You're getting emotional breh, relax.
It's not a lecture, it's a reality.
"The truth of the matter is the overwhelming majority of people can't just choose to not have sex."
There is not truth to this matter, at all. Everyone has the conscious decision whether to sleep with someone or not. If you can honestly say a person cannot choose to be abstinent they have an impulse problem.
"It's not your fukking choice whether or not that pregnancy was carried to term -- us as men have ZERO of the burdens associated with living with being pregnant. And as such, we are not in the position to force those with that burden to end a pregnancy or not. You might be able to discuss it with your parent, and have a say ... but ultimately your opinion can't matter if she does or doesn't want to carry it to term."
This is a biological reality that they must go through. And again, accountability should definitely be had, a conversation that need not be had if it was properly demonstrated. You are putting the cart before the horse. I'm saying, if you don't want to have kids, if you don't want to have the "burden," of being pregnant, don't, have, sex. It is not hard to do. A lot of things need to line up in order for someone to have sex. It's not just a trip and fall on some dikk type thing.
"If she decides to abort, then you should have chose a better partner to lay with. See how that works both ways?"
What does this have to do with anything of what we're talking about? Genuinely confused.