Candace Cameron Bure Defends Her "Submissive Role" With Husband: "I Want Him to Lead"

[mcdivit85]

Wait. Before you go, allow me to respond. So there is something wrong with having a back up plan?

What you mentioned is not a backup plan...its a modus operandi for how you would be in the relationship. Deciding that you're going to give 80% to your dude and keep 20% for yourself is basically a waste of time in terms of a long lasting relationship. It simply will have no chance of working over an extended period of time. If you don't feel comfortable giving 100% in a relationship in general, then you should wait until you are.

As far as a backup plan, are you referring to money? Well, that's fine...just keep a bank account with an amount that you save for getting yourself on your feet in anything were to happen. But that's not just for a relationship...that's just good financial sense. I don't think your dude would have a problem with you having a rainy day fund as I'm sure he would want one as well.

Peace

 

[Taadow]

You're a stupid fukk. You can date someone forever and a day and Day two they switch. Stupid fukk.

...and you still on this "what if" chit...

I tell you what - i'll cross that bridge "if" I get there.
In the meantime...like this thread illustrates, there are women that want a man to lead them and got such,
despite how you feel about it. Go take a Pamprin.

 

[CrimsonTider]

i go over my girl's spot 3-4 times a week and so far she has no problem cooking me breakfast, lunch, dinner, snacks and pastry when i ask for it and i cant imagine or even think about going backwards from this. if i want a back rub, foot massage or some sex then she has no problem doing that too. this helps keep our relationship positive so i'm not sure why ppl see this as an issue. maybe more couples would be happier if they adopt this ideology.

How is this being submissive?

My relationship is fine and I cook just as much as my wife.

 

[Crakface]

I feel really bad, cause it kinda makes sense in a fawcked up way...

Keys to landing a husband

1. Consistent cooking
2. Consistent cleaning
3. Consistent sex (nastiness)
4. Consistent blowjobs
5. Consistent obedience
6. Occasional disagreement (when hes doin to much)
7. Availability
8. Absence of males that arent blood relatives
9. Selfless with others
10. Non-spiteful
11. Personal fitness (flat stomach)

You will have that ring. Then, after you have the baby, all you really have to do is cook a few times a week, clean occasionally and give him a nut once a week Minimum. Every year you're together after the baby you can start weening off his p*ssy rations to a week and a half (2 is stretching it) and reward him with blowjobs for cleaning up and being a good daddy You can even let yourself go and start talking that teamwork bullshyt because obviously, once you have a child, it aint about making your husband happy anymore

If you lucked up and got you a baller you should get some good change during the divorce proceedings, on top of child support of which you can use the residuals to buy shoes and other shyt you dont need, while hes taking on a part time job at Macys to pay rent and a car note

Mission Accomplished. A perfect plot. Now you can start living.

Now if you fukked around and got knocked up by a loser, you better keep that body tight and hope you can reeup with some thirsty old sucker in 15 years.

Good luck

 

[ahomeplateslugger]

How is this being submissive?

My relationship is fine and I cook just as much as my wife.

why are you disagreeing with crakface's stance on having the woman do the cooking and cleaning?

 

[Crakface]

How is this being submissive?

My relationship is fine and I cook just as much as my wife.

I think you Nutritious!!!!

I THINK YOU DO DISHES!!!!!!!!



"Good job hun, Somebodies getting something special toniiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight "

 

[Milk N Cookies]

I'm logging off for the night... this sh1t is starting to make sense and i am getting scared even if it is bullsh1t... its making a little bit of sense. Night y'all

 

[bsmooth]

Women need to learn just suck his dikk, play with his balls, fix him a sandwich and don't talk so much

 

[FukyourFort]

girls can try to play that role but its noticeable if their heart isn't into it. I dropped my ex for that. don't front like your some type of way when your not. keep it real and find someone who fits your program instead of lying about who you are.

 

[dap-man]

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[MAKAVELI25]

I done got 3 bytches weddings rings just by guiding them on man protocols. Men are simple and fall for simple things. Its not complicated.

The fukk?

 

[Crakface]

The fukk?

Real rap. Some women, having grown up with their bitter fat loudmouth mother never learned how to actually get and Keep a man. We gonna take them to school though.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Real rap. Some women, having grown up with their bitter fat loudmouth mother never learned how to actually get and Keep a man. We gonna take them to school though.

What are you one of their girlfriends? Why the fukk are you helping women ensnare these guys?

I done got 3 bytches weddings rings just by guiding them on man protocols. Men are simple and fall for simple things. Its not complicated.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

What are you one of their girlfriends? Why the fukk are you helping women ensnare these guys?

i see nothing wrong with it...since despite what a lot of the women in here say....is what women want. a man...

and like the poster above said...most have no idea how to keep a man....

 

[MAKAVELI25]

i see nothing wrong with it...since despite what a lot of the women in here say....is what women want. a man...

and like the poster above said...most have no idea how to keep a man....

Sounds more like he's trying to help these chicks TRAP some dudes