Black Women:"You Look Like You Date White Girls"

[Koli_Kat]

this is straight cap. I have NEVER been a hood nikka, and have never had trouble getting black women.

Do you dress like a square? I really think they meant that in general a square black dude ain't going to pull much play from black woman

Which is true, black woman has there high beams on for corny nikkas


On the other hand a square white dude can eat just fine in his community and other races

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Do you dress like a square? I really think they meant that in general a square black dude ain't going to pull much play from black woman

Which is true, black woman has there high beams on for corny nikkas


On the other hand a square white dude can eat just fine in his community and other races

How do you dress like a square?

Shirts from target?

 

[ViShawn]

 

[RealAssanova]

As a black man, if i’m attracting all types of women of all different kinds of backgrounds, the last thing i’m speaking or wondering about is why black women ain’t into me..

But I also understand there are dudes out there that want strictly black women.

At the end of the day though, principle is the same. Never change who you are to appease/attract women.

 

[feelosofer]

Eh get in where you fit in at this point. Let's start moving the conversation foward. I get it smart/subarban dudes are not looked at the same way by 'certain' Black women. Now what?

 

[Dchris14]

This is reminding me of that one thread where the girl just saw some random breh walking by, psyched herself out and then made some whole rant in her car about how she was scared to approach him because she couldn't tell if he liked black women. Anyone got a link to what I'm talking about?

 

[Commish]

I have had someone say this to me before. Personally, I think it is an insult but I also think that it is a confirmation that some people simply hold court on other people w/o getting to know that person.

I would encourage anyone to live their lives and deal with genuine people who want to deal with them regardless of what others may say about it.

 

[humminbird]

#1 These are some of the chicks who weren’t taught anything about the “dating market” (not getting into a HVM convo).

Kids, especially kids out of wedlock are a dealbreaker for certain men (and women). That is DEF a class thing.

#2 This is why the smart women who actually come from these backgrounds get an education and put it to use. Majority of these super successful dudes aren’t marrying the sweet, unassuming girl who works at the local diner. Now, CAN it happen? Especially if she’s beautiful? SURE! But what’s most likely is he’s going to marry someone on or around his level.

That’s why top tier women are REALLY on their A game. It takes a lot to maintain a strict beauty and fitness regimen, out perform MOST people academically and career-wise, and maintain and level head. Those are the women who are usually married to “Mr. Perfect” because he won’t settle until he meets his equivalent.

I just met a beautiful female plastic surgeon who is in her 40s, married to an attractive, fit man, multiple picture perfect kids and I swear she’s like a size 0/2.

I said wait a damn minute…and got my ass in the gym and on the treadmill first thing this morning.

If you meet a man who is her equivalent and you aren’t moving on that level, you should definitely be a little cautious.

wow very well said
this is probably why equinox is so expensive

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

This is reminding me of that one thread where the girl just saw some random breh walking by, psyched herself out and then made some whole rant in her car about how she was scared to approach him because she couldn't tell if he liked black women. Anyone got a link to what I'm talking about?

I remember
She sounded psychotic

 

[Koli_Kat]

How do you dress like a square?

Shirts from target?

You know exactly what I'm talking about nikka


Like Carlton banks, erkel, etc.
A black nikka with that kind of swag will have a harder time getting ass in his community then his white counterpart

Hence the reason why and idea that black woman like men a bit more "urban" "hood" or "rapper like" is true.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

You know exactly what I'm talking about nikka


Like Carlton banks, erkel, etc.
A black nikka with that kind of swag will have a harder time getting ass in his community then his white counterpart

Hence the reason why and idea that black woman like men a bit more "urban" "hood" or "rapper like" is true.

My cousin gay and dress like Carlton

And would have tons of women on his dikk if he chose to partake because he makes money

It takes money to dress like Carltom
He also is I'm that Black bourgeois social circle

I can see shyt like that being true for Black ppl from the hood who don't fit in

 

[Knicksman20]

As a black man, if i’m attracting all types of women of all different kinds of backgrounds, the last thing i’m speaking or wondering about is why black women ain’t into me..

But I also understand there are dudes out there that want strictly black women.

At the end of the day though, principle is the same. Never change who you are to appease/attract women.

Quoting this for emphasis. Dudes that attract women feel the same way & understand your post lol

 

[Koli_Kat]

My cousin gay and dress like Carlton

And would have tons of women on his dikk if he chose to partake because he makes money

It takes money to dress like Carltom
He also is I'm that Black bourgeois social circle

I can see shyt like that being true for Black ppl from the hood who don't fit in

I heard you but you lost me at "would" and "money"

Would is a hypothetical so we don't know for sure

Money throws a monkey wrench in the argument since the whole thread argument is based on soley looks (rapper/thug look vs nerd/square)

 

[Unfiltered]

Wait a minute,

So you are a self admitted broke nikka who has always been friendzoned because of your finances by women who are your economic equal who also happen to be the same women you are defending?

I'm cool with a lot of women but I can't fukk them but I'm not a incel breh and I do get hoes every now and then but I'm cool with chick's that I can't and I got no issue with that. I don't hold grudges over business and dating and sex is business. As long as they don't offend me we cool.

 

[IVS]

Lol. Dayum. What that look like?