Black Women:"You Look Like You Date White Girls"

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

Translation: You look put together, intelligent, articulate, and I have no leverage over you. So therefore you won't be able to put up with my bullshyt, and I would have to live up to your standards


I'll never forget a woman telling me "Hmm, You're.....really smart". And it was in a derogatory tone. That's when she knew she deep down she couldn't pull a fast one on me

Lot of truth in this post.I dated a chick who hit me with the "You seem like the type who'd date Latina women" she didn't even use white chick.Same shyt, tho.I was still green at the time, so I took that shyt lightly.It was just something to chuckle at.I didn't give a shyt about subtle red flags.At the time, she was the sexiest chick I ever dated.Milk chocolate skin, slim thick, full meaty lips, and exuded sensuality like no other.Spilling over.My dikk was probably bricked every second of that relationship..But I would soon come to find out, she was addicted to drama.We split within the first 3-4 months of dating.

Fast forward 8 yrs later, I bump into her at Target, pushing a stroller; Baby in tow.She actually apologized for how she used to act back in the day.Told me she was intimidated by me..That shyt blew me away.Especially considering she was fukking with a goon azz street cat before me who ended up getting knocked for 40 yrs up north.I can only guess she was intimidated by me for some of the reasons you mentioned.

 

[Rekkapryde]

I like black black women but I also like Aerosmith. You not allowed to have both in this crazy fukked up world

What's wrong with Aerosmith?

They got some jams.

 

[Knicksman20]

Same, it used to bother me when I was younger, after awhile I brushed it off as women who made those comments had no interest in me. Went after the ones that did.

I had this said to me one time by an average looking Black woman down south at a client site my company supports lol

This is how the convo went & it was with a small group of Black women

Woman: Knicksman, this is the 3rd time you visited us & we think you're cool & not like the other IT guys we've seen from your company
Me: Oh, really ???
Woman: Yeah, when I first saw you, I immediately thought you like white b*tches (all of them start laughing) but after talking with you & seeing your personality, I don't think that anymore
Me: Really ??? Why would you assume or think that?
Woman: These light skinned nikkas down here act all bougie & you see them with white b*tches on they arm all the time. And you're from NY & the NY nikkas I've met down here don't date these Becky's
Me: Thanks for letting me know that & I kept it moving lol

Funny thing about this chick is she's married but she's made it pretty clear she wants me to hit. She told me her husband's gone most months out of the year & has invited me over to look at any issue with her home desktop...had to Magic Johnson pass on that lol

 

[Shadow King]

Why are people using ppl for sex tho? That’s why this world is so evil and waxing worse and worse. No matter. This won’t go on too much longer.

So all men having sex outside of a committed relationship is "using someone for sex"?

Once again, Sexually Liberated Woman Era, is it not?

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I know plenty of guys like Austin
When it comes to black women …their standards are high

But lower their standards when it comes to non black women

See it all the time here in cacanada

Austin Dunham likes Latina women, and not the Afro ones either.

 

[HoldThisL]

Generalizations are dumb af and Black people are not a monolith.

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

But who made it that way? It's women. They're the ones who pick what men they want. And from my experience I totally cosign them. If you don't have the look of a hood nikka most black women ain't messing with you. While Latinas and white girls will.

Also one thing they neglected was skin tone. Different girls like different skin tones when it comes to black men. For example I know being light skin I attracted significantly more Latinas than white women. While I've seen dark skin brehs attract more white girls than Latinas.

Women like certain looks. And they got no one to blame but themselves.

Y'all gotta stop being delusional and believing these gender wars on the internet. Y'all really think the average black man, who is desired, looks like a rapper? Look at majority of black men who are married and tell me if they look like rappers.

This is another case of "The ones I want, don't want me. And the ones that want me, I don't want."
Dudes go after the type of chicks that prefer "Hood Looking" dudes, then get mad when they get "I only like hood looking dudes" responses from these same women. Doesn't make sense. These internet personalities/podcasters have successfully sold a lot of brehs on this "Ray-Ray & Pookie" theory, when in reality a lot of dudes that complain about this are just lames who are upset that a certain type of woman doesn't want them. Not gonna let them put that on most black women. Especially when men are the ones choosing who to approach. There are plenty of black women who are not attracted to "Hood Looking" dudes, but guess what? These same dudes complaining probably don't think those women are "Baddies"

The average black woman does not want a guy that looks like Lil' Durk. Lil' Durk's demographic of women want a guy that looks like Lil' Durk.

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

I know plenty of guys like Austin
When it comes to black women …their standards are high

But lower their standards when it comes to non black women

See it all the time here in cacanada

The reverse happens too though. But what gets me is the fact that people actually think black men aren't lowering their standards for black women, that it's only a thing that happens with white/mixed/latinas. Like there arent decent (no homo) looking dudes hugging up on Lizzo built girls. You'd never see a breh luck out the way that cac that dated bria myles did. Nothing special about him. black models don't even date/marry black men that aren't athletes or musicians.

 

[Canon]

Gotta adapt

Should have some flirty slick lines in the gun when you hear this shyt

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

What’s funny is that Like 90 percent of the brothers in the community are just regular brehs

 

[tyfireman15]

I heard this a lot in my lifetime. From high school to now. And I’m 40!!

 

[UpAndComing]

Lot of truth in this post.I dated a chick who hit me with the "You seem like the type who'd date Latina women" she didn't even use white chick.Same shyt, tho.I was still green at the time, so I took that shyt lightly.It was just something to chuckle at.I didn't give a shyt about subtle red flags.At the time, she was the sexiest chick I ever dated.Milk chocolate skin, slim thick, full meaty lips, and exuded sensuality like no other.Spilling over.My dikk was probably bricked every second of that relationship..But I would soon come to find out, she was addicted to drama.We split within the first 3-4 months of dating.

Fast forward 8 yrs later, I bump into her at Target, pushing a stroller; Baby in tow.She actually apologized for how she used to act back in the day.Told me she was intimidated by me..That shyt blew me away.Especially considering she was fukking with a goon azz street cat before me who ended up getting knocked for 40 yrs up north.I can only guess she was intimidated by me for some of the reasons you mentioned.

Yupp that's what it was breh. She had all the leverage in the dude she dated before you

- Most likely hot headed, inarticulate, and was easy to rile him up at any time and insult his intelligence
- Most likely had a criminal record. So any disagreement, she can put the fear of going back to jail over his head
- If the relationship didn't work out, she can always use the excuse of "Oh he was a loser goon anyway, it was bound to not work out". But with a good man, people around her would wonder why it broke up and look at her sideways


She had no type of leverage dating a Breh like you, and it fukked with her

 

[Shadow]

It means "I'm attracted to you, but you look like you'd reject me."

or "You would hold me accountable, and wouldn't let me do anything I wanted."

 

[beenz]

this is straight cap. I have NEVER been a hood nikka, and have never had trouble getting black women.

 

[Koli_Kat]

Any breh that uses the phrase "Black Chicks" definitely dates white women.

We gotta stop the cap, we all know brehs that swirl have a certain look to them.

Yep... nikkas can get on here and spot a wench in seconds but think the reverse doesn't exist?

Plus women in general are very in tune with their environment/surroundings