can/will you forgive your s/o if they cheated?

[KOOL-AID]

Nope, he cheats, I'm gone and never coming back.

Will u start datin black men again or?

 

[Lady.Libra.]

Yeah, If they tricking off with yall money on someone else or they got someone else in their ear influencing yall relationship then no doubt, but a booty call or a moment of sexual deviance, yall tough. What if he said he used protection? You love that man, you wouldnt let him eat foreign 1 time?

Just merely reading the bolded sent me over the edge


No.

 

[Ol’Otis]

getting cheated on hurts so naw aint no forgiving

still haven't been in a relationship

 

[EARFQUAKE]

Good.

Me neither, and I am not exceptionally good looking.

I think the reason women put up with a cheating man is if he is successful AND the fact we want what they sometimes maliciously deny .... and have to find it in the arms of another willing lady. Not right, but historically accurate.

I can't say for sure but I think I would be willing to forgive depending on the nature of our relationship. Like someone mentioned before, if they're married with kids it isn't such a black and white situation. I would be more hurt if he was in love with that person Vs just having sex.

 

[HopeKillCure]

Its been 6 years and I still wanna push that bytch into an exhaust fan.

Gotta give us a little of the back story breh! Dont need full details bu

 

[morris]

Just merely reading the bolded sent me over the edge


No.

You seem legit. How many times have you been cheated on?

 

[UltimateSource]

Gotta give us a little of the back story breh! Dont need full details bu

Its tragic breh.




I cant...

 

[HopeKillCure]

getting cheated on hurts so naw aint no forgiving

still haven't been in a relationship

How'd it happen breh, did you actually find proof, did she confess? Or you just convinced it went down

 

[Yinny]

Hm, I don't know. In the past, I made a fuss and took the guy back, eventually cheated on him he took me back, but then his cheating didn't stop- even his own cousin was snitching on him about girls he was talking to.

And the icing on the cake was when I was at his gma's house for a bday gathering for his uncle. Uncle had a "wife" and three kids who were just there the week prior but brought one of his girlfriends to the family dinner aka grandma and the family cool with all that. I knew we weren't gonna stay together, I broke up with him not long after that.

 

[morris]

I can't say for sure but I think I would be willing to forgive depending on the nature of our relationship. Like someone mentioned before, if they're married with kids it isn't such a black and white situation. I would be more hurt if he was in love with that person Vs just having sex.

You seem young yet wise


You get it.

You will be alright regardless of whether you stay or leave

 

[HopeKillCure]

Its tragic breh.




I cant...

Understood breh

#ColiStrong

 

[Ol’Otis]

How'd it happen breh, did you actually find proof, did she confess? Or you just convinced it went down

found proof and she confessed
still only got half the story

this thread got me in my feelings i'm out

 

[Critical Distance]

nope

 

[The Mad Titan]

You seem young yet wise


You get it.

You will be alright regardless of whether you stay or leave

I agree if @Kant came along a few years ago I'd probably



Ironically enough she seems to be what all these coli dudes claim to want yet....

 

[Ashley Banks]

Daaaamn yall cold

Isn't it just sex? thought yall in love

Nope. I wouldn't stop loving him, it just proves he doesn't love me. Plus the relationship just wouldn't be the same.

Will u start datin black men again or?

I never stopped dating black men, so yeah I would continue dating black men.