Charging girlfriend rent on a property you own outright. Who’s right/wrong?

[MaxPain]

How are u supposed to “build” with so many women like these (since The Coli says marriage is good for dual income)...

I can count on one hand how many women helped “build” with a man & they were all foreigners.....most women just expected him to pay everything cuz “thats what men do” meanwhile they never did what women were supposed to do....

Its not adding up

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Still give them a lease

i wouldnt even be shacking up like that let alone adding legalities on top lol. lets talk wedding legalities then we can talk housing

 

[Tunez]

Move on to the next chick

 

[neph27]

Id rather be single than have a user...I mean girl (in this situation) complain about carrying her weight as an adult... then again if that’s how YOU keep women around then thats on u....not everyone has to use money get women.

Id make her pay utilities but the response to what he proposed speaks volumes....she can afford 1800$ but she can’t pay 800?....it’s almost like she timed this when her lease was coming up.

assuming her motives in a hypothetical shows me how YOU would think

Nobody fronting her utility bill either, if she’s living there she’s paying half of the other bills

I ain’t billing her rent tho

and you Coli dudes like to make relationships so impersonal. There are adults on here breh. I got a mortgage and fiancé and we split all that shyt 50/50 and have for years

like the shyt you talking is what you worry about when you’re a kid. Petty nonsense

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

If someone stays at your house long enough, they end up getting tenants rights even if they lived for free.

Might as well charge her.

 

[MaxPain]

assuming her motives in a hypothetical shows me how YOU would think

Nobody fronting her utility bill either, if she’s living there she’s paying half of the other bills

I ain’t billing her rent tho

and you Coli dudes like to make relationships so impersonal. There are adults on here breh. I got a mortgage and fiancé and we split all that shyt 50/50 and have for years

like the shyt you talking is what you worry about when you’re a kid. Petty nonsense

Man, it must suck having to pay all a girl’s bills just to have her like you.

Whatever u do dont let the money run out.

 

[Sad Bunny]

Depending on their location, $800 a month is cheap..

It is

But I would just rather have a joint savings account for house emergencies and maybe Vacations or something so I wouldn't charge rent I would just say make it a joint savings.

 

[WaveWhisperer]

If you’re serious about the relationship you’re not going to bill the person.

you put in the work to have that positive financial situation. but that ain’t your tenant. it’s weirdly impersonal to charge your significant other rent, even at a reduced rate

i hear you but playa still got bills to pay

She can help out and it aint a logical excuse not too

 

[neph27]

Man, it must suck having to pay all a girl’s bills just to have her like you.

Whatever u do dont let the money run out.

Did you not read about splitting bills 50/50?

 

[Neuromancer]

sounds like he needs to get rid of her.

 

[MaxPain]

Did you not read about splitting bills 50/50?

So ur supposedly splitting bills 50/50 with ur fiance....but ur in here defending a woman who has an issue to pay 800$ a month when she was already affording 1800$ a month?


That’s light work....

 

[O.T.I.S.]

It depends

she should pay half if she cares about building

if she just wanna be taken care of or some shyt its on him

 

[Wildhundreds]

If she use to paying $1800 a month, whats the problem with her just paying $800?

I'd leave her if she was complaining about $800..

 

[colicolicoli]

doesn't make sense, if the house is paid for what am i paying rent for? what does he need my $800 for?

we could be saving HEAVY to purchase a second property to rent out

 

[Seoul Gleou]

Why’d he tell her his house is paid off?

yeah

if she's under the impression there's a mortgage, he can use the money she's giving him for emergencies/vacation/surprises