Black Women:"You Look Like You Date White Girls"

[Serious]

#1 These are some of the chicks who weren’t taught anything about the “dating market” (not getting into a HVM convo).

Kids, especially kids out of wedlock are a dealbreaker for certain men (and women). That is DEF a class thing.

#2 This is why the smart women who actually come from these backgrounds get an education and put it to use. Majority of these super successful dudes aren’t marrying the sweet, unassuming girl who works at the local diner. Now, CAN it happen? Especially if she’s beautiful? SURE! But what’s most likely is he’s going to marry someone on or around his level.

That’s why top tier women are REALLY on their A game. It takes a lot to maintain a strict beauty and fitness regimen, out perform MOST people academically and career-wise, and maintain and level head. Those are the women who are usually married to “Mr. Perfect” because he won’t settle until he meets his equivalent.

I just met a beautiful female plastic surgeon who is in her 40s, married to an attractive, fit man, multiple picture perfect kids and I swear she’s like a size 0/2.

I said wait a damn minute…and got my ass in the gym and on the treadmill first thing this morning.

If you meet a man who is her equivalent and you aren’t moving on that level, you should definitely be a little cautious.

Yep in a nutshell...

This is what I really look for. Actually makes seriously dating hard imo. Can I get sex from a woman not on my level, sure. That's easy, but coming across my ideal chick takes a bit more time.

Take notes @Hazel Brown

 

[Micky Mikey]

Sad that this is still an issue with black men and women. But dude on the right said it best. You go where you're wanted.

 

[Wild self]

The shyt that kills me about these discussions is the automatic assumption that the suburbs= whiteness. There are plenty of Black suburbs or suburbs with a good black population.

I swear, these threads read like it came straight from the 90s Crack Era.

There are black folks that live in safe neighborhoods in the suburbs.

 

[ignorethis]

I gotten that before I just respond “Nah I fukk black women exclusively” then proceed to fukk the same girl that said it.

It’s lowkey a compliment even though most black women would never admit it.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I mean women in general are fickle as hell but they ain't going to say it to your face.

You don't say to a fat woman "sorry I don't fukk with fat chicks" in real life

You turn em down politely

True my point is that you will never know why a women won’t fukk with you

Just gotta keep it moving

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

In real life you will never hear from a women
“Sorry I don’t date black men”
Or sorry “I only date such and such race”
Never ever

I've heard it

 

[King Static X]

I've had this said to me. It's not an insult (even though, it's usually intended to be).

I like all types of girls, so

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Y'all can make all these smart dumb nikka comments or
"I'm so cool bytches like me reguardless" statements but at the end of the day they have a point.

Jayda Wayda ain't going to find Marques Brownlee attractive.

But she would have fukked with a dude like Kobe who's far from a hood dude

 

[Shadow King]

who cares, the same women saying that end up picking the worst dudes to father children with. They aren't the best judges of character.

When your identity is questioned for not fitting in a box you're gonna care.

 

[Hazel Brown]

Yep in a nutshell...

This is what I really look for. Actually makes seriously dating hard imo. Can I get sex from a woman not on my level, sure. That's easy, but coming across my ideal chick takes a bit more time.

Take notes @Hazel Brown

I’m very well aware. And yes my sis @Gloxina spitting facts as always.

 

[Gloxina]

Yep in a nutshell...

This is what I really look for. Actually makes seriously dating hard imo. Can I get sex from a woman not on my level, sure. That's easy, but coming across my ideal chick takes a bit more time.

Take notes @Hazel Brown

I be knowing

 

[BaggerofTea]

I have only gotten this once, from some black bbw I was working with back in school.

 

[prime]

I keep telling coli niqqas a lot of BW who are later millennial (born between 89-95) and Gen z like hood niqqas,hood adjacent niqqas,white men and studs who act like hood niqqas Y’all keep thinking this is cap and niqqas who say this are but even other BW are speaking out about this

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

But she would have fukked with a dude like Kobe who's far from a hood dude

But you not Kobe

 

[The ADD]

But you not Kobe