Black woman living in LA laments not having “Pretty Privilege”.

[Cadillac]

I told her, politely, to get out of LA, and get her natural hair game up. She could eat in a city with less comp

you know her?

and her issue of being LA, is not on LA nikkas and whatever people have to say that "la nikkas are colorist" or whatever

but LA has alot of Comp, she prolly has nikkas that holla they just not what she likes(the usual story)

if she want to swing above her weight class, you put it perfectly to go to a different city.

 

[KingFreeman]

She lives in California and hangs around/lives around much higher quality women looks wise. If she has any kind of body and a halfway decent personality, she moves down south and gets wifed. But of course that's not happening

 

[Reality]

Living in LA, as a woman, you will lose if you’re not putting in work on your appearance or naturally attractive.

Sis probably getting beat out by some who are less attractive but stay with the mani pedi, hair done, hitting the grocery store in heels, etc.

Also, on this debate of dimes and how agreeable they are, there are levels. There are street dimes and bedroom dimes IMO. Bedroom dimes go the extra mile with the lásered legs, kitty, bleached a$$hole, all that. Those dimes definitely have expectations as do their aspirant 8s and 9s.

Your average beautiful doctor chick ain’t doin all that so the experience is definitely different. Those chicks that groom themselves like pornstars are a level up in terms of what they demand for the investment in their appearance.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Life isn’t fair, everyone can’t be pretty.

She’s not ugly. She should contact an image consultant and work with what she has if it’s really that serious of an issue to her.

Or she can work on her internal and realize receiving lots of male attention is not the end all be all.

It’s literally a drug for a lot of women, can’t imagine what levels they will go to, to get that attention when their looks start fading in their 50s and up.

 

[Cadillac]

More black women want white men than white men want black women. These swirlers have to come to grips with that. They are not highly sought after by anyone other than black men. The HORROR!!!!! She still wants attention from black men, however, as I can tell she feels entitled to that despite being a swirler.

I don't feel sorry for her. This is self imposed misery she could end at any time and chooses not too.

Its more so, that these swirl black women want to be with white men, whereas Cacs just see them as a sex toy/fetish to have and then leave

you'll notice that its not hard for a swirler to get a Cac/hispanic/etc guy but what it is, is they end up leaving their ass soon or down the road.
And it comes down to the fact that them Cacs and mexicans saw her as just a fetish/experience to have and a easy smash.

I live in AZ, and you see Black women with Cacs/Mexicans quite a bit. and there are some i know directly or indirectly that went thru this

it also doesnt do swirlers any favor that some of them are not that attractive. Not saying all attractive black women dont date out. But if you pay attention you'll notice a visual pattern with swirlers.



wants funny is they will say the same about Black men and white women and how most white women dont want us and only see us for sex. But even if thats true. Most Brehs see white bytches for sex anyways so that shyt dont really phase us.

brehs view white bytches only for sex, no different then how they do us = evening out of things

but brehettes? they out here looking for heaven in cacs, whereas Cacs just see them as a fetish option to get their dikk wet = mad biter swirlers

 

[Cadillac]

iving in LA, as a woman, you will lose if you’re not putting in work on your appearance or naturally attractive.

this is why the whole myth that gets passed around lately on the net that "LA black men dont love black women" by biter women is stupid

no what it is, some bytches dont want to step up their game in LA and think they are entitled. which idk why given its fukkin LA.

bytches do the same here in PHX, they come here and expect attention and then go on the net crying saying "nikkas in PHX dont love Black women"

wrong bytch

 

[Heavy_Handz]

“L.A. face with an Oakland booty”

 

[Coolin']

Breh there are plenty of men in SoCal who would date her. You know how many busted chicks our out here wifed up? Like someone said she's just punching above her weight class. Cali ain't got nothing to do with it.

Ah, got you. I've never been to Cali myself so haven't experienced or seen it first-hand; I figured she was trying to date people out-of-her-league tho. Such a shame, too, because she's not a bad-looking girl at all.

 

[Xavier]

More proof that Black men don’t have any care at all about the everyday black woman dating outside her race.

Brehs in here clocked that this broad is a shea butter divester in training and are now giving helpful advice on how she can get a white boy
@KingZaire_ @Hungerpain @ThrobbingHood @Astroslik @Burned Verses

 

[Reality]

this is why the whole myth that gets passed around lately on the net that "LA black men dont love black women" by biter women is stupid

no what it is, some bytches dont want to step up their game in LA and think they are entitled. which idk why given its fukkin LA.

bytches do the same here in PHX, they come here and expect attention and then go on the net crying saying "nikkas in PHX dont love Black women"

wrong bytch

Phoenix has a ton of LA transplants. I’ll be honest too, the Latinas down there don’t fukk around. If you’re a dude in shape who is stable financially you can eat hella good down there off them. Some of my best memories are from them and the chicks who would come up from Mexico for a long weekend

All the black wine down there who are in shape and take care of themselves we’re with ballers though.

It was funny because when I was out there me and my boys would swirl hard and see the dime black women doing the same. Couldn’t even be mad at it as we were all eating.

It wasn’t til I got to LA that I was able to out swirling ways aside. So many fine, chill black women in Cali. They’re the GOATs IMO

 

[Vuvuzela]

Just move out of CA, get in shape, and get some plastic surgery, tf People stay crying about mutable characteristics. You couldn't catch Halle Berry on IRC back in the 90s talking about her nose holding her back or something. She went and got that taken care of by a maestro and never looked back. This girl is acting like she's an amputee. We're in a Brave New World, sis .

 

[SuaveyBoi115]

I dont live in Cali so I may be way offbase here

But brehs out there dont meas with black women like that? She isnt the first woman I.have heard say this but I usually dismiss it

It still sounds shaky to me but i want to hear Cali folk on here chime in.......cause that shyt sound lost as fukk

All of California ain’t the same though. She lives in L.A which is a different beast from the likes of Stockton

 

[Coolin']

Wait, I watched another video of hers and she doesn't really date black dudes? I take back everything I said about her; she can cry me a river. Sheesh. Complain about white people not liking you in LA, brehs.

 

[SadimirPutin]

All of California ain’t the same though. She lives in L.A which is a different beast from the likes of Stockton

LA brehs only checking for litebrites or non black women?(obviously not all of em but a noticeable amount?)

I have even heard people say LA clubs only want a certain notably non darkskin aesthetic?

Again I have no opinion to offer on this because I am not from there or live there.....I just want some insight into how this shyt plays out.

I may go need to look at the marriage numbers to see if these people just have skewed perceptions

 

[Astroslik]

More proof that Black men don’t have any care at all about the everyday black woman dating outside her race.

Brehs in here clocked that this broad is a shea butter divester in training and are now giving helpful advice on how she can get a white boy
@KingZaire_ @Hungerpain @ThrobbingHood @Astroslik @Burned Verses

Do you have a link to that empirical study that proved this? I remember reading something similar. The study suggested that black women have wayy more contempt for brehs dating interracially.

@Umoja was it you that posted this breh?