Candace Cameron Bure Defends Her "Submissive Role" With Husband: "I Want Him to Lead"

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A woman that understands this is a woman to wife. She will support her husband and continue to handle her business, knowing her responsibilities to please her husband and comfort him, while her husband protects his spouse...the easiest way to love.
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Umm yeah, but IMO she's setting women back with that 1... My mom raised me to do those things but also how to handle situations of holding the household down if my husband were to be laid off... If situations occur that will throw the flow off at home.

So no, fawck that submissive role. Imma prove that i can still stand on my own with or without him.
 

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Umm yeah, but IMO she's setting women back with that 1... My mom raised me to do those things but also how to handle situations of holding the household down if my husband were to be laid off... If situations occur that will throw the flow off at home.

So no, fawck that submissive role. Imma prove that i can still stand on my own with or without him.
Prove to who? This kind of language is why we have a 50% marriage rate.
 

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Prove to who? This kind of language is why we have a 50% marriage rate.

Young girls have issues standing on their own... so its best to wed a wife whos mental age at least matches her hip size :manny:
 

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I think most women would have no problem being submissive...the issues are:

1. She has to respect dude. Lets be honest, how many men deserve that much respect? A lot of these cats are just as emotional as women.

2. You gotta be an earner. Why the fukk would a women be submissive to someone who cant pay all the bills, and make sure the fam is good?

3. You dont have to announce "woman you must submit to me!"...shyt happens naturally. Women for the most part dont want to be in control, and she will follow your lead if you show and prove you are worth a damn....but if she senses youre all talk...you can forget about it :camby:
Being the leader in the household also doesnt mean you control her every action...she's not your child, shes your wife.
 

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Umm yeah, but IMO she's setting women back with that 1... My mom raised me to do those things but also how to handle situations of holding the household down if my husband were to be laid off... If situations occur that will throw the flow off at home.

So no, fawck that submissive role. Imma prove that i can still stand on my own with or without him.
You're supposed to stand together in a marriage not power struggle to show someone you made a vow to under God, that you dont need them. Its is the duty of a couple to obey one another. Resistance to these basic notions, end relationships.
 

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Prove to who? This kind of language is why we have a 50% marriage rate.
Prove, make known, whatever I'm not gone let my husband just handle everything. It's not how I was raised... Support your husband, but also remember to also have a back up plan when sh1t hits the fan...

Take Rochelle from Everybody Hates Chris for example, she did what she was to do as a wife, but if Julius was in a grind she stepped up and kept things flowing.

Fictional character, yes, but it showed that when needed a woman can step up to the plate.
 

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You're supposed to stand together in a marriage not power struggle to show someone you made a vow to under God, that you dont need them. Its is the duty of a couple to obey one another. Resistance to these basic notions, end relationships.

It's not resistance. It's stepping up when im needed to.
 

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Except for the fact that women initiate 80% of divorces.
That's because they refuse to submit and run their mouth too much....especially black women.
She is always trying to prove she is wears the pants in the relationship.

When the man stands up to her fairy-tail idea of marriage then she files the paper work.
 

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It's not resistance. It's stepping up when im needed to.
That is expected in every relationship.

It's irrelevant to submissiveness.

Do you challenge his authority in the house? Do you trust him enough to make decisions even if you disagree with him without trying to micro-manage stuff?
 

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It's not resistance. It's stepping up when im needed to.
There is more to being a leader then money. Thats the easy part. Money cant raise your kids and we see what happens when men neglect that responsibility, friend. :sitdown: Do you want to lead and be the one to teach your son how to be a man?

I think you guys are just getting to hung up on this power thing and certain words make you resistant to acknowledge honest truths.

I literally saw a woman during a wedding look at a pastor like :rudy: when he said *and to obey*

Its so demonic, friends. :sitdown:
 
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