Is it gold digging if he is coming to the table with the same things she is asking for? I don't think so.
A relationship is give and take. If I'm expected to have a six figure income, and look like Boris Kodjoe but have the personality of tupac and drake mixed together, what will she bring to the table that is of equal value? That's what needs to be addressed here.
Too many people
asking without willing to give anything in return. I can understand if this is a woman who has put herself through university, has a good job, and can take care of herself and her family, has a good heart, etc. and is looking for a guy who is equally as hard working and kind. The problem here is that there are too many women who have
none of these qualities but expect a man to have
all of them. We have a culture of
selfishness and
entitlement. Too many women out here think they're owed a perfect man.
Men at least know for the most part when they reach a certain age that if they don't have looks, they need to become interesting and stack paper. They know they have to bring something to the table, but you have too many women out here who have been gassed up by social media and their friends walking around thinking they're perfect dimes and its a privilege for a man to fukk with them.