Some, doesn’t mean all. Of course, black women need accountability of their actions. But ultimately, the men set the tone in any culture. Black men aren’t getting married in the same numbers as other races. And women of all races are on social media saying men ain’t shyt, they aren’t lowering their standards, and it’s better to be alone. I see it everyday. White women are saying men are trash, and you know they are talking about white men. It’s just that black people tend to have a grass is greener on the other side mentality, and they highlight positive interracial relationships, not the negative ones.
And you aren’t even in the states!!
I talk to real, actual, black American women, in person. The majority are still attracted to, and seeking black American men. It’s not that serious. Most black women want a black man. Most black women are with black men. Women are allowed to have standards, and don’t have to date every man who is available to them, just because they are of the same race.
Y’all are acting like choosing a life partner is as simple as, they could have chosen a nerdy black man. You have no idea what kind of black men they encountered. Maybe they didn’t have a connection with those black men. And as far as these videos, you don’t know that they are bashing black men. They happened to marry white men, and this trend came along. Marriage isn’t as simple as, this person is a decent human being, so we’re going to be together. They could have given corny brehs a chance, and it didn’t work.
Y’all are in here posting Malcolm, and philosophy, over some black women having white husbands, and participating in a tik tok trend for likes. That’s crazy to me.
I have enough common sense to not get in an uproar over every tweet that says something negative about black men. I know I don’t embody those qualities. My day to day life is not affected by tweets. My day to day life isn’t even affected by the things said on this board. It’s just a fun place I come to for entertainment, laughs, and some serious topics. Stop getting triggered by strangers online. You, and half the brehs on this site wouldn’t date the women in those videos. Even if you would, there is no guarantee it would work. Most relationships don’t work.