Im gonna start a campaign to get a separate forum for that shyt. This shyt is ridiculous
U cant fight human physiology. Women want a provider and anchor, men want a caregiver and example of beauty. Women wanting a man with some paper is literally no different from men wanting a woman with some desirable physical trait.
Not to mention, if a woman has standards, she 'wants an insurance plan', but if she doesnt, she is the reason why the black community is in dire straits (enabling deadbeats and destroying the family structure). I dont follow brehs logic.
Wanting a provider is fine, but bring nothing being a woman to the table in exchange is not whats up to me. To be honest wanting a insurance plan is fine too, but again what as a female do they bring besides looks and sex? I think a huge part of why successful men overall feel they way we do now is because we go into relationships subconsciously feeling like "I'm bring all this, what does she offer?" Most of the time its looks, sex and companionship. But those are things that you can get from any woman.
Two people that date or get into a relationship together should make it about being successful together. If he wants to make 10 a year and yall being enjoy each other for months or years, why does that need to change? ( unless kids are going to be involved) If one person has goals to a certain amount of cash then everything should be golden.
I guess coming up that ladder, I've come to realize even tho I make 3 times a much as I made 15 years ago that the cost of living just rises with your income. You pretty much always are broke or in some kind of debt. It's cool to have them goals to make 100k a year, yeah that's cool. I just wish we a community had more goals of things outside of making alot of money and using money as a security blanket. Because its really not when its all said and done....
I think women sell there self short when they set those type of stipulations on guys, same with dudes who only want a pretty face and butt.
Its human nature to want the prettiest and most expensive true, but that has proven time and time again to bring no kind of lasting happiness or peace of mind.