Black woman reporter quotes study on women being forced to "date down", her male co-workers respond

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This is a fukked up mentally. My question is, how many dudes are living by these rules in the real world? I can see rich men, but men middle class men I can't see it. If he makes $100k and the wife makes $100k, they should put their money together.


Do White women and Asian women think the same?

Any woman that actually respects men, puts a good portion of their money in bills. Freeloading is basically screaming selfishness.
 

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The average nikka doesn’t get as much real
Life play as the average woman..

Majority of men are just happy with consistent sex from an average chick… problem is the average woman isn’t happy with an average man…

That’s where the whole dating tension in this era comes from.

Oh this is not true at all. :picard: This is my exact point, that women’s rhetoric online is creating a false idea of what’s going on in real life

The MAJORITY of women are with “average” men. They can say whatever but that’s their job, to say whatever. :heh:. A bytch will tell you she need a man who’s flown to the moon. And these new nggas will argue about the logistics of a moon landing :snoop:

Women will say anything it’s the man’s job to shoot that down and put her in her rightful place in a masculine-aggressive-mannered-firm-gentle-charming way. Once you get the initial wall down women are a walk in the park. Paper tiger. Empress has no clothes. We just have epidemic of nggas believing in the propaganda
 

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Well… what’s the divorce rate on those relationships?

And who initiates divorce the majority of the time?

And what’s the biggest factor that leads to divorce?

Add that up…

:sas2:

……huh? :heh: Marriages end period. On both sides. For a multitude of reasons. And a lot of women file bc we cheat :gucci:

Also once again the internet has you fooled. The MAJORITY of married women have kids and what happens to women when they have kids?!! They fall off a cliff. Fam Rihanna has fallen off. Yet the internet has you thinking women are all BBL’d out and have a multitude of better options and men are lucky to have em. :francis:
 

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……huh? :heh: Marriages end period. On both sides. For a multitude of reasons. And a lot of women file bc we cheat :gucci:

Also once again the internet has you fooled. The MAJORITY of married women have kids and what happens to women when they have kids?!! They fall off a cliff. Fam Rihanna has fallen off. Yet the internet has you thinking women are all BBL’d out and have a multitude of better options and men are lucky to have em. :francis:

Marriages end over money. Men and women cheat equally in a Marriage. It's probably easier for me to pull a woman in a relationship vs single women these days.
 

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The whole concept of "Dating down" is shallow and disrespectful. If you believe you can date down, you cant get mad if somebody is looking at you as a "down". Everybody is entitled to their type or preferences but no one is entitled to put anyone else beneath them.

The discussion of "dating down" never involves morals, respect or even intelligence. Its always about money, looks/height, or dikk size.

Mustsche made a great point. Why you going through all this education and dues paying just to worry about what dude is making? Just as I thought she is one of those convenient old school chicks. She wants a man to foot the bill, open doors without beating, cheating, or expecting pure p*ssy.
 

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……huh? :heh: Marriages end period. On both sides. For a multitude of reasons. And a lot of women file bc we cheat :gucci:

Also once again the internet has you fooled. The MAJORITY of married women have kids and what happens to women when they have kids?!! They fall off a cliff. Fam Rihanna has fallen off. Yet the internet has you thinking women are all BBL’d out and have a multitude of better options and men are lucky to have em. :francis:
I asked specific questions that completely contradict your own statements.

1. Do the majority of marriages end? Yes or no.

2. Who initiates the majority of divorces? Men or women.

3. What is the main issue that leads to divorce?

These answers are easily searchable. The answers contradict the statement about “women falling off after kids”… that statement insinuates it’s men who are leading the initiation of divorce and that physical appearance is the main factor. The Data on the topic doesn’t support those conclusions.

I don’t know how BBLs even factor in to what I’m saying. Maybe you’re confusing me with another poster.
 

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I asked specific questions that completely contradict your own statements.

1. Do the majority of marriages end? Yes or no.

2. Who initiates the majority of divorces? Men or women.

3. What is the main issue that leads to divorce?

These answers are easily searchable. The answers contradict the statement about “women falling off after kids”… that statement insinuates it’s men who are leading the initiation of divorce and that physical appearance is the main factor. The Data on the topic doesn’t support those conclusions.

