Black woman living in LA laments not having “Pretty Privilege”.

[Mac Brown]

Average and borderline cute looking women receive perks of being attractive all the time. I disagree with everyone calling her average. She's not ugly but she's not average either.

she basic as fukk. Especially for LA.

But I'm from Houston with Family in LA

 

[Xyrax]

Im worried about the young people man. These trends on this shyt is wild. When it was just the lonely young men flipping out, I figured it was just a phase and they would work their way out of it.

But you got young women and young men doing videos and reddit confessionals and shyt and the vibe is all the same. They all feel unwanted and alone. shyt is wild.

 

[KidJSoul]

There's a lot of harsh realities in modern society. She's dealing with one of them. As long as civilization exists attractive people will have certain advantages. It's not fair, but life is not fair.


Play the hand you're dealt.

Yup

Men deal with this too but can’t make videos like this because no sympathy will be received. Just go work on improving yourself

Yup

There is nothing wrong with her(thats her in the instagram that was posted earlier right?)

But here is the thing that she is not getting....if you are not being chosen by guys who are color struck(thus the dark skin accusation) WHY DO YOU CONSIDER THAT AN L?

I am a dark skin dude...if a certain sub set of women were ignoring me because of my skin shade that lets me know that we would BE IN NO WAY COMPATIBLE AT ALL

When people weed themselves out for you that should be a blessing...better to find out shyt early than later.

As for pretty privilege....the world is a big ocean and the insta girls that are pretty in a small circle get eaten up when they have to compete with 100 similar girls around

It is what it is...(also why some pretty girls like to keep less attractive girls(subjectively) around for the validation boost)

Yup, especially the bottom part

 

[Bossino]

I dont live in Cali so I may be way offbase here

But brehs out there dont meas with black women like that? She isnt the first woman I.have heard say this but I usually dismiss it

It still sounds shaky to me but i want to hear Cali folk on here chime in.......cause that shyt sound lost as fukk

Blacks are raised with whites/away from blacks here more often than other places so they end up with differing taste interest and the community doesn't check for them like that, so they end up not dating black because they feel removed. Many brothas still like sistas, but candidly most black women in socal are thots, scammers, money chasers, swirlers, etc. The amount of stable, mentally togather black women who are trying to make black families in Cali is sparse

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

Im worried about the young people man. These trends on this shyt is wild. When it was just the lonely young men flipping out, I figured it was just a phase and they would work their way out of it.

But you got young women and young men doing videos and reddit confessionals and shyt and the vibe is all the same. They all feel unwanted and alone. shyt is wild.

people can't stay in their lane due to social media. wanna cry because they not in someone elses lane. Oh well, a lot of these folk aren't going to make it unless they humble themselves and get therapy.

 

[Speaking Womanese]

A lot of normal women just have to come to grips with the reality that all of this special treatment that “pretty” women get is reserved for the top tier.

Instagram and FB really have a lot of them delusional and feeling like they’re on that level and then get mad at everyone when they find out differently

And those ig girls probably envy women who have 1 solid man to go home to every night.

We all have our cross to bear

 

[Bossino]

Didn’t watch the video. But at 37 years old she’s worried about the wrong things. Getting drinks bought at clubs, invited to VIP parties, and cash apps are a young woman’s game. She can’t compete and shouldn’t try. She needs a therapist and some grown folks hobbies that will introduce her to different circles of men.

Nah she needs to die alone no cap

 

[Bossino]

And those ig girls probably envy women who have 1 solid man to go home to every night.

We all have our cross to bear

Nah

 

[Contrefaire]

Excuse me while I go on a small tangent...

She was on a flight and this black guy she was next to the whole didn’t acknowledge her. He gets on plane and spots a Latina/Indian looking woman. Within 5 minutes they exchanged social details and she was invited to a private party in the Hollywood hills.

This is one thing I honestly can't stand about certain black folks. I was heading a panel interview via Zoom for a prospective candidate the other day and initially it was just me, the sista who was being interviewed and our black female HR director. We both attempted to exchange pleasantries with the candidate and were met with dry ass "mmhm" half responses. At first I thought it was just nerves but when the Latinas and white males logged on she was all smiles and sunshine. Not sure if she thought because we were also black we couldn't possibly be in any kind of position of power or what, but the attitude change was swift and apparent.

This wasn't the first time I ever saw or experienced this, just the most recent, but I hate to see it regardless. It costs you nothing to acknowledge and be cordial to your fellow black men and women.

 

[Speaking Womanese]

Nah

No one has EVERYTHING.

The only people complaining are those who don’t wanna improve what they have.

 

[Speaking Womanese]

A ugly bytch calln men bottom of the barrell

Lmao

Every woman on My 600lb Life has a skinny devoted husband, running out to buy ‘em donuts.

I know BEAUTIFUL women who are single af because their communication skills are shyt, they’re ran thru or they spent their prime years not having to improve so now they’re getting lapped in life in other ways.

You know how @skeetsinternal always says, “a fat ass don’t mean good p*ssy?”

The emotional equivalent is, “being smashable doesn’t make you wifeable.”

Most of these incel bw are single by CHOICE because they don’t wanna date the man in their league and this woe-is-me act is their swan song before they swirl.

“Brehs chose Latinas so I went to Bottom Shelf Brad.”

 

[Vandelay]

I'm not saying anything that hasn't been said in this thread. I get her and it's not right, but this is the world. Dudes have to cultivate all of the shyt she is complaining about and have money or they are invisible to women in a lot of cases.

Upper echelon people looks wise get treated differently. It is what it is. Get your weight up in the other avenues in life. Those characteristics last longer than beauty anyway.

Listening to the video, she sounds like she has an entitlement problem. Admittedly, "she was well taken care of growing up", so it's a bit of a culture shock that she didn't receive that same treatment in adulthood.

 

[Originalman]

She's sloppy looking
If she became a gym rat only for a year,her appearance would greatly improved

Man who that bad chocolate joker in your avi?

 

[BlaccSunrise]

She needs to move down south, she will get plenty of attention and pretty privilege here.

 

[OfTheCross]

Yeah it’s long but it’s a brutally honest video. Most of us guys already know what she’s saying is true. I feel bad for her.



For the tl:dr crowd:

• Never felt pretty growing up.
• Went out to eat with her friends on her b-day. Dressed up, got zero attention. Her married mixed creole friend turned heads immediately.
• Her pretty friends wake up to money in their cash app just for being pretty.
• Tends to date “bottom of the barrel guys”.
  
• “HVM don’t want to spend money on me.”
• Ciara and Lori Harvey attract high value men because of their looks. She could pray for hours and never get her dream man.
• She doesn’t hang out with pretty girls because she was once elbowed out of the way by a guy to get to her friend.
• She has to be loud and funny just to get attention.
• When you’re dark skin and don’t have pretty privilege, you pay double the tax.
• She was on a flight and this black guy she was next to the whole didn’t acknowledge her. He gets on plane and spots a Latina/Indian looking woman. Within 5 minutes they exchanged social details and she was invited to a private party in the Hollywood hills.
  
• Pretty women at work get away with a lot more and have men offering them help. She works as a teacher and only gets help from the kids.
• Steve Harvey was right about men and women not being able to have platonic relationships.
• She doesn’t have any male friends. She fell in love with a gay male friend because she was getting male attention but it ruined their relationship.
• The only attractive feature she had in highschool was her butt, and the attention she received from it was ‘traumatic’.

I hope she doesn’t call into Kevin Samuel’s show.

She should really move from California. Not an ideal place if you want a black relationship.

Sad but honest. I wish her the best in her mental health journey