Thank you we gotta stop having these tired discussions we know the real but we play stupid trying to profitize off this black love stuff this is economics I see it all the time.
Dudes caked up knocking down chucks way below them financially and the girl is in awe that this caked up breh likes her, and she gives it up, and does all this freaky stuff to dude then he bounces and she's left with nothing. Happens all the time, and I know a few chick's who it happened to. I'm a honest broke breh I've always been friends due to income issues but what some of them tell me is crazy. One chick messed with my homeboy, all up in his condo taking pictures for Instagram, did all freaky stuff to him, and then he threw her out and now ignores her she is legit hurt and it's been maybe three years now she's still hurt, deleted her Instagram, and went through depression. She's a single mother of two smh. Dude is a six figure breh living by cacs on the beach. Then he married basically one of his peers who's a lawyer. Smh
#1 These are some of the chicks who weren’t taught anything about the “dating market” (not getting into a HVM convo).
Kids, especially kids out of wedlock are a dealbreaker for certain men (and women). That is DEF a class thing.
#2 This is why the smart women who actually come from these backgrounds get an education and put it to use. Majority of these super successful dudes aren’t marrying the sweet, unassuming girl who works at the local diner. Now, CAN it happen? Especially if she’s beautiful? SURE! But what’s most likely is he’s going to marry someone on or around his level.
That’s why top tier women are REALLY on their A game. It takes a lot to maintain a strict beauty and fitness regimen, out perform MOST people academically and career-wise, and maintain and level head. Those are the women who are usually married to “Mr. Perfect” because he won’t settle until he meets his equivalent.
I just met a beautiful female plastic surgeon who is in her 40s, married to an attractive, fit man, multiple picture perfect kids and I swear she’s like a size 0/2.
I said wait a damn minute…and got my ass in the gym and on the treadmill first thing this morning.
If you meet a man who is her equivalent and you aren’t moving on that level, you should definitely be a little cautious.