Black woman living in LA laments not having “Pretty Privilege”.

[I Really Mean It]

I ain’t never dated or dealt with an really attractive woman that had a serious grasp on reality. Most live in these balloon like atmospheres where everyone is a yes man/woman.

Most of em don’t even like being treated that way but they just go along because of the esteem in brings in feeling better than others.

Try telling one of those women the truth and you will get hit with the

You should stop dating birds, then. Do you not realize how many intelligent beauties can be found on every college campus around the world?

 

[Bumblebreh]

A lot of you dudes really live in a far different world than I do.

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[Tupac in a Business Suit]

You should stop dating birds, then. Do you not realize how many intelligent beauties can be found on every college campus around the world?

I know what I speak of and stand firm on what I say.

What you know is what you know.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I ain’t never dated or dealt with an really attractive woman that had a serious grasp on reality. Most live in these balloon like atmospheres where everyone is a yes man/woman.

You really need to expand your horizons. I’ve dated/worked with legit dimes who were humble and down to earth. They really aren’t anomalies. They just get wifed up quick. Im talking doctors, lawyers, etc.

 

[Givethanks]

She's pretty to me, I should watch the video but I didn't. After reading the tl:dr lol, I feel for her but personality sounds like shyt

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Thanks for the cliff, but a lot of women i imagine suffer from that, and it’s like look being attractive is the same as having money as a man, it allows you to circumnavigate some bs and live in a different world, but the goal shouldn’t be to get cash dropped on you it should be to find love, i wonder how many nikkas she shot down because they didn’t fit this ideal dude

Yeah. She doesn’t like how the other side of the pillow feels.

Bixxch sounds like Skee-Lo.

She thinks she wants those problems but she really doesn’t in the long run

 

[Thegospel]

Another lost woman who K Samuels can help huh? Lol but anyway she is lost but she'll be ok.

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

You really need to expand your horizons. I’ve dated/worked with legit dimes who were humble and down to earth. They really aren’t anomalies. They just get wifed up quick. Im talking doctors, lawyers, etc.

Son. The women you are talking about are not legit dimes. You may think they are but trust me. They ain’t.
If you don’t mind me asking are you younger than 40 or older than?

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

The world doesn’t owe you shyt
Male or female
It’s a cold world
Bundle up or sit on the sideline

 

[Busted_Toes]

 

[Tookalossfellbackcameback]

There's a lot of harsh realities in modern society. She's dealing with one of them. As long as civilization exists attractive people will have certain advantages. It's not fair, but life is not fair.


Play the hand you're dealt.

 

[You Win Perfect]

It is what it is.

Men have to deal with this all the time. Maybe she should workout more, change the style of her makeup, and learn new skills.

That simple but women don’t like accountability. They just blame their situation on everybody and everything else.
Pretty is subjective as well. She needs to travel the country/world

 

[ChatGPT-5]

good looking people get first dibs, its called 'ATTRACTive' for a reason. they attract people easier.

she's not uber ugly, she just needs to lower her standard and play with the cards she's dealt with. if shes looking for a swagged out model or a millionaire, she's in for a rude awakening. like someone said earlier society isn't fair. doesn't mean she has to be lonely though. im sure she could find a blue collar OG that would treat her right.

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

The word patriarchal a few seconds into the video gave me shea butter vibes

 

[kevm3]

If she wants 'pretty privilege', she has to put in 'pretty work'. She's not ugly facially, but for her to get pretty privilege, she has to do something to distinguish herself from the other women out there. If she hit the gym hard and got out of Cali, then I'm sure she'd get a ton more attention, but it sounds like she wants that 'pretty privilege' just by showing up as is and in a state that isn't the best for black women in terms of dating. Not going to work like that. She wants that 'dream guy', money in her cash app, etc., aka elite woman benefits without putting in that work to be elite.