Candace Cameron Bure Defends Her "Submissive Role" With Husband: "I Want Him to Lead"

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Elle Driver said:
You married an Asian, don't talk about leading the black community. It's no wonder you're in this thread harping on about submissiveness.
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Let me ask you a question. Now I'm not trying to troll like some other males in this thread or stir the pot or anything like that (I had actually said I'd never post here, I only joined for the JBO links which they were smart to hide behind membership), so this is an honest question because I've seen the above come from black women a numerous amount of times whether it be on the internet or in life.

Why does a black man marrying outside of his race seemingly "void" his right to speak about black issues? I've noticed whenever a black man has something to say that could be perceived as somewhat negative regarding black females, black females want to know who he is and what his current gf or wife looks like. What difference does it matter who he's married to if he's actually experienced what's being talked about? As I'm sure for a bunch of people here, I was raised by a single mom with no father. You're telling me although my preference is black, and although I can fully relate to what's being said in a conversation about the relations between black men and women (seeing as I'm a black male that's afflicted by it), if I happen to marry/date outside of my race, I no longer have the right to say anything about the sad state of relations among black people? I honestly wish a female would step to me tell me with some shyt like this.

And It doesn't matter if the black man had dated nothing but black women before this non-black wife/gf, if he's seen with a woman and she's not black he's needs to keep his mouth shut on any and all topics about black women. Why is this?

And then after you answer that, I want you to answer this question too:

Black females who marry outside of their race are allowed to write books, blogs, or hold seminars in favor of slandering the black male and openly and actively encourage other black females to do the same, with little to no kickback from black women. And if there is kickback, it's so miniscule compared to black women going at men with non-black women, it's not even worth discussing. So I guess the question is, why do black women let these women go unchecked, yet make sure the black man knows to keep his mouth closed?

I know this really has nothing to do with the topic of this thread with is being on a partner being submissive or whatever, but it's something that bothers me and it seemed like the perfect opportunity to bring it up.
 
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Let me ask you a question. Now I'm not trying to troll like some other males in this thread or stir the pot or anything like that (I had actually said I'd never post here, I only joined for the JBO links which they were smart to hide behind membership), so this is an honest question because I've seen the above come from black women a numerous amount of times whether it be on the internet or in life.

Why does a black man marrying outside of his race seemingly "void" his right to speak about black issues? I've noticed whenever a black man has something to say that could be perceived as somewhat negative regarding black females, black females want to know who he is and what his current gf or wife looks like. What difference does it matter who he's married to if he's actually experienced what's being talked about? As I'm sure for a bunch of people here, I was raised by a single mom with no father. You're telling me although my preference is black, and although I can fully relate to what's being said in a conversation about the relations between black men and women (seeing as I'm a black male that's afflicted by it), if I happen to marry/date outside of my race, I no longer have the right to say anything about the sad state of relations among black people? I honestly wish a female would step to me tell me with some shyt like this.

And It doesn't matter if the black man had dated nothing but black women before this non-black wife/gf, if he's seen with a woman and she's not black he's needs to keep his mouth shut on any and all topics about black women. Why is this?

And then after you answer that, I want you to answer this question too:

Black females who marry outside of their race allowed to write books, blogs, or hold seminars in favor of slandering the black male and openly and actively encourage other black females to do the same with little to no kickback from black women. And if there is kickback, it's so miniscule compared to black women going at men with non-black women, it's not even worth discussing. So I guess the question is, why do black women let these women go unchecked, yet make sure the black man knows to keep his mouth closed?

I know this really has nothing to do with the topic of this thread with is being on a partner being submissive or whatever, but it's something that bothers me and it seemed like the perfect opportunity to bring it up.
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:comeon: nikkas say the same shyt all the time on here, calling black women who marry white men bed wenches. That was a tongue in cheek comment because he made a comment initially about black women leading the community or some shyt.
 
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Raul said:
Valeri Bure is a former hockey player and the brother of Pavel Bure...one of the best hockey players of the 1990s.
You gamers might remember him as a beast in that old NHL '95 game for Sega Genesis (Alexander Mogilny was a beast, too).

In any case, I'm not too concerned with how Candace Cameron chooses to function in her marriage.
Different strokes for different folks.
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you won this thread with the NHL 95 drop and the reference game :lawd:. I remember Mogilny going ham, my Wings had the last laugh in 97 doe. :win:
 
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the next guy said:
And it's sad too. I can't believe nigggas actually did someone like that over a damn car. They'll get the book thrown at them because the wife was there.
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bunch of idiots.

They could have ate good off that truck. but now they gonna be eating ramen and nutty bars.
 
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Ain't That Something said:
It's obvious nikkas here don't know what it is to lead so they run away from it any chance they get. For to lead is to acknowledge responsibilities and live up to the expectations that come from.such a role. But alas that is apparently too much for the coli nikka.
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:leostare: i dont get where youre coming from friend
 
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