brehettes could you date a man making 10-15 a hour?

[Scott Larock]

Yup is getting bodied.

People say I'm a hater but I never go to black social events with single black women, honestly I don't fukk with them at all, they all about money. I only talk to sisters I meet in the daytime when they calm and relaxed, once the sun goes down, the golddiggers come out and I go home.

The mentality they have is too much pressure on the brain.

 

[Yup]

If you're busting your ass to make your money so you aren't living paycheck to paycheck...then you wouldn't even GIVE A fukk about a man's money situation because it would never affect you.

All you'd have to do is not let him leech off you.

So you really shouldn't give a fukk about his drive to make more money or his ambition.

So again...why do you need him to make more money?

Yes I should. Because if we plan entering a serious relationship his money habits are important.

 

[Jhoon]

my mom and my sister both dated down in terms of $$$$
parents been married for over 30 years
and my sister been married for 8

quality won out in the end

Your mom dated down? Explain that dynamic. When I hear stuff like that, I envision the father being really bright and an entrepreneur, not cut out for a shift work.

 

[Gully Bull]

Only making 11.50 at one job and 15 at another job. Good thing I have a good personality to keep me warm at night

 

[Scott Larock]

this is why the world is filled with 30 plus career women still searching for their "equal" or that nukka that makes more than them

This nurse stepped to me and started dropping game to me the other night in the bar, first question was where you work? She was pushing 40 no man with 2 kids.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yes I should. Because if we plan entering a serious relationship his money habits are important.

enjoy garfield the cat

what are you bringing to the table?

type of brehette on pof talking about her condo and her degree

 

[Yup]

Yup is getting bodied.

People say I'm a hater but I never go to black social events with single black women, honestly I don't fukk with them at all, they all about money. I only talk to sisters I meet in the daytime when they calm and relaxed, once the sun goes down, the golddiggers come out and I go home.

The mentality they have is too much pressure on the brain.

That's cool. I don't know any woman regardless of race that would be ok with a man making 10-15 hr. Perhaps, the non black women in the us are different but on canada its moreso black women who are stuck with bums. asian women and chinese women expect a man to make money.

 

[Remote]

Yes I should. Because if we plan entering a serious relationship his money habits are important.

Why?
You got your own tho.

See you could easily shut this whole shyt down by just acknowledging that you want a man to have a lot of money and status so that your vanity is fulfilled (you don't want the 70k a year limo driver...you want the 70k a year IT rep)....and so that you don't have the burden of providing financially for the household and family.

You could easily just admit that part of it and I'd be like...."cool"

But you can't.
Because you're a woman. And women are cowards. You can't face the truth because you're afraid of how you'll look and be portrayed.

Men go after attractive women and make no bones about why.
But women do these mental gymnastics to try and rationalize and explain why they want a man who makes good money.

 

[MikelArteta]

This nurse stepped to me and started dropping game to me the other night in the bar, first question was where you work? She was pushing 40 no man with 2 kids.

but i have a degree and a house

women who have nothing else of substance to offer always push that ish, like a nukka fresh out of school with no work experience hi-lighting his education

 

[Jhoon]

People say I'm a hater but I never go to black social events with single black women, honestly I don't fukk with them at all, they all about money. I only talk to sisters I meet in the daytime when they calm and relaxed, once the sun goes down, the golddiggers come out and I go home.

Ladies making $40k, blowing all of it on dresses and vacation, in hope of running into a man who makes triple of their salary. It's a fun little dance going on.

 

[Scott Larock]

Your mom dated down? Explain that dynamic. When I hear stuff like that, I envision the father being really bright and an entrepreneur, not cut out for a shift work.

My neighbor dates up, makes 30k a year wife makes 60k a year. Both are 40 wife just had a kid last year. He's a undereducated dude from Jamaica who works some painting job.

3 girls at my job married way the he'll down married lawnmen who cut grass. Good looking women too.

Lol @ yup good luck brehette no shade. You gonna need it.

 

[MikelArteta]

That's cool. I don't know any woman regardless of race that would be ok with a man making 10-15 hr. Perhaps, the non black women in the us are different but on canada its moreso black women who are stuck with bums. asian women and chinese women expect a man to make money.

this is

there are more black women than black males in canada
and 60% of black males date outside of their race in canada

asian women and chinese do not expect a man to make money or have money, as long as hes white hes right for many of them.

Have you even been around canada because I have

 

[Yup]

Why?
You got your own tho.

See you could easily shut this whole shyt down by just acknowledging that you want a man to have a lot of money and status so that your vanity is fulfilled (you don't want the 70k a year limo driver...you want the 70k a year IT rep)....and so that you don't have the burden of providing financially for the household and family.

You could easily just admit that part of it and I'd be like...."cool"

But you can't.
Because you're a woman. And women are cowards. You can't face the truth because you're afraid of how you'll look and be portrayed.

Men go after attractive women and make no bones about why.
But women do these mental gymnastics to try and rationalize and explain why they want a man who makes good money.

You don't know me from Adam. But think you know what I want. Finances are important in a relationship...keep thinking that it's the heart alone that counts.

 

[Jhoon]

My neighbor dates up, makes 30k a year wife makes 60k a year. Both are 40 wife just had a kid last year. He's a undereducated dude from Jamaica who works some painting job.

3 girls at my job married way the he'll down married lawnmen who cut grass. Good looking women too.

Lol @ yup good luck brehette no shade. You gonna need it.

my father is from the islands. can you clean up that undereducated comment?

 

[Yup]

My neighbor dates up, makes 30k a year wife makes 60k a year. Both are 40 wife just had a kid last year. He's a undereducated dude from Jamaica who works some painting job.

3 girls at my job married way the he'll down married lawnmen who cut grass. Good looking women too.

Lol @ yup good luck brehette no shade. You gonna need it.

So because they did...I am supposed to want the same?