Can we have an earnest discussion about the femcel issue we have in the Black community?

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I'll expand a bit. Throw out the terms for a second. There is a growing number of folks who feel entitled to relationships with a certain caliber of male or female(or any relationship at all) and the lack of fulfillmemt of this entitlement is leading to new unseen levels of bitterness. I'll fold here and say social medis is making this worse by allowing echo chambers for this bitterness that offer 0 solutions.


Applying a term seems to get people bogged down into whether or not they are having sex. I'm focusing more on the psychological erosion attached to these unfulfilled entitlements. Yes a woman can get sex easier than a man but that doesn't mean she isn't developing the same negative mental state as the incel(term used to refer to certain mental viewpoints...sorry it's just convenient).
That’s the social engineering aspect that I was talking about it’s fake but people convince themselves that because Usher said hello to them once that is now their standard.

Men because of our massive sex drives can’t afford to be this delusional

But women are women so being a divestor and demanding a cac despite being in Africa or Altanta doesn’t matter because if you declare that you’ve divested whether you even see a cac in person then thats all you need.
 

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:francis:Both black men and women be pushing anti black rhetoric against each other. I mean they be creating groups, movements, and slang just to shyt on the opposite gender. We all can acknowledge the anti BW rhetoric from BM. All day but when it comes time to acknowledge the anti BM rhetoric from BW. Bruhs would start doing their best Stevie Wonder impression.
 

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I know some people wanna dismiss this femcel shyt usually because these discussion aren't always had in good faith, but that first tweet getting so many likes is disturbing.

All those tweets got thousands

Twitter is controlled by a white supremacist who wants to spread dysfunction via algorithms and also has thousands of bots. They can all push all the anti-black narratives they want and slowly convert "just internet shyt" into real life shyt

but yall love that platform
 
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According to the local 🦝's on the coli we cant have any discussions about black ppl because white ppl may or may not be watching. They scared of what massa might think of us. Yet they've failed to provide where a "safe place" is to talk about it.
 

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With zero evidence to back this up, I fully believe that the majority of these "black women and men" making these divisive and inflammatory ass gender war statements are in digital black face. This shyt is designed to keep low vibrational nikkas low vibrating, and y'all eat it up and allow it to bother you every time.

I don't know any black people who refer to or talk about other black people in this manner. Not back in the day, not now.
 

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I'll abandon this account today if ANYONE can list a single racial slur that a nonblack woman has exclusively for their race of men.
I'll abandon this account today if ANYONE provides an example of a nonblack woman villainizing the male children of their race in such a manner

Asian women definitely do this. Not sure if they have a slur though. I think they call them rice-cels
 

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Why do y'all follow these people?! Some of you guys live in weird spaces on these social media apps. Actively searching for things to make you mad is part of the problem too. You're giving them the attention that they seek. Just take note of it and keep it pushing.
 

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Why do y'all follow these people?! Some of you guys live in weird spaces on these social media apps. Actively searching for things to make you mad is part of the problem too. You're giving them the attention that they seek. Just take note of it and keep it pushing.
Would you say the same thing if this were white people saying this shyt? It's ridiculous to think this is the answer. Anti-blackness is anti-blackness. If you're scared to call it out, just say so because coming up with these weird rules of letting this person say it while being mad at others just teaches them a better way to spread their shyt while weaponizing that group or their image against their own.

It's becoming harder and harder not to think a decent portion of shyt in the black community is its own damn fault.
 

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Everyone agrees that online manosphere/ redpill content is negatively impacting young men & boys, there’s even a widely celebrated Netflix talking about this very issue

But of course when roles are reversed you get the usual lazy deflections. ‘It’s just twitter’,’what do you want us to do?’, ‘who hurt you?, ‘these aren’t real accounts’, ‘how did you find this?’.

Spineless nikkas & lame bytches thinking this shyt normal because their hoe ass moms failed them.
 
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