Black woman living in LA laments not having “Pretty Privilege”.

Jblaze204

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Bedwench. She's only dated one or two black men in her life:

11:50 mark.


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and there it is.

coli brehs wats the epistemology of black women who date cacs and then have self conscious issues? why? wouldn't they be happy if they're in a relationship with somebody who likes them?
 

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So basic common shyt like being confident and funny is the "gift of gab"? If it's not more than what it is then why is it considered a gift?

I've made women laugh and am very confident, yet it doesn't make them want to fukk me... Those traits are very common. Why is it a gift?

In fact, the women who want to fukk me usually wanted to BEFORE I said anything.

See, I'm asking you to give an example of a time you used the "gift of gab". Think about the last woman you bagged. Now give me a summary that conversation between you and her. It should be easy. You guys love giving this vague ass advice without explaining how to put it into practice. This is what causes men to have approach anxiety. They get told this abstract shyt and end up overthinking.

My goal is to get men to see that the so called "gift of gab" is nothing but basic shyt that most men already do... A woman wants what she wants. Nothing you say can make her want you if she doesn't already. And if you disagree with that, then you'll have to give an example.

Fully agree.

IMO there is no gift of gab or w/e. Basically the only thing us men really do is to not say/do things that would make a woman who might be down to fukk NOT wanna do it. Thats really it. If a woman wants you she wants you. All that blazey blazey is mostly bull IMO.
 

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aint no talking your way into a girl who doesnt want you there no type of game, confidence, humor that guna help you. when women say shyt like that they imagining a guy they already attracted to saying this. at that point if a girl into you it dont really matter what you say. everything will be easy

Word.

I remember about 2 years ago, this chick was into me and i hadnt paid much attention to her. Got wind of her liking me but acted like i was unaware.

So i lowkey became a dirt bag
and kinda tested her out. I was direct with her. Took her on a date and after a while i told her im not really into you but i still wanna come over to you if we fukk..

of course we did. Nothing i did made her say yes it was just cuz she already liked me.
 
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I am not clicking the video, but needs to get rid of them frames (:scusthov:) . They do not work for her face.
 

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One of you need to give her a baby.



Sounds like she made bad choices and prioritised the wrong things and now she's seeing the consequences. I hope she's getting therapy and not just reading books because she sounds traumatised.
 
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