Brehs with Young Daughters and Sisters

[number21]

Yeah, adding that he got wisdom and on the same wavelength as me.

Why would you want your daughter/young sister bouncing from young dummy to young dummy or have her go through struggle loving with some young dude?

 

[Professor Emeritus]

"if his intentions are genuine" is hard to measure, so I'd be distrustful off rip.

It's just way too easy for an older man to manipulate girls that age. Even seniors who got no game as underclassmen could turn around and play freshmen girls like fiddles. A complete creep of a 27yo that any woman his age can see right through is often able to entrance even a popular 18 year old girl, because he's got ~10 years of adult experience and she's got less than one.

I'd also prefer that my daughter wait until 20-21 at least to get into a really serious relationship.

 

[Scaaar]

Our women and men diverge from this because it isn’t pushed in our culture. Also, young men of all races are dropping out of colleges and trades and are not on the paths to support families by the time they are 30. So there’s less “marriageable” men period in American culture which is why marriage rates are declining, marriages are happening later, and there’s a rise in red pill content and “gender wars”.

Also, men who are college educated and/or making good money in blue collar fields are statistically more likely to be married. And most are married to women of similar social circles and backgrounds. So unmarried men over 40 is a red flag in itself. Is he divorced with kids and baggage? Is he unmarried for security or financial reasons? Or maturity reasons? Either way something is probably wrong and sis will be better long term with a younger breh with less baggage.

You're right and expounded on a bunch of other underlying factors. This is a very nuanced topic that it's hard to solve without addressing other things around it. But we do need a reset at the base level. We have a big culture and community issue. But there needs to be a shift towards marriage minded since it's the most conventional way to build wealth. Those early 20s are your formative years on all levels so that is the prime age for marriage. They say it takes a village to raise a child but I also believe it takes a village to help nuture a healthy relationship with your partner. That doesn't mean running to them when it's only bad stuff but also for the positive things as well too. I see too many posts bashing on the bad side of marriage but never praising the benefits of it.


After your 30s you have accumulated a bit of baggage and are stuck in your ways so it's too hard for most people to be sensible and adjust and adapt to a partner. Too much ego is in the relationship.

 

[Professor Emeritus]

The rule is usually half your age + 7. 40 years old /2 = 20 + 7 = 27 would be ideal.

I legit remember the first time someone told me that in my college's hangout spot and I still run the calculation in my head to this day. I legit thought it was something he had just made up, but it works well.

 

[Still Benefited]

If you don’t have your own money that puts you at the mercy of whoever you’re with for the money. That’s why women stay in shytty abusive relationships because they have nothing to flee to, they can’t take care of their kids, etc.

You just said most BW aren’t making money so what group are you observing with their hands out? Educated women with careers? Or the broke women you just mentioned?

I’m always weary of men that have an issue with women having goals in life or wanting to be able to take care of herself. Like why do you NEED a woman to have nothing?

Why are women so eager to work for other men who arent their husbands? Guess they are choosing wrong. Or there arent many black men out there, who actually have anything for women to do.


In a real world,not this artificial one. Your goals would be the goals of the man you love. In the g.m.o world your goals are whatever the European says(your other husband)




But to answer the question I wouldnt accept it. But would accept I failed as a father,and there is nothing I can do about it. So you would have to accept your failure,or disown your failure. I would just salt drop on their relationship and not take my L lying down. Now if my daughter is only 18,pops is catching the fade

 

[levitate]

Hell no.

Weirdo creepy shyt.

If you can say that she was 5 when you were 25, something is wrong.

It’s gross.

 

[5n0man]

All women are easily manipulated to some degree. Age has nothing to do with it.

Women are really just grown children. And I have no problem with that fact except for the fact that they want to pretend to be on the level of men when they are nowhere close to us.

Wrong


"The brain finishes developing and maturing in the mid-to-late 20s. The part of the brain behind the forehead, called the prefrontal cortex, is one of the last parts to mature. This area is responsible for skills like planning, prioritizing, and making good decisions."

 

[OliviaTwist]

Yeah, adding that he got wisdom and on the same wavelength as me.

Why would you want your daughter/young sister bouncing from young dummy to young dummy or have her go through struggle loving with some young dude?

Why is a younger man her age peer equal to struggle love?

 

[Numpsay]

I don't think an 18 year old is mature enough to be dealing with 40 yo men. At 25 I don't think the age gap matters since women should be fully developed mentally at that age, so she should be able to make sound decisions.

I also feel like its kinda weird for a middle aged man to be seeking barely legal teenagers for relationships. I feel like they do that because young women are easily manipulated so they take advantage of their naivety.

All types of red flags, I feel like most of those men would fukk a minor if they knew they could get away with it.

at the bolded. Y'all can't be interacting with women in real life.

 

[number21]

Why is a younger man her age peer equal to struggle love?

Why play dumb? The average younger man isn't as established as the average older man.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Why are women so eager to work for other men who arent their husbands? Guess they are choosing wrong. Or there arent many black men out there, who actually have anything for women to do.


