brehettes could you date a man making 10-15 a hour?

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This nurse stepped to me and started dropping game to me the other night in the bar, first question was where you work? She was pushing 40 no man with 2 kids.
nurses are some of the biggest tricks out here. i knew a white nurse who went to barbados every 4 months to meet up with her "husband".
 

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Your mom dated down? Explain that dynamic. When I hear stuff like that, I envision the father being really bright and an entrepreneur, not cut out for a shift work.

mom nurse
dad welder

dad made on average before retirement was around 50k
mom made before retirement was around 110k with ot

my dad dropped out of school gr 6 in jamaica, doesn't even read that well.

over 30 years, went fromm a roach infested apartment to a million dollar house
went from nothing to over 200k cash in the bank
 

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Lol and these same men expect perfect housewives with men who make less than minium wage and women who make twice or more that income. That's the dynamic in black relationships that create resentment and discord. If these black women decided to stay home amd raise the kids how would these households survive when you add kids in the picture? Money may not be everything but it is important and anyone who downplays that is selling tall tales.
 

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mom nurse
dad welder

dad made on average before retirement was around 50k
mom made before retirement was around 110k with ot

my dad dropped out of school gr 6 in jamaica, doesn't even read that well.

over 30 years, went fromm a roach infested apartment to a million dollar house
went from nothing to over 200k cash in the bank
my father is the same way. left school early, became a mechanic. moved to nyc, found a job with the government in philly, and has been killing it since.

my father shouldve been a scientist. but, whatever.
 

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as i said before you can tell a immature women looking for marriage from a mature one easily.

Immature
Is he attractive? Does he make me laugh? What kind of car does he drive? What kind of career? Where does he live? How much money does he make? Is their first date chemistry? What interests does he have?

While mature women look at character and his values. Is he Nice? Does he treat me with respect? Will he be a good husband/father? Is he emotionally stable? Do values match up (not interests), does he genuine love me?.
 

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my father is from the islands. can you clean up that undereducated comment?

Why should I when I'm Jamaican myself?He's not a educated person nor am I, I don't have a 4 year degree. Don't take offense, I'm not American myself.

BTW my father was a accountant for Con Edison.

My family is Jamaican breh.
 

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mom nurse
dad welder

dad made on average before retirement was around 50k
mom made before retirement was around 110k with ot

my dad dropped out of school gr 6 in jamaica, doesn't even read that well.

over 30 years, went fromm a roach infested apartment to a million dollar house
went from nothing to over 200k cash in the bank
That's why you push for this so bad. I am sure being a nurse and having mo help around thr house is the perfect situation for modern women.
 
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