Black woman living in LA laments not having “Pretty Privilege”.

[ThrobbingHood]

Son. The women you are talking about are not legit dimes. You may think they are but trust me. They ain’t.
If you don’t mind me asking are you younger than 40 or older than?

Breh, noticing dimes isn’t some esoteric skill. How are you going to tell me the women I’ve dated and know aren’t dimes?

Dimes and intelligence are not mutually exclusive. Airheads can be ugly, average and beautiful. Again, you have a very parochial way of thinking or just haven’t met enough women.

And there are women who started off as ugly ducklings and became dimes. Ergo, they didn’t grow up with people kissing their ass. So again, it really isn’t as rare as you make it.

 

[Theolodius_Black]

So, does she want a relationship? Or somebody to just spend money on her? Cuz on the one hand, she says she craves male attention, going so far as to fall in love with a gay friend. But she makes a lot of mention about cashapp, private parties, etc like a certain lifestyle. So, does she actually know what and who she wants?

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Breh, noticing dimes isn’t some esoteric skill. How are you going to tell me the women I’ve dated and know aren’t dimes?

Dimes and intelligence are not mutually exclusive. Airheads can be ugly, average and beautiful. Again, you have a very parochial way of thinking or just haven’t met enough women.

And there are women who started off as ugly ducklings and became dimes. So again, it really isn’t as rare as you make it.

Okay guy. Don’t be offended. Simply put, this isn’t your level of discussion. You out here trying to get offended and form an analysis of what I know or use an exception as the rule.

Ain’t no woman I’m referring to was an ugly duckling. They were born attractive and remained attractive until they aged out.

There are men out here that know of what I speak. Carry on.

 

[kevm3]

So, does she want a relationship? Or somebody to just spend money on her? Cuz on the one hand, she says she craves male attention, going so far as to fall in love with a gay friend. But she makes a lot of mention about cashapp, private parties, etc like a certain lifestyle. So, does she actually know what and who she wants?

Honestly I doubt it. Sounds like she is envying the 'baddie benefits package' more than anything. She wants a 'dream guy', to be cash apped money, wants guys to do things for her... sounds like she'd probably ignore that average guy that would want to be in a relationship with her.

 

[Bondye Vodou]

Who the fukk cares bytch. Some nikkas have Status Privilege, some have Rich privilege, some nikkas have the Gift of Gab privilege, some have everything I just mentioned, some have nothing at all. Who the fukk cares. It's life bytch and it isn't fair.

Get over it.

 

[Devil Plisken…CMS]

 

[BlackDiBiase]

Honestly I doubt it. Sounds like she is envying the 'baddie benefits package' more than anything. She wants a 'dream guy', to be cash apped money, wants guys to do things for her... sounds like she'd probably ignore that average guy that would want to be in a relationship with her.

thats what i thought and i also think shes into IR because she comes off as being self-deprecating and low self esteem issues that can only come from a c00n.

 

[null]

be superficial brehettes

 

[DaPresident]

Comparison is the thief of joy!


I will watch the vid later (if I can stomach it)

but she should focus on herself. A LOT of people don’t have “pretty privilege” and go along with their lives just fine. Stop trying to have, do, or be what someone else is or has…make the best of YOUR lot in life.


I bet if she stopped trying to be and live like everybody else, she’d be and feel much better…

work with what you have, and carve out a nice lil thing for YOU…trust me, gain confidence in YOURSELF, and it’ll show. Hell, that’ll help attract others bc they see the confidence in you, and that’s sexy for real…

 

[Cᵣₐₛₕ&ₜₕₑCₒᵤₚ]

All these women do is endlessly pursue vanity. F*** outta here with the woe is me bs.​

 

[Hagendas]

• She doesn’t hang out with pretty girls because she was once elbowed out of the way by a guy to get to her friend.

yoooooooo

 

[UncleTomFord15]

a bunch of wannabe victim shyt. I can guarantee you she has plenty of men she can date right now that would be willing to go out with her but for whatever reason she thinks she's above them. Lady is a clown.

 

[The_Sheff]

She needs a dose of reality. Men learn real quick what they working with and what they need to do to bag a woman. She probably out here trying to box outside her weight class.

Truth be told she ain't ugly and she got a big ass. She would get some play here in Atlanta quickly.

 

[Leao2005]

Need to move out of Cali. That would be a 6-8 out here smh.

sadly that’s a Cali 5, too competitive out there for both genders

 

[Koba St]

So? What does she want the world to do about it.

a bunch of wannabe victim shyt. I can guarantee you she has plenty of men she can date right now that would be willing to go out with her but for whatever reason she thinks she's above them. Lady is a clown.

This. It’s always comes down to them trying to punch above their weight.