Black woman living in LA laments not having “Pretty Privilege”.

[Astroslik]

Phoenix has a ton of LA transplants. I’ll be honest too, the Latinas down there don’t fukk around. If you’re a dude in shape who is stable financially you can eat hella good down there off them. Some of my best memories are from them and the chicks who would come up from Mexico for a long weekend

All the black wine down there who are in shape and take care of themselves we’re with ballers though.

It was funny because when I was out there me and my boys would swirl hard and see the dime black women doing the same. Couldn’t even be mad at it as we were all eating.

It wasn’t til I got to LA that I was able to out swirling ways aside. So many fine, chill black women in Cali. They’re the GOATs IMO

Them latinas in pawgs in Phoenix/Scottsdale be playing for keeps.

 

[Xavier]

Do you have a link to that empirical study that proved this? I remember reading something similar. The study suggested that black women have wayy more contempt for brehs dating interracially.

@Umoja was it you that posted this breh?

Racial minorities’ attitudes towards interracial couples:
https://cpb-us-w2.wpmucdn.com/sites...iles/2020/03/Chuang-Wilkins-Tan-Mead-2019.pdf

 

[seabreeze80]

Average and borderline cute looking women receive perks of being attractive all the time. I disagree with everyone calling her average. She's not ugly but she's not average either.

 

[Cadillac]

A brehs only checking for litebrites or non black women?(obviously not all of em but a noticeable amount?)

I have even heard people say LA clubs only want a certain notably non darkskin aesthetic?

Again I have no opinion to offer on this because I am not from there or live there.....I just want some insight into how this shyt plays out.

not true at all

alot of those clubs that also dont let darkskin women in, also dont let black men into or any black people except celebs or black people who are light/certain type.

 

[jshani]

she just want attention from people that aren't interested in her...she gonna always feel that way

 

[Rekkapryde]

It is what it is.

Men have to deal with this all the time. Maybe she should workout more, change the style of her makeup, and learn new skills.

this nikka spittin.


colorism is a bytch, but the game is the game.

goto Africa.

 

[SuaveyBoi115]

LA brehs only checking for litebrites or non black women?(obviously not all of em but a noticeable amount?)

I have even heard people say LA clubs only want a certain notably non darkskin aesthetic?

Again I have no opinion to offer on this because I am not from there or live there.....I just want some insight into how this shyt plays out.

I may go need to look at the marriage numbers to see if these people just have skewed perceptions

I’m not from L.A either so I can’t give insight either........, but L.A being a major city it’s going to be a lot different than smaller cities in the same state.

 

[ViShawn]

She'd get options in the Southeast but not Atlanta.

 

[LauderdaleBoss]

Shorty need to drop at least 25 pounds and switch up her style before I can even say she average. Shorty not ugly, but she not attractive. At the very least she has a foundation to build on. She just gotta put in the work.

 

[xXMASHERXx]

LA brehs only checking for litebrites or non black women?(obviously not all of em but a noticeable amount?)

I have even heard people say LA clubs only want a certain notably non darkskin aesthetic?

Again I have no opinion to offer on this because I am not from there or live there.....I just want some insight into how this shyt plays out.

I may go need to look at the marriage numbers to see if these people just have skewed perceptions

You have to stop listening to the woe is me crowd. Colorism exist yes but that is not isolated to LA. The fact is, most people, men and women, are not what they believe they are and instead of looking in the mirror they rather place blame somewhere else

 

[Cat piss martini]

Wish I was pretty enough to be
a instagram hoe babble.

 

[AAKing23]

The only problem with the “moving” logic
She can go anywhere in this country, overseas, it doesn’t matter
If your outlook on life is fukked up
Feel you are “entitled” to a certain lifestyle
Changing your surroundings ain’t going to do shyt
She could move down here to Houston and still not be given any attention
She may get banged out at the least
And find a sucka who knows no better at most
But this broad is ugly inside
She hasn’t dealt with any of her issues
Nor does she fully understand that she is facially challenged
Yeah I said it
She has beautiful skin but she ain’t something to write home about
Instead of walking around with her ass on her shoulders
*for non southern folks*
That means stop walking around with gravitas/inflated ego/entitlement
How about getting right with herself
Actually find a purpose/something that brings real joy
Improve on her communication skills
Find hobbies that you not only enjoy but opens the pool for potential mates
Stop hanging around goofy bytches that just want brunches and club events
You know develop a character like the average joe has to
No amount of state/country hopping is going to fix her real issues

This.

Find your joy within yourself or an activity/hobby/passion and let the rest work itself out.

Men deal with much worse so I have no sympathy at all for this chick, sorry She's likely had her chances but thought she was too good or something

 

[AAKing23]

Comparison is the thief of joy!


I will watch the vid later (if I can stomach it)

but she should focus on herself. A LOT of people don’t have “pretty privilege” and go along with their lives just fine. Stop trying to have, do, or be what someone else is or has…make the best of YOUR lot in life.


I bet if she stopped trying to be and live like everybody else, she’d be and feel much better…

work with what you have, and carve out a nice lil thing for YOU…trust me, gain confidence in YOURSELF, and it’ll show. Hell, that’ll help attract others bc they see the confidence in you, and that’s sexy for real…

This is a whole thread topic

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

Average and borderline cute looking women receive perks of being attractive all the time. I disagree with everyone calling her average. She's not ugly but she's not average either.

She's sloppy looking
If she became a gym rat only for a year,her appearance would greatly improved

 

[TripleAgent]

you know her?

and her issue of being LA, is not on LA nikkas and whatever people have to say that "la nikkas are colorist" or whatever

but LA has alot of Comp, she prolly has nikkas that holla they just not what she likes(the usual story)

if she want to swing above her weight class, you put it perfectly to go to a different city.

No. Just tried to watch the video with an open mind. She wasn't too annoying, and had some self awareness, so I didn't want to be rude.