Candace Cameron Bure Defends Her "Submissive Role" With Husband: "I Want Him to Lead"

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I think its obvious which one Candace is referring to. Shes obviously Loaded from those Full House reruns so its not like shes not economically independent so is she saying that shes a pet of her husband?

So its obvious, theres some misconception of what the words submissive and lead mean, friend. :sitdown:
What are you getting an attitude with me for? I don't disagree with what you're saying.
 

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This isnt a business, its a family when in general actives fall on both.

Im not beat doing all the fukking work, she gonna have to be on top with me
I used that as an analogy.

Throughout history...anytime there are 2 leaders chaos is GUARANTEED.
 

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I prefer to have a wife that can contribute to our union when needed. Prefer to have a woman that can lead when im not there and hold her own when the times comes. Life is crazy, what if Im gone or hurt? I have to make sure she can hold down the fort. Not too beat for having a wife that can only fukk, cook and clean.
THIS is all I am saying...
 

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I think most women would have no problem being submissive...the issues are:

1. She has to respect dude. Lets be honest, how many men deserve that much respect? A lot of these cats are just as emotional as women.

2. You gotta be an earner. Why the fukk would a women be submissive to someone who cant pay all the bills, and make sure the fam is good?

3. You dont have to announce "woman you must submit to me!"...shyt happens naturally. Women for the most part dont want to be in control, and she will follow your lead if you show and prove you are worth a damn....but if she senses youre all talk...you can forget about it :camby:
Being the leader in the household also doesnt mean you control her every action...she's not your child, shes your wife.

:ehh: I agree with most of this/
 

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what is she doing? :what:
I was making a point by expanding on her post and she took that as me getting an attitude with her when i didnt use the words You or Rawtid. Basically, it wasnt directed at attacking her point but she thought it was which now requires me to clarify that it wasnt about attacking her which wastes time and potentially drags us to the demonic realm. it was not.

To me at least, friend. :ld:
 

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I think most women would have no problem being submissive...the issues are:

1. She has to respect dude. Lets be honest, how many men deserve that much respect? A lot of these cats are just as emotional as women.

2. You gotta be an earner. Why the fukk would a women be submissive to someone who cant pay all the bills, and make sure the fam is good?

3. You dont have to announce "woman you must submit to me!"...shyt happens naturally. Women for the most part dont want to be in control, and she will follow your lead if you show and prove you are worth a damn....but if she senses youre all talk...you can forget about it :camby:
Being the leader in the household also doesnt mean you control her every action...she's not your child, shes your wife.
I have to disagree with the money part. Your leadership as a man does not dwindle because you make less. If you're functioning as a team money coming in belongs to the family, regardless of who earned it. Everything else I can agree with.
 
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