At the end of the day, girls in that prime age bracket(16-25) care more about personality.If you have a personality that they find entertaining, they'll pay you to possess a piece of it.And if you're stroking that middle with the fury of John Henry The Railroad Man, you got her till death.
If you're a boring nikka that she had to settle for because she's in a bind/ran out of options, you might have to use your money as compensation.
Bad chicks(I mean that looks wise) get with boring/lame cats by accident.They balla boyfriend probably just got sentenced to 20 years on some trumped up drug charges, her world is turned upside down/spiraling out of control a bit. Along comes some regular joe schmoe ready to
.The nikka with the 5 bdrm house/H2's/Benz is in jail...she's living place to place, shacking up with friends, begging people for rides----All of a sudden, the nikka who makes $14 dollars an hour and drives a Hyundai Elantra doesn't seem so bad.His "stability" is actually kinda attractive when she's in that deserted condition.
Next thing you know, she's dating that dude....9/10 it's going end up painful for ol joe schmoe...once that honeymoon phase is done, she'll be looking at you like "How the fukk did I end up with this nikka
?".....If she's a lil mental, she might hold it against you for "taking advantage of her while she was vulnerable" At that point, you're nothing but a shade tree/rehabilitation center.Once she's off the crutches, she'll back on the prowl again.The bird wings are healed and she's ready to soar again...."Operation:Find a new balla because this square shyt's not for me"
That's the only time I've seen a regular Joe pull the "Hot & Heavy" chick...blowing in the winds of life transitioning.
Of course there's gotta be some exceptions...I just haven't seen em yet