she wants to get flown out and smutted out?
She isn't unnatractive. she should get out of California.
This 100%.
She's not bad looking, really just an average/decent looking woman. Her looks are not a detriment.
Her issue is (I'm guessing) she wants men not on her level. She wants men her homegirls pull.
She can get an average looking man that has his shyt together or a reasonably attractive bum. She's not getting "fine" and educated/high income etc., all in the same breh. Ladies like her complain about men that ignore them but don't realize how many men THEY HAVE ignored. She's focused on the men she really wants and can't even see the men that want her.
Cali ain't the place.
I think that's the core issue with her. She doesn't want what's on her pay grade. She wants what her friends got without assessing if she brings to the table what her friends do... it's like all of these big women that say men need to stop body shaming them and find them attractive, but they never go after big men. They want the guy with the six pack.
People need to stop telling these whining ass women to get out of CA to find someone. You are a woman. If you are halfway decent and have a good head on her shoulders, she could find a good man. But most of the time the issue is not getting attraction from good, quality guys but it is because they do not get the attention from the men they want. If this was reversed and was a man complaining he would be called an incel.She isn't unnatractive. she should get out of California.