I feel what you saying about ultra lame dudes but.....
Let's not act like black women don't demand way more swag than a white girl.
To a white girl a "bad boy" is a dude that has a motorcycle and smokes weed occasionally. (Not to mention if you a black dude, then you already a "bad boy" to her by being black.
To a black girl a bad boy is a nikka with felonies,with 3 baby mommas, in a gang, and hyper masculine who tries to go around flexing his manhood on nikkas all day.
What a black woman considers lame is different from what a white woman considers lame.
I can attest to this from experience, when I was around the black girls I always had to act like something I'm not or I wasn't getting any play, whereas when I'm around white women I can just be myself and attract them like nothing.