That’s the social engineering aspect that I was talking about it’s fake but people convince themselves that because Usher said hello to them once that is now their standard.I'll expand a bit. Throw out the terms for a second. There is a growing number of folks who feel entitled to relationships with a certain caliber of male or female(or any relationship at all) and the lack of fulfillmemt of this entitlement is leading to new unseen levels of bitterness. I'll fold here and say social medis is making this worse by allowing echo chambers for this bitterness that offer 0 solutions.
Applying a term seems to get people bogged down into whether or not they are having sex. I'm focusing more on the psychological erosion attached to these unfulfilled entitlements. Yes a woman can get sex easier than a man but that doesn't mean she isn't developing the same negative mental state as the incel(term used to refer to certain mental viewpoints...sorry it's just convenient).
Men because of our massive sex drives can’t afford to be this delusional
But women are women so being a divestor and demanding a cac despite being in Africa or Altanta doesn’t matter because if you declare that you’ve divested whether you even see a cac in person then thats all you need.