can/will you forgive your s/o if they cheated?

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[morris]

Yep, planned and willful deception every single time. Lots of them get off and get many thrills off of that crap.
#Murder

Can't condone murder...not for no trifling chick. Nope

But do you. You see you point though

 

[Rawtid]

Forgive? Yes. But I wouldn't forget nor could I trust him again.

 

[EARFQUAKE]

I cannot fall into some p*ssy (would be nice though) just like it can't fall into her.

My guess is you are young and gave your heart to him, her, it. don't worry..maybe loyalty will win this time













Maybe

I've never experienced this, I'm asking for future reference

 

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Who? I don't know that person anymore

 

[Ashley Banks]

I can, but I don't think I should. I know myself. I wouldn't be able to be spontaneously intimate with her anymore because I'd always think that if I were to let her off the hook and give her a second chance, she'd just leverage that shyt and use it to see if she could get away with the shyts again when she found the rewards of fukkin' around greater than keeping me.

I did that shyt in teens during my milquetoast years, I ain't HOH, but I ain't about to be any chick's doormat again either.

I agree, I know I would be able to forgive someone for cheating because that's just the type of person I am but I'm leaving.

Because dudes don't cheat, get taken back, then stop. No they keep cheating or worse do like @benjamin and get the side chick pregnant and force you into a polygamous relationship. No thanks.

I do too much for my husband and it would NOT be the same if he cheated and I took him back. No sex, I'm not cooking for you, wash your own clothes, don't look at me or touch me.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

Can't condone murder...not for no trifling chick. Nope

But do you. You see you point though

True.

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[benjamin]

This is obnoxious but at least he is being honest as this is the case for a lot of men. One of the reasons why I will not forgive cheating or try to work it out. They expect your trust to be at the level of pre-cheating and don't want to be transparent. It will inevitably end so WTF stress and bother with the SOB.

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[HopeKillCure]

This thread is interesting for the lovers in here.

The Coli like:

 

[UltimateSource]

Its been 6 years and I still wanna push that bytch into an exhaust fan.

 

[onelastdeath]

Women should forgive men, men shouldn't forgive women. It's different.

I'd never forgive my girl if she did that to me

 

[morris]

I've never experienced this, I'm asking for future reference

Good.

Me neither, and I am not exceptionally good looking.

I think the reason women put up with a cheating man is if he is successful AND the fact we want what they sometimes maliciously deny .... and have to find it in the arms of another willing lady. Not right, but historically accurate.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

Forgive? Yes. But I wouldn't forget nor could I trust him again.

Do you mean forgive, period? Under any circumstance?

For me, if he came clean on his own (I would know something was amiss anyway), I could forgive but still would dead it.

This woman was telling me the other day that she would not leave her husband, upset her 2 kids and let the side chicks have what she's worked so hard for.

Not married, no kids but I still don't think I could swing it even under those circumstances.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

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[HopeKillCure]

Sex kills.

Provided I am healthy and didn't contract anything, it isn't the sex with me; it's using our resources on someone else.

Yeah, If they tricking off with yall money on someone else or they got someone else in their ear influencing yall relationship then no doubt, but a booty call or a moment of sexual deviance, yall tough. What if he said he used protection? You love that man, you wouldnt let him eat foreign 1 time?