Brehs with Young Daughters and Sisters

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I don't think an 18 year old is mature enough to be dealing with 40 yo men. At 25 I don't think the age gap matters since women should be fully developed mentally at that age, so she should be able to make sound decisions.

I also feel like its kinda weird for a middle aged man to be seeking barely legal teenagers for relationships. I feel like they do that because young women are easily manipulated so they take advantage of their naivety.

All types of red flags, I feel like most of those men would fukk a minor if they knew they could get away with it.




All women are easily manipulated to some degree. Age has nothing to do with it.

Women are really just grown children. And I have no problem with that fact except for the fact that they want to pretend to be on the level of men when they are nowhere close to us.
 

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Black people romanticize about marriage waaaayyyy too much. And we're failing the most.

Marriage is business 1st. A solid provider is of upmost importance. Not that you both say the same word at the same times once a month.

Every other race and even our race 50 years ago, encouraged the women to marry in their 20s. I'm in corporate America, Black women are the only ones busting their azz. Women with husbands are living well, always happy at work, bringing in cupcakes and shyt.

Teaching your daughter to be independent and to put their education and career first is the dumbest thing you can do. No man wants an independent, driven, career oriented, 30+ wife.

Few men might say they do, but the stats say different.
Is this speech given to men in their 20s? Who are these 20 something year old young women supposed to marry?
 
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This doesn't answer the question that @Gloxina asked but I would grab a young chic up. I really think it's one of the "unfair" (at least to women) things about being a man. I see younger women with older men WAY more than I see younger men with older women.

If men take care of ourselves physically and mentally, and we continue to gain resources as we get older, we will always have willing women in their twenties (not all but some) who desire the stability and strength and resources that an older man has.

I would most definitely get a young chic. And I'll say the quiet part out loud. A young chic is going to be more open and she doesn't have the baggage and mouth that an older woman would have. So it's a win win situation.

As far as her being inexperienced, women adapt to the men that they are with. Being with a more mature man makes a woman mature. Women always take on the qualities of the man they're with.
 

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This doesn't answer the question that @Gloxina asked but I would grab a young chic up. I really think it's one of the "unfair" (at least to women) things about being a man. I see younger women with older men WAY more than I see younger men with older women.

If men take care of ourselves physically and mentally, and we continue to gain resources as we get older, we will always have willing women in their twenties (not all but some) who desire the stability and strength and resources that an older man has.

I would most definitely get a young chic. And I'll say the quiet part out loud. A young chic is going to be more open and she doesn't have the baggage and mouth that an older woman would have. So it's a win win situation.

As far as her being inexperienced, women adapt to the men that they are with. Being with a more mature man makes a woman mature. Women always take on the qualities of the man they're with.
Get as in marry?
 

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People's opinions always change when its regarding them.

I have young girls in my family, I'd never encourage them to date older men.

Older men just want something to fukk :mjlol:
and have a gang of baggage too. She shouldn't give that old bum any of her time, she needs to start fresh and slowly grow her baggage like the rest of us, with someone her own age.

Same shyt to the younger guys in my family, fukk who you want but relationship stay in your lane.

But in the end she's gonna do what she wants so:manny:
 

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Is this speech given to men in their 20s? Who are these 20 something year old young women supposed to marry?
Older black men want to 'hoard' younger women and price younger black men out the dating market. The gag is, is that these older black men are not marrying these younger women. They are running through them and 'ruining' them and then throwing them back into the dating pool. They are getting off on the con of damaging these women. Its really a pimp strategy that washes, rinses and repeat with every generation of black men.
 

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1. Black men and women have one of the lowest marriage rates and most marriages don’t have a significant age gap. So older men aren’t marrying younger women like that.

2 Black men have lower incomes on average and less wealth being passed down so most can’t afford to take care of a woman no matter the age. Especially if they plan on having kids.

3. Women late 20s and up can better discern numbers 1 and 2 so men with nothing to offer will definitely prefer younger women since they are easier to manipulate

4. Men who always talk about women needing to be “pure” while actively having sex with various women will probably fukk kids/teens

5. I think that poster quoted in the OP said that women shouldn’t be allowed to vote. If so he’s not a person to take seriously. If that wasn’t him my bad.
 

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1. Black men and women have one of the lowest marriage rates and most marriages don’t have a significant age gap. So older men aren’t marrying younger women like that.

2 Black men have lower incomes on average and less wealth being passed down so most can’t afford to take care of a woman no matter the age. Especially if they plan on having kids.

3. Women late 20s and up can better discern numbers 1 and 2 so men with nothing to offer will definitely prefer younger women since they are easier to manipulate

4. Men who always talk about women needing to be “pure” while actively having sex with various women will probably fukk kids/teens

5. I think that poster quoted in the OP said that women shouldn’t be allowed to vote. If so he’s not a person to take seriously. If that wasn’t him my bad.

I never said that.
 

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I'm of the same mind. I want my daughter to date someone in her age bracket. That way I know there's a higher chance for mutual love and respect. Since they'll not be on even playing grounds. Any older breh that tries I already know it's just a manipulation play. They literally have zero in common and if they do im looking at the older dude crazy since he shouldnt What other reason does he have to even come sniffing around except for sex.
 

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Would you encourage your 18/20 YO daughter to be with a 40YO man?

Why or why not?




Would you be ok with your 23YO daughter/sister “dating” a man as old and flabby as Irv?
Daughter with a man older than me? Absolutely not.

Full stop.

My baby sister did that shyt actually. Nothing I could do, she wanted to be down bad apparently
 
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