Brehs who are single, never married and over 35.....................

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Same here, close to a 40 year age gap between the youngest and oldest children from my Grandad
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Edit: @bdizzle you still 6 cert gang? Good to see u return you’ve helped a lot of brehs out here
Thankfully breh I'm getting ready to leave 6 cert gang alone. I've noticed there's been a lot of DEI hires lately :scust:

I just filed paperwork to join #7certgang :wow:

It's a lot more exclusive and they don't let just anyone in. Plus I really love the fact they push positivity and have a strict no nikkas naysayers policy :mjpls:
 

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38 and 1 kid..

been single for a nice minute now.. about 12 years

been working tirelessly tho and on the brink of success.. not interested one bit in marriage
 

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the problem with getting married in this age is you find women fall in two categories

1. Broke.
Theses types just arent good with money.
They vary from well meaning women to those who are just looking to use you.
If you can afford a broke well meaning broad they will be the most loyal to you...but you have to be able to afford it.
You also have to be solid enough to where she respects the fukk out of you and follows your lead.

2. Has money.
These types have their own money but they are used to doing things their own way.
Also, them having money doesnt mean youre going to save money because they probably also like to spend money (trips, clothes, etc...).
They arent going to go into their feminine unless they see you as far beyond what they are.
 

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No kids, not married, not in a relationship. Last serious one ended about a year ago after two years time.

Since I’m 39, I’m just gonna use these next few years to create a new environment for myself for the years 50 and after. I pretty much told myself that’s the direction I’d take before my last serious relationship ended.

Takes too much energy to try to focus on finding someone. Women have always been around anyways, that’s why to focus on it isn’t what I should be doing.

While there are some things I could have done differently, I’m not mad at where I am. If I had kids when I was younger, chances are I’d be on a different course with different stresses, etc. not that I’d be mad at that, I can just say that the direction I’ve gone at least doesn’t involve anyone being dependent on me other than me and that means less stress the world over.
 

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I was a member of this club till last year.
Got some good p*ssy back in June and now my firstborn is due next month.
I am 45 years old :palm:. And while I'm happy and looking forward to meeting my son / daughter (we don't know the sex), I'm not super thrilled about the prospect of getting married (I put a ring on it on X-mas).
So, my advice to the slightly younger brehs who desire lifelong freedom... get that snip!
That hefty 401k about to get taxed. :wow:

But you’re being blessed with a kid, and you got the means to provide for it. :blessed:
 

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I was a member of this club till last year.
Got some good p*ssy back in June and now my firstborn is due next month.
I am 45 years old :palm:. And while I'm happy and looking forward to meeting my son / daughter (we don't know the sex), I'm not super thrilled about the prospect of getting married (I put a ring on it on X-mas).
So, my advice to the slightly younger brehs who desire lifelong freedom... get that snip!

Congrats breh.
 

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Oh shyt here come peter pan gang

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Nah Im playing keep living your best life 👍🏾


LMFAO IM HOWLING :russ:


hold this rep breh
 

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Thankfully breh I'm getting ready to leave 6 cert gang alone. I've noticed there's been a lot of DEI hires lately :scust:

I just filed paperwork to join #7certgang :wow:

It's a lot more exclusive and they don't let just anyone in. Plus I really love the fact they push positivity and have a strict no nikkas naysayers policy :mjpls:
This is what I’m looking for, please enlighten me breh, working as a senior Devops engineer for the last 3 years and the bootcamp coders are lessening our value. Looking for a way out or a way up and away from these newly minted engineers :mjpls:
 

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I think the worst part about waiting too late is it's hard to find someone willing to compromise, and for you to compromise as well. Two people set in their ways, living their lives how they want to for most of their adult lives; change is hard. I'd imagine it's a shock to the system to get on the same page with another person after going solo for so long. While I don't think marriage is for everyone, I think late 20's/early 30's is the perfect time to settle down.
 
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