It’s nothing to teach. I don’t have lines. You just gotta know how to be funny or charming in a situation. I think yall make it more than what it is in your head. Just make her laugh. Or feel a way. Be smooth and confident. Etc
Black woman living in LA laments not having “Pretty Privilege”.
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It’s nothing to teach. I don’t have lines. You just gotta know how to be funny or charming in a situation. I think yall make it more than what it is in your head. Just make her laugh. Or feel a way. Be smooth and confident. Etc
That and she doesn't date black men.She's not unattractive at all and those chocolate cakes are sitting right.
She's just heavily insecure, and that's something that any many worth a damn will NOT tolerate.
Be courteous and explain it.
Thats the issue here.
You could tell in that IG post that she basically grew up around cacs. Hence her insecurities about her ass being phat and
then being "fetishized" for it later. She'd just be an average everyday girl around black people.
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She's not ugly she's just average with a decent booty. I'm sure there's dudes that give her attention but they not the rich guys she feels like she deserves. If she wants pretty privileged she's going to have to work on herself.
I also feel like a lot of women worry too much about the dudes that don't want them than the dudes that do
I also feel like a lot of women worry too much about the dudes that don't want them than the dudes that do
I was gonna say it earlier but she did it for me. Their own words and actions convict them and then wonder why "certain men" don't want them. Aint no white man gonna wife her especially at her age. Guarantee some bruhs stepped to her but she passed them by while she lusted for Bartholomew with the trust fund and rich parents to show interest. Nah you just a fetish for them nothing more nothing less.
Personally, I don’t find her ugly at all and she “seems” chill but isn’t LA like the apex of beauty standards? I’ve read horror stories of just being Black living there. I really don’t see the need to seek validation from the internet tho. I mean, this reminds me of the thread of the Black girl asking if she was ugly on Reddit.
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U need to get at the OP and tell him to change the thread title
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Yeah it’s long but it’s a brutally honest video. Most of us guys already know what she’s saying is true. I feel bad for her.
For the tl:dr crowd:
- Never felt pretty growing up.
- Went out to eat with her friends on her b-day. Dressed up, got zero attention. Her married mixed creole friend turned heads immediately.
- Her pretty friends wake up to money in their cash app just for being pretty.
- Tends to date “bottom of the barrel guys”.
- “HVM don’t want to spend money on me.”
- Ciara and Lori Harvey attract high value men because of their looks. She could pray for hours and never get her dream man.
- She doesn’t hang out with pretty girls because she was once elbowed out of the way by a guy to get to her friend.
- She has to be loud and funny just to get attention.
- When you’re dark skin and don’t have pretty privilege, you pay double the tax.
- She was on a flight and this black guy she was next to the whole didn’t acknowledge her. He gets on plane and spots a Latina/Indian looking woman. Within 5 minutes they exchanged social details and she was invited to a private party in the Hollywood hills.
- Pretty women at work get away with a lot more and have men offering them help. She works as a teacher and only gets help from the kids.
- Steve Harvey was right about men and women not being able to have platonic relationships.
- She doesn’t have any male friends. She fell in love with a gay male friend because she was getting male attention but it ruined their relationship.
- The only attractive feature she had in highschool was her butt, and the attention she received from it was ‘traumatic’.
I hope she doesn’t call into Kevin Samuel’s show.
She should really move from California. Not an ideal place if you want a black relationship.
She from Texas and a wench
I think it's her personality. She is way too full of herself. It's easy to say you don't benefit from being "pretty" but hard to address your internal problems. Saying you don't have pretty privilege is a scapegoat.
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So basic common shyt like being confident and funny is the "gift of gab"? If it's not more than what it is then why is it considered a gift?
I've made women laugh and am very confident, yet it doesn't make them want to fukk me... Those traits are very common. Why is it a gift?
In fact, the women who want to fukk me usually wanted to BEFORE I said anything.
See, I'm asking you to give an example of a time you used the "gift of gab". Think about the last woman you bagged. Now give me a summary that conversation between you and her. It should be easy. You guys love giving this vague ass advice without explaining how to put it into practice. This is what causes men to have approach anxiety. They get told this abstract shyt and end up overthinking.
My goal is to get men to see that the so called "gift of gab" is nothing but basic shyt that most men already do... A woman wants what she wants. Nothing you say can make her want you if she doesn't already. And if you disagree with that, then you'll have to give an example.
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aint no talking your way into a girl who doesnt want you there no type of game, confidence, humor that guna help you. when women say shyt like that they imagining a guy they already attracted to saying this. at that point if a girl into you it dont really matter what you say. everything will be easy
in life you get handed your talents and send off into the world. at some point you have to self evaluate and know your worth on every level and accept it. it's not worth having an eternal struggle over being short or ugly and other shyt you can't help. it's really just lame
one of the most unattractive things is lack of confidence for both sexes period. you have to project a level of self appreciation and self worth to even be attractive to the right kind of people. she's not fugly but her looks plus that trash persona detracts major points from her.
the way Black and Asian women chase white men when they have low self esteem is something so repulsive to witness in person that I cringe. As a man when a woman is that eager it's an actual turn off... comes off desperate.
one of the most unattractive things is lack of confidence for both sexes period. you have to project a level of self appreciation and self worth to even be attractive to the right kind of people. she's not fugly but her looks plus that trash persona detracts major points from her.
the way Black and Asian women chase white men when they have low self esteem is something so repulsive to witness in person that I cringe. As a man when a woman is that eager it's an actual turn off... comes off desperate.