brehettes could you date a man making 10-15 a hour?

[Yup]

I think it depends on different factors. There are some cats that are stopped at that wage who are simply re-uping for bigger moves. Chicks will still mess with you because they appreciate the grind. You won't be messing with a high maintenance dime piece but women appreciate the fact that you have a job because they understand the economy sucks. My homie works as a waiter and he still was able to snag him a skinny white preppy snowbunny.


I think as long as you aren't a near 40 year old weedhead working at McDonalds while living with your mama, you're gucci. Even then there are still hoodrats that will fukk with you.

Please tell it, cause if a girl says it then...
There's a big difference between a temp low paying job and a job with no further prospect. A woman who is worth her salt should always choose wisely cause having a family cost money. So ya it matters.

 

[Yup]

Irrelevant, and the OP specifically specified "looking to better himself."
Personally, I live strictly off loans and financial support from my parents and family.
I'll be in six figures of debt when I'm finished with my schooling.
I won't generate any income until four years from now at the earliest, and that's barring I'm not forced to remediate any subject, pass the boards the first time, and successfully match.

She would be better off with the ambitious fast food worker if she was looking for immediate bread and didn't want to 4-12 years for a payoff, or simply locking down someone who actually has completed their degree, especially considering that she's in the same boat I'm in.

...it's not irrelevant to the topic. And considering a fastfood worker has glass ceiling in terms of income she is better off with you in the long run.
Snd since your girl is asian, I'll assume chinese, education ranks high for them. You guys are acting lilke love aline carries a relationship. It soubds nice, but that's not the reality of the world we live in. And I am saying yhos only if you plan in getting married.

 

[Killer Instinct]

...it's not irrelevant to the topic. And considering a fastfood worker has glass ceiling in terms of income she is better off with you in the long run.
Snd since your girl is asian, I'll assume chinese, education ranks high for them. You guys are acting lilke love aline carries a relationship. It soubds nice, but that's not the reality of the world we live in. And I am saying yhos only if you plan in getting married.

She's Vietnamese actually, and yes, it is irrelevant to my post, but I'll humor you.
She wouldn't be with me now undoubtedly if I was a fast food worker because she's pursuing a damn advanced degree.
On the flip side, I have no doubt that she would still be with me if she was a bank teller or worked at Captain D's and I worked a similar job and was demonstratively ambitious because we would be in the same class.
Here's the thing and the only thing my post touched on.
You can't be out here fishing for a made man when you yourself might make 17-22K for the year, don't like to clean & cook, and you push a Honda Civic.
You won't catch an attractive female dental student "building" with a McDonald's cashier, and that's cool.
If you're approached by a guy who is content with 10.25 an hour, then telling him to kick rocks is perfectly logical. No one has an issue with that.
However, if you yourself aren't be top of the line, you're delusional if you think you're entitled to a man that you didn't entertain when he barely had two nickels to rub together despite of the fact he made it evident he was working towards a substantial goal, and that goes for males AND females.
THAT was the gist of my initial post and your hypothetical was completely irrelevant to that.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

I think most Americans work low wage jobs

this is correct...how she gonna leave when she make the same as he does?

 

[MikelArteta]

"Love" cuts across all boundaries.

My friend is a accountant went on vacay to Jamaica fell for a resort worker they married and have a kid now, and she lives down there but works from home.

And she ain't ugly, old and could have easily found a man in Canada.

I'm just saying

She's Vietnamese actually, and yes, it is irrelevant to my post, but I'll humor you.
She wouldn't be with me now undoubtedly if I was a fast food worker because she's pursuing a damn advanced degree.
On the flip side, I have no doubt that she would still be with me if she was a bank teller or worked at Captain D's and I worked a similar job and was demonstratively ambitious because we would be in the same class.
Here's the thing and the only thing my post touched on.
You can't be out here fishing for a made man when you yourself might make 17-22K for the year, don't like to clean & cook, and you push a Honda Civic.
You won't catch an attractive female dental student "building" with a McDonald's cashier, and that's cool.
If you're approached by a guy who is content with 10.25 an hour, then telling him to kick rocks is perfectly logical. No one has an issue with that.
However, if you yourself aren't be top of the line, you're delusional if you think you're entitled to a man that you didn't entertain when he barely had two nickels to rub together despite of the fact he made it evident he was working towards a substantial goal, and that goes for males AND females.
THAT was the gist of my initial post and your hypothetical was completely irrelevant to that.