I don’t know how BBLs even factor in to what I’m saying. Maybe you’re confusing me with another poster.

Yea nah. There is no contradiction bc your logic is heavily flawed and takes liberties to make your point

1. Yes, the majority of marriages end. That is an indictment on marriage as a whole, not men or women and certainly not something as specific as ‘women aren’t satisfied with average men’. That’s a gold medal caliber leap

2. Based on you leaning so hard on this, I’m assuming women initiate the majority of divorce? I mean….ok?!? See #1. You’re starting with fact but then connecting it to opinion. You dont know the REASON women initiate divorce. ‘Fimance’. Ok but they still isn’t enough specificity to connect to your opinion ‘see, women aren’t satisfied with average men’. That, again, is a leap that the data does not support nor is it a question that could even be answered without more detailed questioning.

Bonus: Think about what you’re saying. ‘Women don’t want avg men and I know that bc women initiate divorce’. You aren’t even accounting for the lion’s share of relationships that never even get to marriage, bc some woman is shacked up with a ‘average man’ and she’s begging to be chose but they avg man don’t even fw her like that ——and she still stay :heh: Your attempt at logic was valiant but it has failed miserably
 

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The whole concept of "Dating down" is shallow and disrespectful. If you believe you can date down, you cant get mad if somebody is looking at you as a "down". Everybody is entitled to their type or preferences but no one is entitled to put anyone else beneath them.

The discussion of "dating down" never involves morals, respect or even intelligence. Its always about money, looks/height, or dikk size.

Mustsche made a great point. Why you going through all this education and dues paying just to worry about what dude is making? Just as I thought she is one of those convenient old school chicks. She wants a man to foot the bill, open doors without beating, cheating, or expecting pure p*ssy.

Exactly. Superficial people getting exposed. The end.
 

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’. You aren’t even accounting for the lion’s share of relationships that never even get to marriage, bc some woman is shacked up with a ‘average man’ and she’s begging to be chose but they avg man don’t even fw her like that ——and she still stay :heh: Your attempt at logic was valiant but it has failed miserably
1. There is a negative correlation between divorce rate and income level. When it comes to men with above average resources… their mates divorce them less. Combine that with the rest of the data…. There is some indication that being above average in resources keeps the relationship together.


2. I’m only building my conclusions based on evidence of who initiates divorces and the number 1 stated issue that leads to divorce. This is verified data. Where is your data about women shacked up with average dudes who don’t want to marry them. What studies did you get this opinion from?

You say I’m just giving my opinion. But my opinion is rooted in objective data. Where are you getting your opinion?
 

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they always used her

Quoted for emphasis.


I am not sure why so many people fall for these influencer/look at me boss/girlboss ducktales

Many of these trips are paid for by somebody else, on credit or sponsored

1. Humans are primarily visual
2. Nobody wants to see the cute little throat get cut, they just want the lamb skewers
 

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1. There is a negative correlation between divorce rate and income level. When it comes to men with above average resources… their mates divorce them less. Combine that with the rest of the data…. There is some indication that being above average in resources keeps the relationship together.


2. I’m only building my conclusions based on evidence of who initiates divorces and the number 1 stated issue that leads to divorce. This is verified data. Where is your data about women shacked up with average dudes who don’t want to marry them. What studies did you get this opinion from?

You say I’m just giving my opinion. But my opinion is rooted in objective data. Where are you getting your opinion?

I’m insulted breh. You can’t have ‘objective data’ when your premise is inherently opinion based and there unprovable anyway. Bc what is an “average breh”. Thats not objective

Also, again, you have a gigantic blind spot in your data. You’re using data—-divorce rates—-that is only 1 piece of the pie and cannot speak for the remaining pie which is non-married dating. Yet you’re still jumping to a conclusion.

To put it another way, you only have cotton socks. And 70% of them have holes in them. And you’re concluding that bc of that, ‘most socks have holes in them’. Your experiment is flawed. It has failed. Bc you can’t speak for all the other socks outside of your home, different material socks, etc. You can’t use divorce rates to make a conclusion on all of dating. Especially when the majority of adults are NOT married (or divorced). And in case you want data on that here you go

https://www.marketwatch.com/amp/sto...-single-people-law-professor-says-11664992681
 
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