In a real world,not this artificial one. Your goals would be the goals of the man you love. In the g.m.o world your goals are whatever the European says(your other husband)




But to answer the question I wouldnt accept it. But would accept I failed as a father,and there is nothing I can do about it. So you would have to accept your failure,or disown your failure. I would just salt drop on their relationship and not take my L lying down. Now if my daughter is only 18,pops is catching the fade

Man what are you talking about? do these men have their own businesses that bring in money? I’m sure most women would prefer to work at a family company than outside companies but most men don’t have the means to offer their wives that luxury.

 

[Still Benefited]

Again, this is straight out of a BET series or some fantasy that women have in their heads.

Women staying in abusive relationships has nothing to do with money, when many BW are single and independent. By the way, abusiveness goes both ways. Let's keep that in mind too.

The average BW makes less than the BM, so that means, most BW make less than a BM. There are a lot of single BW with kids, BW are not married, there are more BM married than BW and there are less BM than BW, this point here states that single BW are out here living on their own so who mercy are they're at when most BW are "single" and living on their own with kids? Aint these BW taking care of their own? Don't these women have their own money to pay for their own bills? What are you talking about? Please stop living in lala world with these thoughts smh.

Your post and thoughts don't align with the real reality.

A woman can have a million dollars and another woman can have nothing, both women look at a man the same, they will eventually want that man to carry most of the bills if not all.

So me saying women are broke and you and the other poster advocating for women to have money, at the end of the day when it all comes down to it, that woman and her money will still want her man to have resources to take care of her.

Perfectly said,there was a time Im sure where women werent protected by the govt. But as long as Ive been alive? Women have white supremacy at their beck in call to remove an abusive man. Who will also gladly support them financially. The only reason women stay in abusive relationship is love and stupidity. Which can work hand in hand obviously.

 

[The ADD]

I'm of the same mind. I want my daughter to date someone in her age bracket. That way I know there's a higher chance for mutual love and respect. Since they'll not be on even playing grounds. Any older breh that tries I already know it's just a manipulation play. They literally have zero in common and if they do im looking at the older dude crazy since he shouldnt What other reason does he have to even come sniffing around except for sex.

That might be what she wants

 

[NO-BadAzz]

it’s not out of fantasy or BET. there are literally countless studies highlighting the fact that poor women (and men) stay in bad/dangerous situations due to not having anything.

More Women Are Victims Of Domestic Violence Because Of Poverty

Financial dependence has trapped many women in abusive relationships

aninjusticemag.com

News

cpag.org.uk

https://fyi.extension.wisc.edu/financialseries/files/2012/02/Financial-Capability-and-Domestic-Violence.pdf

https://scholarship.law.wm.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1380&context=wmjowl

https://www.gov.nl.ca/vpi/files/economicindependence.pdf

Economic Distress and Intimate Partner Violence

Financial strain, unemployment and living in economically disadvantaged neighborhoods can impact rates and severity of intimate partner violence.[1] NIJ has funded a number of studies that have shown relationships between:

nij.ojp.gov

But BET & my fantasy right? and these are just the first few links I can literally provide THOUSANDS.


You’re discrediting yourself making blanket statements. Do ALL women that stay in bad relationships do it for financial reasons? No. But don’t pretend that people aren’t afraid of being homeless and struggling with their kids, my thoughts absolutely align with reality Ive volunteered for countless women’s shelters helped COUNTLESS women out of abusive situations that literally left with nothing but the clothes they were wearing and had to start over living in motels with their children.

No one is saying a woman with money won’t want a man with money, I was answering your question of “So because a woman makes money (has a job) this means her money protects her from what?” I wasn’t attempting to make it seem like a woman having money will make her be with a man that doesn’t have anything.

Ma'am these women don't have jobs or can't get a job and move out of these abusive relationships? These women need a man (to support them)? Is this what you're saying? Ok. Let's go with that. I'll play along.

What I would like to ask you about these women who are in these "relationships or situationships" because these are not marriages that you're speaking of, Why pick a nikka and have a baby with an abuser? Why not marry FIRST before letting a man create a kid? I'll ask you why these women are choosing to have babies with men that move like this??

I want to ask you, do these women seek out a wedding or do they just pick bad men? Do they need help picking better men?

I'm sorry, it's bad that these women and men are stuck with an abusive "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" Pick Better.

You as a woman that's poor (again poor, you paint these women as 1 fuss away at being homeless), why the hell are you even out here having babies without being married, and before you throw out these BW are married, you may wanna check the martial rate for BW. BW are not married like that.

So you have women, BW, having babies for abusive ass men?? You really wanna unpack this? How about you vet the man you let shoot up in you, or you marry the man first, spend time with him, bring him around your father, and then you have kids.

You as a BW, you can get married to a man, vet a man, and see his ways, as an adult, before you get with a man, most BW and BM have enough money to live independently. That's called being an adult

 

[Scaaar]

Why is a younger man her age peer equal to struggle love?

That's the same question I ask? What exactly is struggle love? Now if you're in your late 30s and dating a bum I understand and you gotta eat that because that's what you qualify for. But in your 20s everyone is broke and figuring it out unless you come from money and that's a rare exception. statistically most people don't make a comfortable income until their 30s.