Can a woman cheat and still be in love?

Shameonyou

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throw love aside for once sec

lets say she cheats on you..the cooch may never be the same
cause lets be honest the nikka that she was messign with will probably go extra hard for that session cause he knows he only has one shot of smashing her





wife cheating is probably the worst thing ever

yea which is why I said she may have to weigh her options whether you mean as much as you do to her....or her sexual needs are more important....if a woman has to decide that....she probably shouldnt have been your wife in the beginning.
 

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:heh: I love the excuses the come after getting caught.

Truth is the truth. Does it justify it? No, I believe if something is wrong you either try to fix it or move around. If you aren't getting what you want/need why are you with the person?
 

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Truth is the truth. Does it justify it? No, I believe if something is wrong you either try to fix it or move around. If you aren't getting what you want/need why are you with the person?

Fear of being alone. Wanting your cake and eating it, too. Security in one form or another.
 

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Yeah, and it's also why people cheat and use "I wasn't getting what I needed" as an excuse.
To me if its true then its not an excuse, its just what it is. That could very well be the reason they did cheat. They are still wrong.
 

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To me if its true then its not an excuse, its just what it is. That could very well be the reason they did cheat. They are still wrong.

No, it's an excuse. It's always an excuse. It's a much easier and less selfish thing to do when you communicate problems rather than act out like a child.
 

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No, it's an excuse. It's always an excuse. It's a much easier and less selfish thing to do when you communicate problems rather than act out like a child.
A reason is not an excuse, it is the reason that they did what they did.

The reason for an action has nothing to do with what someone could have done or what they should have done. It is why they did what they did. Just because someone doesn't think its enough doesn't change the reason they did it.

Now once somebody tries to justify it, then it becomes an excuse. If they try to say they aren't wrong because of missing something, then it becomes an excuse.
 

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You can't be in love with someone and cheat.. If you can cheat on your S/O then you aren't in love. You may care for them but you aren't in love with them.

Cheating is a selfish act. The only person you love is yourself.
 

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A reason is not an excuse, it is the reason that they did what they did.

The reason for an action has nothing to do with what someone could have done or what they should have done. It is why they did what they did. Just because someone doesn't think its enough doesn't change the reason they did it.

Now once somebody tries to justify it, then it becomes an excuse. If they try to say they aren't wrong because of missing something, then it becomes an excuse.

"I wasn't getting what I needed" is the reason that they're trying to use as an excuse. That's why people who use that harp on it as hard as they can to take the heat off of themselves. They wouldn't bring it up like that if they were willing to accept responsibility for their actions.
 
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