Black woman living in LA laments not having “Pretty Privilege”.

[philmonroe]

She’s almost 40 worrying about getting invites to parties in the Hollywood Hills.



She feels working class men aren’t on her level. Even though she’s rocking the $20 Curly Fries weave that every auntie that works in a call center has.



Has all the Twitter talking points of a 19 year old Women’s Study major.





Y’all keep telling her to leave Cali, but that won’t save her. High Value men in Houston, Atlanta, Charlotte or even Birmingham won’t be checking for her either.

These dudes are rookies in the game overall. They say the most silliest never leave their bubble bs possible to often to think otherwise.

 

[OG Talk]

I tell every woman i date.
You rock rods.
You gon make that the last day you see me.

 

[Art Barr]

Rods = make black women look ugly.
Glasses = make black women undesireable

Tip: Black women do not rock that shyt.

It make y'all look offbrand.


Art Barr

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

Don’t think OP understands what tl:dr means

What it mean? What it stand for?

 

[Ozymandeas]

Y’all nikkas in here really blaming Cali?

keep it 100 she’s not attractive

And she probably punching above her weight class




Edit: this broad looking for cacs

I didn’t want to say it. She not cute. Sorry.

 

[JQ Legend]

Excuse me while I go on a small tangent...



This is one thing I honestly can't stand about certain black folks. I was heading a panel interview via Zoom for a prospective candidate the other day and initially it was just me, the sista who was being interviewed and our black female HR director. We both attempted to exchange pleasantries with the candidate and were met with dry ass "mmhm" half responses. At first I thought it was just nerves but when the Latinas and white males logged on she was all smiles and sunshine. Not sure if she thought because we were also black we couldn't possibly be in any kind of position of power or what, but the attitude change was swift and apparent.

This wasn't the first time I ever saw or experienced this, just the most recent, but I hate to see it regardless. It costs you nothing to acknowledge and be cordial to your fellow black men and women.

She didn’t get hired did she?

I hate black people like this too.

 

[wastedmermaid]

The word of the day is acceptance. She’s cute and I guarantee you she could of gotten with a regular black man with a regular salary who would have been happy with her like 10 years ago. But instead she’s here at damn near 40 complaining about pretty privilege and how she never got attention from a certain types of men her friends around her would

 

[philmonroe]

Y’all nikkas in here really blaming Cali?

keep it 100 she’s not attractive

And she probably punching above her weight class




Edit: this broad looking for cacs

Regarding this edit I kinda always think this when I see a chick like her talking that dumb stuff. I know people IRL that have wives/gf that look like this chick. Black men don't want her? FOH she capping at the highest levels.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

The word of the day is acceptance. She’s cute and I guarantee you she could of gotten with a regular black man with a regular salary who would have been happy with her like 10 years ago. But instead she’s here at damn near 40 complaining about pretty privilege and how she never got attention from a certain types of men her friends around her would

Nobody wants to be average. Thats the problem.

She wants to have pictures of her and her man where they on vacation on the beach and the nikka 6'3 picking her up ass first and kissing her while the sun setting in the background highlighting his muscle tone.

She wants a picture taken by him while they in a restaurant and she's got something on her plate she can't even pronounce, sipping wine that was bottled in the 1980s.

She wants a picture where she's making this face while in front of a detached 2 story house that homie paid most of talmbout "baby got me my dream home. Love of my life <3"

This is what women are being sold as a relationship. They don't see that the nikka was sucking in his gut on that vacation photo. They don't see that he saved for 4 months for that restaurant photo or that they only ordered some starters and spent most of the night drinking water and talking. They don't see that he paid 75% of that house and got help from family money. They only see the end product and not the deception or struggle to get it.

 

[kingofnyc]

sounds like she’s making a bunch of excuses to get with a white man



like ... why go through all this extra shyt ....




somebody tell this sista, the overwhelming majority of nikkaz - don’t give a fukk

 

[JQ Legend]

Ayooooooo

What’s going on in that first diagram?

That shyt got me but rep for whoever breaks it down for me

 

[wastedmermaid]

Nobody wants to be average. Thats the problem.

She wants to have pictures of her and her man where they on vacation on the beach and the nikka 6'3 picking her up ass first and kissing her while the sun setting in the background highlighting his muscle tone.

She wants a picture taken by him while they in a restaurant and she's got something on her plate she can't even pronounce, sipping wine that was bottled in the 1980s.

She wants a picture where she's making this face while in front of a detached 2 story house that homie paid most of talmbout "baby got me my dream home. Love of my life <3"

This is what women are being sold as a relationship. They don't see that the nikka was sucking in his gut on that vacation photo. They don't see that he saved for 4 months for that restaurant photo or that they only ordered some starters and spent most of the night drinking water and talking. They don't see that he paid 75% of that house and got help from family money. They only see the end product and not the deception or struggle to get it.

The consequences of telling an entire generation they can have it all .
The thought of "settling" for an average black man who is 5'9ft making 45,000k will make the average woman today hit the .
They'd rather go through life alone than "settle".

I think stories like this women are becoming more and more common with this "constantly looking at everyone's life and highlight the best part's of it" social media culture.

Side note: In one of her Q&A videos she went on a whole rant about Kevin Samuel and how he hates black women and has no idea what he's talking about .
I see why she would hate him when her type are exactly who he talks about

 

[Busted_Toes]

The lighter chick in the pic look better than her. But she the type to accuse colorism if you say that

also there is something called featurism now

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

The consequences of telling an entire generation they can have it all .
The thought of "settling" for an average black man at 5'9ft making 45,000k will make the average woman today hit the .
They'd rather go through life alone than "settle".

I think stories like this women are becoming more and more common with this "constantly looking at everyone's life and highlight the best part's of it" social media culture.

Side note: In one of her Q&A videos she went on a whole rant about Kevin Samuel and how he hates black women and has no idea what he's talking about .
I see why she would hate him when her type are exactly who he t

Women like her call up Kevin samuels then get hurt when he tells them they're average and should find happiness with the abundance of average dudes out there.

They ain't wanna hear that. They wanna hear that they too can get an NBA simp with no effort. Then when he tells them the shyt they'd need to do to attract the men they want they ain't wanna hear that shyt either.

The biggest tragedy is that by the time they figure it out, the average dudes they were curving won't want them either.

 

[Lootha VanDraws]

What it mean? What it stand for?

I believe it's too long, didn't read.