Brehs who are single, never married and over 35.....................

[Vandelay]

I meant to post in here a couple days ago. I actually was going to create a thread on this same topic.

I broke up with my LTR a month ago. We were going strong for damn near 5 years and I was about to put a ring on it, but we both self-destructed and here I am 39, going on 40 in 6 weeks.

I want a kid, I'm meh on marriage because I been married before. My ex had a kid, but one of my malfunctions was I didn't ever feel she was going to let me really be a step-dad to her son. In addition, I felt like she was meh on having another kid. So that amongst other reasons I terminated the relationship.

So, imma play the field for the next year maybe 2, figure out my career situation (I may leave Chicago), stack my paper and get on my relationship shyt again. I just came to terms with I'm just gonna be an old ass dad. Is what it is... it's not ideal, but me not having a kid is a worse fate. I just figure I'm probably gonna be with someone much younger than me now, 8-10 years younger.

 

[AtomicUse]

I meant to post in here a couple days ago. I actually was going to create a thread on this same topic.

I broke up with my LTR a month ago. We were going strong for damn near 5 years and I was about to put a ring on it, but we both self-destructed and here I am 39, going on 40 in 6 weeks.

I want a kid, I'm meh on marriage because I been married before. My ex had a kid, but one of my malfunctions was I didn't ever feel she was going to let me really be a step-dad to her son. In addition, I felt like she was meh on having another kid. So that amongst other reasons I terminated the relationship.

So, imma play the field for the next year maybe 2, figure out my career situation (I may leave Chicago), stack my paper and get on my relationship shyt again. I just came to terms with I'm just gonna be an old ass dad. Is what it is... it's not ideal, but me not having a kid is a worse fate. I just figure I'm probably gonna be with someone much younger than me now, 8-10 years younger.

It’s a lot of childless professional women in the city for you to date. Not saying they’d make great mothers or wives, but you should be able to occupy yourself.

 

[Vandelay]

It’s a lot of childless professional women in the city for you to date. Not saying they’d make great mothers or wives, but you should be able to occupy yourself.

Chicago has been a great dating city for me, and I'm awkward as fukk with women. There's women at my job now I could get something cracking with. Not afraid of finding someone new. I just always said I didn't want to be 60 with a high schooler.

I'm just really gonna take the next few months and focus on what I really want going forward. I'm not old clearly, but I can't really fukk around with my next relationship if the kid is still important to me. I'm not jumping back into something if it's not something that is gonna work for me for the long haul.

 

[hood b. goode]

About to be 36

Saw my parents in person for a couple of weeks just now during the holidays

They couldnt even pretend to be patient iwth me anyone, straight up asked why Im not married

I equally was fed up with explaining how dating / women are in 2025. When you provide men / women with infinite options, the match rate plummets

 

[-DMP-]

About to be 36

Saw my parents in person for a couple of weeks just now during the holidays

They couldnt even pretend to be patient iwth me anyone, straight up asked why Im not married

I equally was fed up with explaining how dating / women are in 2025. When you provide men / women with infinite options, the match rate plummets

My folk don’t even bring it up anymore thank god. It’s hard explaining to them things are different now

 

[cyndaquil]

Chicago has been a great dating city for me, and I'm awkward as fukk with women. There's women at my job now I could get something cracking with. Not afraid of finding someone new. I just always said I didn't want to be 60 with a high schooler.

I'm just really gonna take the next few months and focus on what I really want going forward. I'm not old clearly, but I can't really fukk around with my next relationship if the kid is still important to me. I'm not jumping back into something if it's not something that is gonna work for me for the long haul.

Seeing this response andhaving seen that hinge thread got me breh you had a starting 5 roster with role players by end of the year

 

[benjamin]

About to be 36

Saw my parents in person for a couple of weeks just now during the holidays

They couldnt even pretend to be patient iwth me anyone, straight up asked why Im not married

I equally was fed up with explaining how dating / women are in 2025. When you provide men / women with infinite options, the match rate plummets

...this why I stay bussin nuts in my side pieces..I'm trying to have 12 chillen by years end...MY BLOODLINE SHALL LIVE THY QUEEN SHALL RECIEVE THY NUT...HAAAALLLLPPPP

 

[ba'al]

I'm not thirty yet but if you were never married and over 35 no kids.

I already know ya'll family members talking shyt.

"Why you ain't married yet!" "YOU GAY!?"

 

[The BasedFather]

31 with a 2 year old boy. Not having anymore kids, I don’t think. Wouldn’t mind having a baby girl. Got lucky with a son though so he can carry our name. Have absolutely ZERO interest in marriage at this point in my life. I’m not all into monogamy. Having a selection of women is where my interest lies. Right now just focused on taking my career to the next level, moving to my desired state and making sure my son is good

 

[MikelArteta]

im married now

 

[Big Mountain Hélà]

37 no kids

 

[Vandelay]

Seeing this response andhaving seen that hinge thread got me breh you had a starting 5 roster with role players by end of the year

Your dikk will talk you into anything.

For what it's worth, I blew my roster up literally this week...down to potentially only 1.

 

[The ADD]

Your dikk will talk you into anything.

For what it's worth, I blew my roster up literally this week...down to potentially only 1.

 

[The ADD]

44 going on 45. Met my girl in 2020. Definitely headed towards marriage, already decided against kids.

No complaints

Well damn

Just got back into town from a trip to make final wedding plans at the venue.

 

[Wiseborn]

...this why I stay bussin nuts in my side pieces..I'm trying to have 12 chillen by years end...MY BLOODLINE SHALL LIVE THY QUEEN SHALL RECIEVE THY NUT...HAAAALLLLPPPP

You do know women don’t have children until they’re good and ready right?

Feel free to shoot up clubs I learned a long time ago that don’t mean she’s getting pregnant.