 

[Killer Instinct]

"Love" cuts across all boundaries.

My friend is a accountant went on vacay to Jamaica fell for a resort worker they married and have a kid now, and she lives down there but works from home.

And she ain't ugly, old and could have easily found a man in Canada.

I'm just saying

I'm happy for them but you and I both know that's exceptionally rare.
Most women in that position aren't going to date or marry "down" unless the guy is clearly destined for great things.

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm happy for them but you and I both know that's exceptionally rare.
Most women in that position aren't going to date or marry "down" unless the guy is clearly destined for great things.

 

[Yup]

"Love" cuts across all boundaries.

My friend is a accountant went on vacay to Jamaica fell for a resort worker they married and have a kid now, and she lives down there but works from home.

And she ain't ugly, old and could have easily found a man in Canada.

I'm just saying

And leave her butt after he gets his citizenship papers
I just hope its not a black woman

 

[Yup]

I'm happy for them but you and I both know that's exceptionally rare.
Most women in that position aren't going to date or marry "down" unless the guy is clearly destined for great things.

And a man worth his salt wouldn't feel threatened. I don't fault men for their standards on looks so they shouldn't fault women for their standards for financial security. That struggle life is played out.
So y'all better have a plan
If you want a queen

 

[MikelArteta]

What part of she lives down there don't you understand strumpet?

And leave her butt after he gets his citizenship papers
I just hope its not a black woman

 

[MikelArteta]

Let me guess and your average looking fat ass is a queen?


The average American / Canadian is living pay check to paycheck grow up with that financial stability security bs it doesn't exist anymore .

And a man worth his salt wouldn't feel threatened. I don't fault men for their standards on looks so they shouldn't fault women for their standards for financial security. That struggle life is played out.
So y'all better have a plan
If you want a queen

 

[Yup]

Let me guess and your average looking fat ass is a queen?


The average American / Canadian is living pay check to paycheck grow up with that financial stability security bs it doesn't exist anymore .

Call me what you want, say what you want to say. It don't matter anyway...

 

[Yup]

What part of she lives down there don't you understand strumpet?

Oh that's great for her I guess
Love conquers all right...

 

[MikelArteta]

You already admitted your not a dime you said you are average.

Probably the ugliest female on this site, gotta beg posters to meet up.

Keep looking for financial security that doesn't exist.

76 percent of Americans And 70 percent of cdns are living paycheck to paycheck

And that's including cacs and Asians

Keep up your high standards

And your pof account

Call me what you want, say what you want to say. It don't matter anyway...

 

[Yup]

She's Vietnamese actually, and yes, it is irrelevant to my post, but I'll humor you.
She wouldn't be with me now undoubtedly if I was a fast food worker because she's pursuing a damn advanced degree.
On the flip side, I have no doubt that she would still be with me if she was a bank teller or worked at Captain D's and I worked a similar job and was demonstratively ambitious because we would be in the same class.
Here's the thing and the only thing my post touched on.
You can't be out here fishing for a made man when you yourself might make 17-22K for the year, don't like to clean & cook, and you push a Honda Civic.
You won't catch an attractive female dental student "building" with a McDonald's cashier, and that's cool.
If you're approached by a guy who is content with 10.25 an hour, then telling him to kick rocks is perfectly logical. No one has an issue with that.
However, if you yourself aren't be top of the line, you're delusional if you think you're entitled to a man that you didn't entertain when he barely had two nickels to rub together despite of the fact he made it evident he was working towards a substantial goal, and that goes for males AND females.
THAT was the gist of my initial post and your hypothetical was completely irrelevant to that.

Who said top of the line? Most women who have posted have said they are on track to their careers or already there. Why should they want a man thts is less than that?