. I’ve known him 12 years. Longer than I’ve known her obviously. He’s like a brother to me. That being said, I don’t encourage him to do what he does. If he wants to risk his marriage and his son, it’s really his decision. It will catch up to him because at this point all his boys know. He’s implicated us all by now. A leak is bound to happen. He had a scare a few years ago when his wife found some sketchy texts. She left but came back. He was devestated when she left but He got comfortable again. Also a few years ago one of our friends told his wife. She didn’t believe him though or chose not to believe. I think my friend is a victim ( I’m using the term loosely) of having too many options. Women love him. He’s hilarious and can make friends with anyone. You can count on one hand the amount of people that don’t like him. At the end of the day, wrong is wrong tho.

See, that's the main component of cheating right there.
Friendly ass people.
Now I see why my wife is so content...I'm an antisocial angry sonofabytch 100% of the time and people run away from me...lol.
Explains a lot...

 

[Gold]

My husband cheated on me, (I made a weak sappy thread about it...)

He ssys I should forgive and forget coz EVERYONE cheats...

Anyway I didnt discuss my betrayal with anyone as I wanted to be sure of what I really want to do before i discuss it with anyone...

I meet up with one of my close friends to finally talk about it. I was ready to go in on how aint shyt men are bla bla bla...

We are having a nice meal and I ask how her man is doing... They are good, the usual inane relationship stuff, she is hoping he proposes or pregnancy, whichever comes first . We are catching up with gossip and stories... Then she lets slip that she slept with someone else. She tries to backtrack but I insist she "spill the beans". It seems her man was out of town for work, he travels a lot, and takes her along whenever its convineint for them both.

While he was away she got horny and bored so she slept with some guy she met on a night out. I suspect there may be more "beans" but I think I have a reputation as a prude so I suppose some people tell me edited versions of stuff.

So now I'm looking at her across the table and decided not to talk about my no good husband.

I dont cheat, I have never felt the desire to cheat or lie to my husband. So there must be many like minded faithful people out there??? So surely there has to be a man who wants monogamy out there... I fear it might be a needle in a haystack type of thing. It seems its impossible to meet a (goodlooking) faithful man?

My question is aside are people or are you cheating that much?

Coz it seema like most posters have stories about side chicks trying to leave the side and take centre stage.

I feel so down, and feel like the only way to avoid the drama is to be single? Even though being single has its own issues...


CLIFFS:
Husband cheated on me.
I decide to talk to friend and discover she has or is cheating on her boyfriend.
I feel down coz it seems no one actually wants or values monogamy.

Of course people are cheating more than you think.
If you have never cheated, you are probably in the minority (like me).

But throughout my life, i have known many of my friends who cheated and their S/O never found out.


Now, if u stay with your husband, you're a simp

 

[Gonzo]

I plan on cheating...just to preempt any cheating he does

You're too old for this shyt

 

[Rekkapryde]

Get you a new husband, and get you some new friends

Your whole inner circle is grimes. That’s why you think everybody is out her doing that.

the company you keep around you says a lot about you.

Esp Women.

Dudes are different. I did used to find it funny that my homies girlfriends/wives were cool when we hung out together because I wasn't a dirtbag.

Her: "I wasn't happy he was going out until I found out you were going with him. "
Me:
Her: "Well it's true, I know you're one of his "good" friends"
Me:
Him:
Her: "I WOULDN'T FEEL LIKE THAT IF YOU DIDN'T fukk THAT FAT WHITE bytch FROM WORK 2 MONTHS AGO!!!"
Me:
Him:
Her:

Me: "Girl, you crazy. I'll have him back with no problems "
Her: "I know, I trust you Rekk. You'll keep him outta trouble. Your boy better get it together. "
Him: "WHY YOU ALWAYS TRYING TO PLAY ME WOMAN!!! "
Her: "SHOULDA THOUGHT ABOUT THAT BEFORE PLAYING WITH THAT bytch!!!!"
Me:
Him: "nikka, that aint' funny. Let's roll."

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

the company you keep around you says a lot about you.

Esp Women.

Dudes are different. I did used to find it funny that my homies girlfriends/wives were cool when we hung out together because I wasn't a dirtbag.

Her: "I wasn't happy he was going out until I found out you were going with him. "
Me:
Her: "Well it's true, I know you're one of his "good" friends"
Me:
Him:
Her: "I WOULDN'T FEEL LIKE THAT IF YOU DIDN'T fukk THAT FAT WHITE bytch FROM WORK 2 MONTHS AGO!!!"
Me:
Him:
Her:

Me: "Girl, you crazy. I'll have him back with no problems "
Her: "I know, I trust you Rekk. You'll keep him outta trouble. Your boy better get it together. "
Him: "WHY YOU ALWAYS TRYING TO PLAY ME WOMAN!!! "
Her: "SHOULDA THOUGHT ABOUT THAT BEFORE PLAYING WITH THAT bytch!!!!"
Me:
Him: "nikka, that aint' funny. Let's roll."

Daaaaaauym....homeboy in the doghouse for real!