I don't post much at all, just lurk and read mostly. No particular reason, just what I do now
In terms of the gym in particular....once I had my first kid 3 years ago I just don't have as much time or energy so I switched to permanent maintenence mode and don't follow that forum or any other exercise forums. Been staying on that good path though.
I'm still in great shape for 38 years old, do shorter workouts 5-7 days per week and still follow the 80/20 rule for food, and still calorie counting almost 10 years straight! Just not going 'all-in'