SheWantTheD
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This is like 5-10 years old
Black woman reporter quotes study on women being forced to "date down", her male co-workers respond
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UpAndComing
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What they be saying Breh? I pulled my highly educated Wife at 28. This was almost ten years ago so it was pre “mental health”, pre podcast talk, before social media is what it is today.
I can only imagine what women would be saying now. You fooling with them Gen Z women.
At least some of the educated millennial women have a some understanding of finding a partner.
Social media has rotted the world’s brain. Especially if you pull women who live for it.
What I learned is that the most "pro feminist" educated women are the most gentle snowflake type of women out there. Being a soft women isn't necessarily a bad thing, but to have that hard exterior would be a mind fukk to someone meeting them. Just like the girl in the OP. Met so many like her before. Very pretty, educated, tough exterior.
But when they meet a guy like me who doesn't take their BS, very blunt, and is straight with them, they start to open up and you see their personality. Some of them can be the most sweetest women you'll ever meet. But alot of dudes never see it because they grow tired of trying to "peal off the onion" of their personality. It can be stressful
Most men would just rather the traditional feminine submissive women, and I don't blame them lol
like you said nobody has time for that lol.
I'm definitely not stick around for her to peel back her layers to show that she likes me. That's those mind games that brehs gotta stop falling for. A chic that's truly into you and wants to build something with you isn't doing all of that. Brehs gotta start peeping when the actions aren't lining up with the wordplay and exit stage left immediately
I always say if a chick doesn't have exciting energy around you don't waste your time. Who wants to be around someone that isn't pleasant/fun to be around. We all have issues so they can take the trauma somewhere else lol. When you got to pull teeth for something IT IS NEVER WORTH IT,.
I’m going off the data of the 45% of people who do get married.
Where is the data to back up your opinions on the rest of the 55%
If you don’t have any data….just say so
You can disagree with me… that’s fine
But what data are you using to refute me?
There is no data that can prove or disprove ‘women aren’t satisfied with average brehs’
which is why I’m insulted. Don’t try them nephew debate tactics on me bruh 
‘are you still beating your wife’ahh debateAll these smileys and juelzing.There is no data that can prove or disprove ‘women aren’t satisfied with average brehs’
You just had to say you didn’t base your opinion on any data. Now you taking this personal.
All good breh. You got it
All these smileys and juelzing.
You just had to say you didn’t base your opinion on any data. Now you taking this personal.
All good breh. You got it
Oh I know. Stop being feminine and do better
she said she in her late 20s
you think she lying ? lol
shyt still applies though...the big 30 is coming and like she said men are looking at her like shes a weirdo cause she doesnt know how to do the romance thing due to lollygagging in her 20s. this is going to be the fate for most gen-z women. millenial women are bad as it is so gen-z might be the rock bottom before gen alpha resets things. if not then all hope is lost lol
of course no accountability....who didn't see that coming?Now she’s blaming her parents.
Belize King
I got concepts of a plan.
@HarlemHottie
How did your man pull you? Is he on your “level” or a level down? Is he a Coli Breh 6’, 6 certs, 6 figures?
If you let the internet tell it, black love is dead. I’m thinking about the married couples I know and… are we the exception? My neighbor behind me is our age (late 30’s). They bought a year after us. Both had no kids, worked well paying jobs, and they got married later in life. My Wife just told be a few weeks ago, she saw the husband walking a baby. We never see the Wife so we didn’t know she was pregnant. When I get home, we going to have some celebratory cigars. Black love isn’t dead, it’s just rare.
All of my old coworkers who were black were married. I guess the contracting lifestyle makes you want or need a family as a stabilizing force. We all have multiple kids with one Wife and been married between 7-15 years. There’s three OGs who are 20+ years in marriage. Out of the other 9 of us, only one is PAWGing.
He found himself a sugar momma who is an executive for a jewelry company pulling 300K a year. He PAWGed right.
We haven’t met up with too many couples in our church family yet. We are looking forward it though.
How did your man pull you? Is he on your “level” or a level down? Is he a Coli Breh 6’, 6 certs, 6 figures?
If you let the internet tell it, black love is dead. I’m thinking about the married couples I know and… are we the exception? My neighbor behind me is our age (late 30’s). They bought a year after us. Both had no kids, worked well paying jobs, and they got married later in life. My Wife just told be a few weeks ago, she saw the husband walking a baby. We never see the Wife so we didn’t know she was pregnant. When I get home, we going to have some celebratory cigars. Black love isn’t dead, it’s just rare.
All of my old coworkers who were black were married. I guess the contracting lifestyle makes you want or need a family as a stabilizing force. We all have multiple kids with one Wife and been married between 7-15 years. There’s three OGs who are 20+ years in marriage. Out of the other 9 of us, only one is PAWGing.
He found himself a sugar momma who is an executive for a jewelry company pulling 300K a year. He PAWGed right.
We haven’t met up with too many couples in our church family yet. We are looking forward it though.
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
He's 'on my level,' if not above it. I came up in section 8; he grew up in a private home. But you know how NYC is: where you start ain't where you end. I'm 'classier,' the Manhattanite who grew up in museums and cafes and sample sales on Fashion Avenue. He's the scrappy Brooklyn kid. But we ended up at the same schools. There's levels to this shyt.
He's 5'10", but tbf, I'm 5'2" and never dated, or wanted, super tall guys anyway. I don't want to be killing myself to kiss you. He's my type in all ways and vice versa based on the pics on the walls of his childhood bedroom.
