Black woman living in LA laments not having “Pretty Privilege”.

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GenZ is the "woe is me" generation. They don't want to do anything that would make actual progress, they just want to complain and have people feel sorry for them.
Knock it off this bytch is 37, she's a millennial. And every time commentary about gen Z is made I just here Gen X and Millennials trying to dodge accountability for being shyt parents and poor mentors, at least Gen Z has the awareness to not have kids when they're broke/not mentally built for it. More than I can say for past generations
 

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Im worried about the young people man. These trends on this shyt is wild. When it was just the lonely young men flipping out, I figured it was just a phase and they would work their way out of it.

But you got young women and young men doing videos and reddit confessionals and shyt and the vibe is all the same. They all feel unwanted and alone. shyt is wild.


I'm low key concerned too, I look at South Korea and see the future but the first time this happened 12,000 years ago non selects moved to europe married neanderthal women and become white people. In South Korea nikkas are flooding to Vietnam and the Phillipines.

As far as Korean chicks despite super zenophobia any E-1 Private or Airman has no real problem eating over there.


The short answer is I think enough non selects will take their campaigns on the road which will bring women's expectations down to earth. The only problem is the Japanese economy is being effected by the decline in the number of people being born.

England's death rate exceeded it's birth rate for the first time in 40 years.
 

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If you mean dudes with 0 options who will leave her the moment they get something better yes, i don't know why dudes dismis ugly women's grievances with that whole sex nonsense, in case you missed dudes with 0 option will fukk anything and everything (women obviously).

Low-key it's like telling dudes to get an escort sure one is free but the same emotions are involved.
fukk u talking bout :unimpressed:

That woman aint ugly, she's average, she just doesn't want an average man. Plenty of good men making at least 50k with no kids that would love a woman like her(just based off of looks).

Hell I got a homeboy I could hook her up with, as I'm sure other ppl in her circle have tried to but she's thinks she's too good for a guy like that.

Word of advice to the females, if u have a woman like this in ur circle get rid of her. What she's doing is the female version of dirty macking.
 

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Excuse me while I go on a small tangent...



This is one thing I honestly can't stand about certain black folks. I was heading a panel interview via Zoom for a prospective candidate the other day and initially it was just me, the sista who was being interviewed and our black female HR director. We both attempted to exchange pleasantries with the candidate and were met with dry ass "mmhm" half responses. At first I thought it was just nerves but when the Latinas and white males logged on she was all smiles and sunshine. Not sure if she thought because we were also black we couldn't possibly be in any kind of position of power or what, but the attitude change was swift and apparent.

This wasn't the first time I ever saw or experienced this, just the most recent, but I hate to see it regardless. It costs you nothing to acknowledge and be cordial to your fellow black men and women.
That's the thing Most Black people have internal c00n logic that white ice cubes are colder and that they're the bosses in any situation. Black people in positions of authority see this and nikkas lose oppertunities because of it.
 

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people can't stay in their lane due to social media. wanna cry because they not in someone elses lane. Oh well, a lot of these folk aren't going to make it unless they humble themselves and get therapy.
Ppl are making money taking advantage off of ppls dating insecurities too
 
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fukk u talking bout :unimpressed:

That woman aint ugly, she's average, she just doesn't want an average man. Plenty of good men making at least 50k with no kids that would love a woman like her(just based off of looks).

Hell I got a homeboy I could hook her up with, as I'm sure other ppl in her circle have tried to but she's thinks she's too good for a guy like that.

Word of advice to the females, if u have a woman like this in ur circle get rid of her. What she's doing is the female version of dirty macking. 98.7
Ppl crazy
You right
 

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She isnt ugly

She can find who she looking for in cali

She clearly punching above weight and failing

Dating would be much easier for many if people dated on they level more


Too many people think they obligated to date what they cant have or people who dont want them
Yeah I know a chick that looks pretty similar to shorty in the video. She moved to Cali too and has dated plenty of guys while there and currently is dating someone. Shorty in the video seems like she wants the balling nikka that bad bytches be getting. And not the average or maybe even slightly below average guy.
 
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Excuse me while I go on a small tangent...



This is one thing I honestly can't stand about certain black folks. I was heading a panel interview via Zoom for a prospective candidate the other day and initially it was just me, the sista who was being interviewed and our black female HR director. We both attempted to exchange pleasantries with the candidate and were met with dry ass "mmhm" half responses. At first I thought it was just nerves but when the Latinas and white males logged on she was all smiles and sunshine. Not sure if she thought because we were also black we couldn't possibly be in any kind of position of power or what, but the attitude change was swift and apparent.

This wasn't the first time I ever saw or experienced this, just the most recent, but I hate to see it regardless. It costs you nothing to acknowledge and be cordial to your fellow black men and women.

All skinfolk ain’t kinfolk especially in corporate. Sad it has to be that way.
 

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Yeah it’s long but it’s a brutally honest video. Most of us guys already know what she’s saying is true. I feel bad for her. :mjcry:



For the tl:dr crowd:
  • Never felt pretty growing up.
  • Went out to eat with her friends on her b-day. Dressed up, got zero attention. Her married mixed creole friend turned heads immediately.
  • Her pretty friends wake up to money in their cash app just for being pretty.
  • Tends to date “bottom of the barrel guys”. :mjpls:
  • “HVM don’t want to spend money on me.”
  • Ciara and Lori Harvey attract high value men because of their looks. She could pray for hours and never get her dream man.
  • She doesn’t hang out with pretty girls because she was once elbowed out of the way by a guy to get to her friend.:huhldup:
  • She has to be loud and funny just to get attention.
  • When you’re dark skin and don’t have pretty privilege, you pay double the tax.
  • She was on a flight and this black guy she was next to the whole didn’t acknowledge her. He gets on plane and spots a Latina/Indian looking woman. Within 5 minutes they exchanged social details and she was invited to a private party in the Hollywood hills.
  • Pretty women at work get away with a lot more and have men offering them help. She works as a teacher and only gets help from the kids.
  • Steve Harvey was right about men and women not being able to have platonic relationships.
  • She doesn’t have any male friends. She fell in love with a gay male friend because she was getting male attention but it ruined their relationship.
  • The only attractive feature she had in highschool was her butt, and the attention she received from it was ‘traumatic’.



I hope she doesn’t call into Kevin Samuel’s show.:hamster:

She should really move from California. Not an ideal place if you want a black relationship.:mjpls:

She said she has to be boisterous and have a “loud mouth” in order to matter as an ugmo.

That’s actually the WORST characteristic for a non attractive women to have.

Unattractive and Loud just puts a spotlight on how unattractive you are.

Being loud will drop a “5” to a “3”.
 

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a lot of these women try to constantly compare themselves to "mainstream" concepts of beauty and end up developing a constant inferiority complex because of it where they think very few men can possible find them attractive because they think every man must want a "bad bytch" or whatever the phrase of the week is, plenty of dudes are fine with plain jane women
chasing the joneses will leave you miserable and constantly chasing a standard that you can't possibly reach, of course the explosion of social media and a culture where people are constantly within arm's reach of it thanks to smartphones has made this vanity even more rampan, sad sight to see.
 
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I feel you but it the same "we all have a cross to bear" is the same as "we are all in this together" during the pandemic. Not really, moreover not at all, some people are fukking fine, or well off but too stupid, weak minded, or flat out greedy to appreciate their advantageous positioning in the game of life.

My interpretation of, “having a cross to bear” is, “we all have to deal with something deal with that we don’t necessarily want to.”

In her case, she’s not her type’s type.

Some people have deformed faces from genetic defects and would LOVE to have her problems.

I feel you tho.
 
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