Black woman living in LA laments not having “Pretty Privilege”.

[OG Talk]

She’s almost 40 worrying about getting invites to parties in the Hollywood Hills.



She feels working class men aren’t on her level. Even though she’s rocking the $20 Curly Fries weave that every auntie that works in a call center has.



Has all the Twitter talking points of a 19 year old Women’s Study major.





Y’all keep telling her to leave Cali, but that won’t save her. High Value men in Houston, Atlanta, Charlotte or even Birmingham won’t be checking for her either.

 

[Speaking Womanese]

if your face aint much then go to the gym and get an insane body. i seen girls do it a million times

I’ve seen t-shirts that say, “there’s no gym for your face.” Men get it ROUGH.

 

[BrothaZay]

Any of them admitted they were in the same boat?

Yes

 

[hex]

If this shyt is bothering you to the point you gotta make a 30+ minute video....move out of L.A. Move to some place where you think you'd be above average.

Or just hold the L. It's not as if she's hideous, she'd be able to eat somewhere but the type of things she's describing only apply to prettier women. Not everyone is pretty or handsome, it is what it is.

Fred.

 

[Cowboyz89]

Excuse me while I go on a small tangent...



This is one thing I honestly can't stand about certain black folks. I was heading a panel interview via Zoom for a prospective candidate the other day and initially it was just me, the sista who was being interviewed and our black female HR director. We both attempted to exchange pleasantries with the candidate and were met with dry ass "mmhm" half responses. At first I thought it was just nerves but when the Latinas and white males logged on she was all smiles and sunshine. Not sure if she thought because we were also black we couldn't possibly be in any kind of position of power or what, but the attitude change was swift and apparent.

This wasn't the first time I ever saw or experienced this, just the most recent, but I hate to see it regardless. It costs you nothing to acknowledge and be cordial to your fellow black men and women.

I see this happen a lot too, and I think the bolded is the reason.

I think people dont want to be seen as "one of the lower blacks", and want to be kept in an individual lane until they are accepted by white people that either are, or are assumed to be higher ranking.

Once that happens, the candidates then come back around and want to be friendly.

 

[Mowgli]

Looks like she has a thing for animal print, excitement and gay men..

It's gonna be a long road for her to find happiness

 

[acri1]

Life is unfair

 

[V Skyye]

Want an example of how strange life can be

Kim Kardashian used to be Paris Hiltons hanger on, lackey who nobody used to check for

I bet she had many insecurities during her time in
Hiltons shadow .

And now she is the template for a million build a bytch clones

Kim had looks, money, social connections, and plastic surgeons to make her dreams come true. She learned the game and ran with it.

The lifestyle that this lady is describing is over for her. She should have worked on her looks and connections in her early 20s if she wants to be VIP in the club partying with Drake. If she wants a nice hardworking man she shouldn’t be looking in the club. And she’s not enough of a head turner to just meet a lot of men everyday. She has to put herself out there, keep a positive attitude, and bring just one friend out with her to keep the competition to a minimum.

 

[philmonroe]

"hey sister, you will sleep better knowing that the average man deals with this. Yes, yes, you're a woman but I thought it was worth mentioning for some reason"

Always pandering fakkit smfh

 

[philmonroe]

I dont live in Cali so I may be way offbase here

But brehs out there dont meas with black women like that? She isnt the first woman I.have heard say this but I usually dismiss it

It still sounds shaky to me but i want to hear Cali folk on here chime in.......cause that shyt sound lost as fukk

nikka you have to be pretty stupid no offense to even ask a question like do black people mess with black women like that. They do every fukking where smfh. Cali isn't some magical land where its some 70-30 IR to intraracial dating going on. No matter where you're at the vast majority of people deal with people in their same race are you dudes teenagers?

 

[Dr. Acula]

If you look at her youtube channel and just the titles alone, this woman has some self-esteem issues. It is obvious. She almost comes off as a female incel. Just not as angry about her situation.

Folks should probably go a bit light on her...for her mental health.

 

[Matt504]

If you look at her youtube channel and just the titles alone, this woman has some self-esteem issues. It is obvious. She almost comes off as a female incel. Just not as angry about her situation.

Folks should probably go a bit light on her...for her mental health.

I'd bet that most young women that spend large amounts of time on social media platforms like Instagram or Tik Tok are dealing with the exact same issues to varying degrees. Those platforms are poison.

 

[Goat poster]

She's clearly trying to be in a lane she's not built for....

Sad

Social media done ruined folks to think they all should get chosen by the most attractive of the opposite sex, and be the toast of "exclusive parties" ect, ect

I know women that look like her that are in Happy relationships and are happy with themselves.

 

[Wiseborn]

If you look at her youtube channel and just the titles alone, this woman has some self-esteem issues. It is obvious. She almost comes off as a female incel. Just not as angry about her situation.

Folks should probably go a bit light on her...for her mental health.

I haven't went through her channel but there's a ton of "intellectual crybabies" on Youtube. I call them that because although the majority of smoke is for systems they focus it on people.

That being said I give them props for not straight up attacking Black Men for clout.

 

[SlimOG]

So, does she want a relationship? Or somebody to just spend money on her? Cuz on the one hand, she says she craves male attention, going so far as to fall in love with a gay friend. But she makes a lot of mention about cashapp, private parties, etc like a certain lifestyle. So, does she actually know what and who she wants?

All she really wants is surface level shyt and she's sad that it's not happening to her.That's the core of it.